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Me and my boyfriend of almost 3 months had sex on monday, for the first time. I love him so much :) , but then someone told me that if you have sex that soon, then you get bored of each other and you stop talking and just have sex. Is this true? I want to be with him for a long time.
Tell me what you think, thanks. (link)
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this all depends on the two people involved. it can be true in some cases. in many that i have heard of BUT NOT ALL. don't have sex 24-7 obviously. keep your relationship intesesting. don't be afraid to say not to having sex with him again if you think you are doing it too much but DO talk to him about it. don't stay in all the time and if you do enjoy yourselves, play board games, cards, watch a movie, go to the park. keep the relationship interesting. also sex can be made interesting too. not by toys or anything lol but different times, places, and all that fun stuff!!! but keep in mind, if YOU DONT act addicted or are addicted to it, it will help him not be addicted. basically i believe you guys can be together and unbored of each other if you enjoy each others company not body. so good luck, hope you guys stay together for a long time!!! :)
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does anyone belive in long distance relationships? Does anyone have advice on how to make them work? (link)
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well i have done the long distance thing twice. first time it didnt work, you'd think id stop :). but i didnt. so now i am in this relationship where my bf is in college at cali and me in nevada. people tell me all the time how do you trust him when he is in college and away. my answer is because thats just it I HAVE TRUST. in my first relationship, i didnt. the first thing that i believe you need to have is TRUST and HONESTY 100% without it you wont make it. the other thing would be to try to have communication occasionlly. my bf and i talk every night on the phone usually an hour to three call us crazy huh. and throughout the day we txt when we have time. so basically you have to try harder in a long distance relationship and have trust, i can not say that enough because it is a huge factor.
but then if you are asking about men or women in the army and leaving a loved one that i dont know about. i have known people who have left to go to the army and left someone behind and it never worked out but i know their are tons of more people out their who have made it work. in that you just need to be patient and hopefully they come back.
i can tell you this much army or a state apart or two hours away when that person comes and sees you the feeling is incredible and depending on how much you love that person and care about them your eyes light up while they are there with you and a huge "kool aid" smile :) and it doesnt go away and the feelings amazing. its worth the wait and i believe it makes your relationship stronger.
so all in all. good luck if you have a long distance relationship or if you are considering it. :)
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i really like this guy and we're hanging out in a few days. he wants me to choose what we're gonna do but i have no idea what to do. does anyone know of some fun things/places to do/go? i need helpp :(
oh by the way im 16. (link)
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okay so i had the same problem but not so much anymore.
so here are some ideas:
-go out to eat (breakfast,lunch,dinner)
-movies at the theater or someones house
-out to the park
-golfing
-lake
-swimming
-a friends place
depends on where you live as well.
good luck with this and hope i helped hun!
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So, I'm dating a man I've known for a long time. I'm white and he's black. When people see photos of us together or hear about him, for some reason they always have to comment and say things like 'Oh he's black..." or "I'd never thought /you'd/ date a black guy."
I don't understand what the problem is personnaly, I love him and he's so fantastic.
I was wondering though, when you see a white girl and a black man, what do you automaticaly assume or think? Just interested to know.
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I think they make a very cute couple :). My bf thinks that when two white people date their kids dont come out pretty but thats not about dating thats about marriage. My bfs white and Im indian but caramel skin color. We really havent had comments like that but interracial relationships aren't terrible, their actually good, at least I think so.
Plus if you like him dont worry about other people, they shouldnt matter. If your going to have a relationship with this guy and you like him thats all that matters or should. You dont want other people ruining something that might lead up to marriage ;) jk well that might just be a really good relationship.
Stay "tute" together :) hun
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so my boyfriend sometimes says things like tomorrow we're going shopping...what kinda ring do you want? or you're perfect lets get married...or That finger would look even more beautiful with a big diamond ring on it...and stuff like that. is he just joking around or does he really want to get married? i'm 17 and he's 19 which is legal where i live but we've only been together for a few months and i deffiently don't want to get married but he says he loves me and blah blah blah...so i dont know what to think/say when he says stuff like this. I usually just laugh or something but yeah...it kinda weirds me out. (link)
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well hunny no one can tell you if hes joking or being serious but you, sounds weird huh, but the thing i think you should do is just sit him down and ask him have a serious conversation about this bc marriage is a very important part of your life and if hun you dont want to get married then tell him your not ready like if you guys werent ready to be intimate then you should tell the other person bc youd rather enjoy it then just do it with one not wanting it. If he loves you, he'll give you time to think about it and then go from there but sweetie try to talk about it okay and good luck!
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background:im 16/f
bf is 15/m
been dating 1 week short of 6 months.
live 30 mins away, and see each other once on the weekends.
do u think its weird that i told my bf i love him on april 27 and he didnt say it back because he said he wasnt ready.and he still hasnt said anything?
its fine that hes not saying it because i take sayin " i love you" seriously and all.but i just think its weird he hasnt said it.i dont want to push him. but i'd like another guys opinion.
