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So I've never really had to buy my girlfriend anything because my mom always took care of all of that. But last year, my gf found out that I don't personally buy her presents and she got all upset. Now, she wants me to go out and buy her her present this year by myself. My mom refuses to help me now. I've really never done this before and you don't have to believe me but it's true. Anyways, this is what I have so far:
100$ Abercrombie card (her fav. store)
50$ Hollister or Forever 21 card (her second fav.--I'm not sure which yet though)
And these earrings her sister helped me pick out. They're pink sapphires with pearl on top they're pretty nice.
But I can see my gf's face when she sees these..."oh gift cards...thanks babe..." She might like the earrings more though...I don't know. I'm already spending 250$ on all of that--I'll put in maybe like 75 more. Does anyone have any ideas? (link)
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I think she'd appreciate actual gifts (like the earrings) more than the gift cards. It's sweet that you are spending so much money on her, but it's always better when it is personal. Maybe try finding pink bracelets or a pink necklace or pink rings to match the earrings. Us Girls tend to like things when they seem heartfelt rather than when its just a gift card. Gift cards are from friends who don't know you well enough to give a real gift. She won't care how much everything costs, as long as she knows it's from you and you put thought into it. Hope I helped.
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would it be considered taboo.. or incest for me to date my brothers fiances sister? i mean there is no blood connection.. hmm please help.. i dont knwo what to do (link)
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Nope, I know of a family where two brothers married two sisters.
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ok, well, my bf's friend asked me if i would make out with my bf and i said i would. you see my bf had never made out with anyone before. so when we went to the movies with him and our friends something happend. all the guys were calling him a wuss bc he has never made out before and stuff. so anyway in the middle of the movie he turns to me and says "look, i love you but i dont want to mess anything up so can i kiss you?" and i was like...um...yea ok. so he was like.."lets do it then". i felt REALLY werid. so then everyone came and sat by us so we kinda stoped talking or doing anything. so then about...i would say 10 mins past and he said "ok, i know this is gonna be akward but im sorry". so out of no where he starts to make out with me. and im not saying it was bad but it felt werid. so after 3 seconds i pulled back and said "this feels weird". and he said sorry and stoped talking. so now i feel bad. i mean, i want him to kiss me bc he wants to and bc he likes me. not bc his buddies are making fun of him! so the question is...should i tell him why i pulled away? and was it bad for me to pull away? sould i say sorry? im so confused so I BEG OF YOU! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!! theres some 5's involed : ). (link)
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He probably feels like he screwed up on the kissing end, so if I were you I would tell him why you pulled away. It wasn't a bad thing that you pulled away (I probably would have done the same thing if I were in your position), but you need to make him understand what the situation is. You don't have to be sorry about it because you had a valid reason. Just tell him how you feel and it should all work out. Hope I helped.
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there is this boy that i like alot. he is sweet,kind,and o so hot. but then there is this other guy same thing. but i like the first guy better than the second guy because he is older and more mature. i can't stop thinking about the first one. i am confused. but then i found out that the first one doesn't like me at all. he doesn't even care that i like him. he barely knows me and he is starting to hate me already. so here are my questions.
how can i get the first guy to start to get to know me?
who should i pick?
i will rate with reasonable answers (link)
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It's not fair to pick the second guy if you aren't really into him. WHen there is another guy in the picture, that makes the whole situation worse. Since the first guy doesn't like you, you should start trying to get over the first guy before you try to move on to anyone else. Hope I helped.
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i'm 14/f, and i've never had a boyfriend and i've never kissed anyone. a lot of people think that i'm the type of girl that can get any guy she wants, or the type of girl that has had a lot of boyfriends. i dont think i am that type of girl, and when i tell people that i've never had any experience with boys, they find it shocking to believe. is there something wrong with me? i'm not really shy, but i dont try to flirt with guys or anything like that. (link)
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There's nothing wrong with you. The guys are probably intimidated by you. Sometimes when guys think that girls are out of their league, they don't even try. Eventually the guys will grow up and get over it. Hope I helped.
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Me and my boyfriend (Greg)have been going out for almost 6 months.
Before I had no friends, and at the beginning of this year I started to hang out and become friends with his friends.
Then we started dating.
We are together almost all day every day,
because when I hang out with my friends, he is there too because they are his friends also.
I'm not saying I'm tired of this, I love being able to see my boyfriend all of the time. and I love him more than anything.
