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am i a slut
well today i told my boyfriend that i had sex with another guy back in december when i cheated on him and he called me a slut but then he was the one who had like 25 girlfriends and slept with all of them i feel really bad for sleeping with the person i cheated with. am i a slut or did he make a bad judgement
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You are not a slut if the guy you slept with is the guy you like. If you did it to get back at him then yes you are. Sex is something that should be for couples that have feelings that are going to last a while. It should never be used as a act of revenge. Hope I answered your question.
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he could be joking
or he could be serious
but yeah only you could have told...
no you are not a slut for sleeping with one guy. Maybe he is just trying to reverse the situation to make you seem like the bad guy.
-hayley
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He might have just been joking---
If he wasn't then he is still probably upset that you cheated on him. See- He insults you to make himself feel better. Just try not to let it get to you. =]]]]]
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you're defiantly not a slut, but doing repeating it would make you a "slut" and a "player". As long as you regret those actions it's okay. Your boyfriend is uspet and that's why he called you a slut, but don't take it to heart. Just don't do something like that again. Why did you date someone who had "like 25 girlfriends" anyway? " Forget about what he said, don't listen to it. At least you told him the truth which was a nice, honest thing to do. But I don't think the relationship can be repaired after that damage.
Hope I helped
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Labels are used in anger, they are used to manipulate and as titles, which one is this. You are taking it as a title, you want to wear it, go right a head. Go get yourself one of those greeting stickers that says, "Hi my name is", then in black magic marker write in big bold letters, "WHORE".
Ya, you can tell how serious I take labels can't you?
It is not what other people think you are. It is not even what you think yourself to be. You are what your actions reveal you to be.
He thinks that one act of sex makes you a whore, you are unsure, let's get to the real test, did your actions reveal you as one? First question, did you take money for the act? I don't know the answer to that. Two, do you do this as a regular thing and not care who it is you do it with? Not according to what you have stated. Three, do you actively walk the streets at night looking for sex partners? Again, I can't answer this one either.
So, you got one out of the three question answered, so for me it's up in the air, you have not given me enough information to decide this one.
The only thing I see here is a guy who doesn't care enough about you to help you explore why you did this, he would rather call you a name and leave. Have you learned enough about this guy to know if he is right guy for you yet?
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hun i think the problem in this relationship is that you guys call and think each other are sluts :) but seriously i dont think you should feel that way about each other but maybe im wrong and also why be in a relationship if you will cheat on the guy your with but maybe that will be a long story so nevermind lets just say no your not a slut because you sleep with one guy, i dont know why people believe that.
[SLUT] a woman considered sexually promiscuous, (having casual sexual relations frequently with [different partners]) and/or a woman prostitute.
Key word right there DIFFERENT not ONE so no hun your not a slut dont let it get to you...
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Slut is a stupid label that is used to make people feel bad about themselves. You and him both know you cheated on him and he is obviously upset about it which is why he is calling you this. I hate the double standard in this world that involves women being sluts because they have sex with someone. Anyways I don't think you are a slut. I'm sure you feel bad for what you did and that alone makes you a good person. A good person isn't someone who is perfect, it's someone who learns from their mistakes. So no you are not a slut, you just made a mistake, like we all do. The important thing is to learn from our mistakes.
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