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He drinks...
well i just met this guy and we've been getting to kno each other and i think im starting to like him and he feels the same way. and we went to the movies with our friends and he kissed me and everything. the problem is he used to be bad abd smoke and hes had sex and stuff. not thats not that big a deal because he doesnt anymore but im like really good and everything. like he drinks and thats the big thing between us if we ever wanted to date. he said its not often at all but still... i have a list of what guys have to not do if i date them and drinking uderage is one of the things. hes only 15. im 14. what should i do??? because i mean what if i start to really like him? thanks!! :)
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You have your specifications, and something like that is serious. If it makes you worried, even slightly [and asking this question shows me your worry about the situation], then you should set your foot down and let him know that if you are ever to date that you won't if he does that stuff.
I think that's fair. Besides, it's illegal. You're completely fine in desiring potential boyfriends don't do that stuff.
--Jack
(16/m)
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Tell him your feelings about him drinking. Next time he says he's drinking, say "You don't need to do that so just stop." If this guy really likes you, he will stop. Good luck!
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Wow I was in the same Situation last year. I like this guy but he did pot and that was against everything I believed in. So I had to make a decision, Wether to try things out with Him and see if the pot got in the way, Or Just forget about Him and stick to what I believe in. Well i decided to forget about Him. And i admit i made A HUGE mistake. SO seeing that your in the situation I wouldnt think twice about telling you to give him a chance. What happend with me was I totally like this guy right, and then i Didnt want to give up on everything that I believed in, and i Just thought it wouldnt work out, so when he asked me out, I told Him i wasnt ready, and he understood, But after that Everytime i saw him I kept getting more and more feelings for him, And i kept wondering what could of happend if i did give him a chance. And I liked Him soo much. So I started talking to him again. And we became good friends. Then i told him i Had feelings for him, And I guess what Goes around comes around, Cause He told me He had feelings for someone else ,and he was about to act on it. I felt bad for a few days, then I relized I had my chance and Lost it I shouldv gave Him a chance. So I think you should give him a chance. If he does drink more than he says and You dont like it then You can Breakup with Him. But At least you would never have to wonder if it wouldv worked out or not. And also he can only drink maybe a few times a month, but now hes busy with you so he Would cut back Even more. There are so many more good possibilities FOr if you go out with Him. But iTs up too you. So I would Give him a chance and see what happens. Hope I Helped. and GOODLUCK!.
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