I can't help it if we have the same friends.
Is seeing my boyfriend every day unhealthy for the relationship? (link)
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I don't think it's unhealthy per sé, but you might want to start branching out and trying to get new friends. In case you two break up, you want to have someone that is not a link between you two. Hope I helped.
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theres this guy troy. i really like him and he likes me i think. we hung out today and he took me out to lunch and i donno we get along really good. and we were totally flirting. the only problem is..its my best friends ex boyfriend. their still friends a little..but she broke up with him...its notl ike he broke her heart...she treated him like shit. she doesnt know how lucky she was to have to boy like that! he drove to see her all the time, doesnt cheat, always called, and never canceled on her. hes soo hott too.and he met my mom today. and she likes him to. and were hanging out friday...and when he walked me back to my door today he gave me like the longest hug EVER...but hes my friends ex!! err idk what to do..help?
ps..when they broke up i told her shes going to regret it cause hes such a great guy...and she was like then you can have him..but she said it sarcastically...omgg i dont know.. :( (link)
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You've probably heard this a lot already, but you should just tell your friend the situation. There is no point in you having to miss out on a great guy just because she was stupid and treated him like dirt. Hope I helped.
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..alright so this has been bugging me forever, and i cant really ask my friends this question because they are going to support me of course but here it goes. In the past, i've had really cruddy relationships with guys. I've been in relationship where i've been used & gotten really hurt from it. But recently i meet this new boy. The one thing that completely seperates him from the rest of the boys i've had interest in is that he's not all bout getting in the pants. I meet him thru a friend at the movies, and there was sparks.. so the next night he came over. && meet my family. They all adored him. And like we didnt even do nething. He didnt like have the urge to leave the family and be alone, which i totally liked because no parents were home & we could have easily gotten away with "gettin with eachother" the next night.. he came over and we layed on my couch and cuddled. And nothing happened. And we were alone. No one was home. He didnt even try anything. The next day he came over. We just made out and i called him a tease because he always tickled me by my pants line and never went down. && thats just what im used to.. boy just goin straight in. Soo when he didnt i was like wow, even tho i wanted him to. So the next day he came over again, and we were all aloneeee for about 4 hours. We didnt do anything til the last hour, and he asked me why i called him a tease, and i explained. And then he ended up fingering me. Because i wanted it. And i was all happy with it or wateva. Then lator i realized, wow maybe i relaly fucked this up. because he wasnt like that, and i provoked him to be. I told him how i felt and he felt bad and said that he wudnt do it ever again and thought i didnt mind. Not to mention while he was doing it he kept asking if i was okay with it. And i said yeha, cuz i was. And hes been over every night after that.. for the past 3 nights and he hasnt tried it again. Do you think he likes me, or just wants to "get iwht me" HELPPP please..sorry sooo longg.. but i will rate 5's for sure! (link)
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He seems like a genuine guy and that he truly wants to be with you. It seems like he likes you and you should be grateful for that. It doesn't seem like he's given you any reason to doubt him. He didn't try anything until you told him to and then once it got uncomfortable he stopped. He's listening to how you feel and not many guys do that. Hope I helped.
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okay.. ive liked this kid nick now since the day i met him.. well he told me he liked me and then i became intrested in him. he asked me ou7t for the first time about a month ago, i said i dunno/ maybe. i like him alot.. but i have morals in my life.. and i wanted to get to know him more. after that he became somewhat depressed and figured that my maybe.. was considered a no.. which it wasnt. after that i regreted it. he asked me out again about 2 weeks ago, and i again said maybe, and i wanted to kno him more. im always afraid hes gunna loose intrest and just move on.. and i dont blame him. i like him so much, i just wanna get to know him more. we do act as a couple and we hold hands, cuddle and what not.. he kisses my head which is so cute. do you think he'll stay intrested? any adcice on what i should do?? pleaseee say yes!!!
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Eventually, he'll move on. I think for now he'll stay interested since you two are acting as a couple and what not, but what are you afraid of? Why not go out with him? You've known him for almost 2 months, so I'd think you'd be prepared to say yes or no. I do respect that you have morals, so all in all I think he will stay interested for now. Hope I helped.
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me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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If he REALLY wanted you, then he would have already started making plans with you. You've already put your heart on the line and had it broken. Also, he's the one that has to prove himself to you,not the other way around. I think you should let him bring the whole thing up. If he doesn't, then you know where his heart lies. You can IM if you want, but you shouldn't have to bring up the whole hanging out thing. Hope I helped.