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so hun im not a guy sorry but i said i love you to my boyfriend for 2 yrs ago now and it was after the first or second week we started dating, we saw each other very little as well, i thought i was stupid bc i had to say it first and it seemed too quick to me but after 2 yrs of being together it doesnt seem like the wrong thing at all. sometimes true love surprises you when you lest expect it.
so i dont think its weird you told him because if you mean it and you know its serious then dont worry you said how you felt and thats good thats very good you can express yourself.
and yes you dont want to rush him but just give him some time and if he says it then go from there and if not he might be not to sure but you just dont want to push him to say it because sweetie youd rather have him say it and mean it then just say it to make you feel better bc that hurts so much more then him just not saying it.
sorry i couldnt give you a guys opinion but i hope i helped you out and just give it some time hun and see what happens!
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13/f
I've had a few boyfriends , but mostly we just hung out & stuff , no real dates.Today , I went on a date with the guy I've been with for like a couple weeks.I was just wonder how anyone else's first or first few dates were ?
Oh and we went to the movies. (link)
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my first date was at the movies as well with me, my date my best friend and his best friend. it was fun we stayed together for almost a yr and then broke up damn i wish it wasnt like that bc i wanted my first date to be with that prince charming and thats it but anyways hopefully you guys stay together for a while and have more awesome dates!!!
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13/f
***soon to be freshman***
so there is this guy i like. his name is tyler. he flirts a lot. we dont realyl hang out much. but he flirts a lot and i think i do to. we have like 2 weeks of school and i dont know if he likes me or not. and i am really old fashioned and i dont think that girls should ask out guys... what should i do? (link)
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o.k hun lets see i think you guys should keep talking and if you dont feel right asking him out then dont plus at the end of the year most schools have yearbooks and sign his and he'll do the same make sure u give him your number even if he doesnt give you yours. dont think that you have to ask this guy out. if he really likes you he'll do it...unless hes really shy but he cant be if he flirting with you but then again you never know but keep talking and hanging out and so on and just make sure you sign his yearbook :) sounds pretty easy huh but i guess you could say it is and enjoy your summer love!!! good luck...
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15/f.
me and my bf have been dating almost 6 months. and i wanna get him something for our anv.im hoping he'll remember,lol.
anyways. he LOVES music, hes in a band and he never stops listening to it. i thought about making him a CD. but he already has so many and stuff. any other ideas?
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How about you just make him that cd because he should like anything you give him first off :) but us girls want everything to be special hehe so think about other things he likes...other music get him that or try to go out to his favorite restaurant and celebrate your anniversary there. if you guys are having good weather go out somewhere like the park and have a pinic with his favorite food not just like sandwichs :) think about things he likes and his favorite hobbies and go with that. Plus you dont
have to get him a gift you guys could just do something special or try to go to where you first met...my 2 yr anniversary is coming and im going to ask for advice on the same thing :) except its been 2 yrs so you'll see my question soon :) but i just need ideas...so good luck and happy anniversary to you both hun!!!
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well today i told my boyfriend that i had sex with another guy back in december when i cheated on him and he called me a slut but then he was the one who had like 25 girlfriends and slept with all of them i feel really bad for sleeping with the person i cheated with. am i a slut or did he make a bad judgement (link)
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hun i think the problem in this relationship is that you guys call and think each other are sluts :) but seriously i dont think you should feel that way about each other but maybe im wrong and also why be in a relationship if you will cheat on the guy your with but maybe that will be a long story so nevermind lets just say no your not a slut because you sleep with one guy, i dont know why people believe that.
[SLUT] a woman considered sexually promiscuous, (having casual sexual relations frequently with [different partners]) and/or a woman prostitute.
Key word right there DIFFERENT not ONE so no hun your not a slut dont let it get to you...
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An ex-boyfriend who I dated for 2 months when I was 15 is STILL trying to contact me.
It wasn't even a real relationship. There were a few kisses, but nothing sexual and no "I Love You's". But I WAS his first girlfriend so I can kind of see why, but we all kind of know he is still in love with me.
He has tried a few times to contact me through my friend online, saying that he just wants to be friends again. Truth is, I always forget that I ever went out with him and that he even exists. It was such a long time ago (about four years) and never a big deal to me.
I have no interest in speaking to him again. That was YEARS ago and we're not the same people. I don't hold anything against him, we didn't even have anything in common!, but he really creeps me out.
What should I write back to him to set him straight? I don't want to sound like a bitch but I want to make my point. I kind of want him to know that he didn't really mean anything to me and that he should quit being so heartbroken about it and just drop it.
Also, is this something I should tell my boyfriend about?
I probably never mentioned this guy to him, but my boyfriend might be pissed about it. Nevermind, I probably won't tell him if it's not that big of a deal.
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If you and your boyfriend have been dating for a while now then first off tell him about it. if he can be an understanding boyfriend he will. with your other guy problem hes probably so "attached" to you because you were his first girlfriend and be honest with him and just tell him how you feel wheather you sound like a bitch or not because if you were in his shoes would u want some guy making you wonder how you felt about him. try to tell him i have a boyfriend i like him or love (whichever way you feel) and be nice about it and just tell him the truth and if that still doesnt work just dont do anything sooner or later he will and i promise you this that he will move on. good luck hun, hope it helped!
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why do i never get asked out?
im not bragging or anythng, but whenever i go out guys always stare at me or smile at me or stuff like that, but they never approach me or talk to me except on rare occasion.
why is this? (link)
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well how about you say screw it and you be the outgoing one (not to outgoing) :) and start up the conversation and see where it goes from their, because a lot of guys are just i wouldnt say dumb but clueless...is that the right word? but hey at least they can smile and stare at you but try talking to them bc by waiting around nothing will happen and just maybe thats what the guys waiting for is an outgoing girl that will come talk to him??? Good luck hun!!!
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17/f and he's 17/m. i broke up with my first bf cause i really felt nothing for the 4 months we've dated. it was mostly lust. i felt no love. it was more of a status thing. i did like him though. thus, i didnt feel bad when i broke it off.
well, first, he acted all cool like..whatever, man. i could get 10 chicks better than you in a day. so i'm like..ehh who cares..?
and so now...he's beginning to act like a begging dog. he stares at me with these puppy eyes..and gives me looks and weird gestures..and when he hugs me..he hugs me unusually tight and touches me like when we were in a relationship...its not a friendly hug. which is exactly what we are right now. friends. yet he doesnt understand this...
well, today..he told me that im perfect..and asked me to reconsider my decision..i didnt say anything. and then he told me to tell him whether or not i love him anymore.
honestly, i don't know what to do about him. i like him...but i wouldn't wanna go back. how do i let him down easily? cause i'm not too sure he's being serious either.
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so try telling him that their are many fish in the sea and its a great big ocean :) jk how about telling him sorry be kind about it obviously but if you dont like him at all and see this relationship going anywhere tell him you want to stay friends because you werent happy in a relationship with him and you beleive that being friends is what you need to be right now and if later down the road for some reason you even consider dating him again tell him that just for now you want to stay friends and leave it at that. either you'll find someone else or he will but dont make him tag alone for a ride that you dont want him to be on because if he did that to you you would hate it so just be sincere about you wanting to stay friends and good luck...why cant we just find that right guy right away without all the little ex's :) good luck sweetie
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my question is how do you get her to be over him and she want's a realtion ship with me (link)
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ah hun dont try to get her over him...ive seen people do that and they say their over that person and its a lie. she has to get over him when shes ready to. if she just says yeah im over him or you help her get over him then she could go back to him or for that matter cheat on you. so hun be patient and diffently be their for her when she needs your help. good luck
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Well couple of weeks ago my boyfriend had girls over at his house & he lied about it. Well now i just cant trust him & its so hard not to be with him all the time to make sure , he lives in a neighborhood FULL of freaking whores & his friends are the greatest influence on him either. He says he's getting tired of it because i always have some smart stuff to say about it , Im just SOO scared its going to happen again even though he says its not but im scared because of my scaredness & not trusting him that its eventually going to break us up because he says he's already tired of it , idk what to do & tomorrow he's getting his license so it makes things worst on my part . idk what to do , helpppp ! (link)
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first off hun how long have you been together? and how many times ahs he lied to you about any problem like this so let me know and ill try to get back to your question with as best of advice as i can. get back me hun...if you can
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ever since me and my last boyfriend broke up people wont date me because they think im a whore but ive only dated 3 guys this year do you think im a whore or whats up (link)
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not at all just because you date 3 guys in a year your not a whore. He or the other guys you dated could of started saying that bc they were jealous you dated other guys. people are dumb and they beleive what they hear which is really dumb. Advice dont date guys at your school lol its hard bc you cant see them enough but let me tell you it saves so much DRAMA!!! and if your like anyone you hate drama...but the rest is up to you hun and just dont listen to them theirs more guys out their...
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17/f
My boyfriend and I are both super indecisive and can never think of anything to do. Any ideas? (link)
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A lot of ideas so instead of going to your typically movie and a dinner which gets boring and expensive lol try going to the park and having a pinic its almost summer why not right or go swimming, watch a romantic (or whatever type) of movie you like just at home on the couch and cuddle, go to the mall or a hike. It shouldnt matter what you guys do as long as you guys are spending time with each other that should be enough fun...hope I could help hun!!!
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