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Alright, i feel silly asking this question but sometimes i feel weird that my boyfriend is a bit shorter then me. I love him very much and he loves me back even more and a feel like this could last for a long time. Should i talk to him about this (but i guess its not like this is going to change it) or what should i do? Am i stupid for feeling like this? (link)
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You're not stupid for feeling that way, but I don't think you should tell him. Guys' egos are damaged pretty easily and that wouldn't help the relationship much. I agree with what you said also about it not going to change. Unless you want him to start wearing platforms, the situation is going to remain the same. If you love him like you say you do, in time you won't even notice it. Hope I helped.
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(**names are changed**) ok so my bestest guy friend, *mike* told me that he liked my friend *mary*. now you see, i like mike...a lot-and i always have. ...and he doesn't know. so when mike told me he likes mary...i just pretended i was all cool with it and i was like 'OH MY GOD!!! do you want me to talk to her for you?' and all this other stuff. so i talked to mary for him and found out that she likes 4 other people. and i told him and he was all pissed about it. so then finally my other friend *tom* convinced mike to tell mary that he likes her. and when mike told her, she said "you know that martha (thats me) likes you right?...i can't do that to her, she's my friend" and what not. but mike didn't believe her when she said that i liked him. so then there was a build up of a lot of things...and i was just like "mary, you don't know how bad i want to tell mike that i like him...but at the same time, i don't." and she convinced me to really tell him. so i did...and now everything is really awkward. which i hate b/c like everytime something big like this happens, usually we're so cool about it and like, i can't look at him or anything. and i really want to talk to him about how i feel, b/c we are such good friends and we're so open...but this is such a touchy topic...that like i don't know if i should talk to him and risk looking like an idiot, or just wait till this all blows over...
sorry this was so long...advice on what to do? help/comments, anything! (link)
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The thing is there is a chance that it won't "blow over" and things could just be left awkwardly. Since you already put yourself out there and told him that you like him, I think you hsould go all the way through with it and just talk about the whole situation. If you guys are so open and so good of friends, you should be able to get it all worked out. Hope I helped.
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ok well this is the same person as the one when i wrote about my friend telling me my boyfriend doesnt like me anymore cuz he otl dher and its tru and i dont kno if i should dump him or wait for him and that might take a while cause my friend wasnt suppose ot say anything and id ont wanna get her introuble. please help and dont tell me to just talk to him cause hes nto the kinda person i can. hes a jerk and i should of never went out with him in the first place (link)
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If he's a jerk, then just dump him and leave it at that. Just say I can tell you don't like me anymore, so let's just end it. Hope I helped.
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omg i like him a lot! i just wanna ask him out! okay well lets start from the beginning-this kid moved to town and i hung out with him cuz he lived across the st from my best friend..and we talked and laughed and joked and flirted and i told him i liked him but he said he was confused cuz he liked a girl from where he used to live but then he told me he would possibly go out with me in the future? do i believe that or is that something hes saying so he doesnt have to put me down and be mean and i jsut wanna ask him out but i dont want him to just be like no! what do i say to him to let him know that i like him a lot and i care for him and i wanna be his girlfriend!! (link)
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Well, if you told him you liked him and flirt with him, then he probably already knows you like him a lot. Give him time to figure everything out, especially if he told you he was confused. When he's ready to let go of the girl from where he used to live, then you can figure out if you want to ask him out. Right now he doesn't seem ready, so just wait a while. Hope I helped.
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i just found out my bf is gay! i don't have anything against gays but i mean... it's my BOYFRIEND! what should i tell him and how should i react. this is really hard for me!
please help!
I rate high (link)
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How do you know he's gay if he hasn't told you? I think you should just be open with him about it because if it's not true he should know things are being said about him. If it is true, he would probably like some support and yeah it's weird that he's your boyfriend, but there's nothing you can do about it. Just be open with him, so he can be open with you. Maybe you two can talk the whole situation through and figure out what needs to be done. Also, you can't ask people how you should react. Only you know your feelings, so react the way that's natural. Not the way other people would react if they were in your situation. Hope I helped.
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Hi. My boyfriend and I have been dating for five months. Before we started dating we were best friends for 3 years. I don't feel like he is making enough of a effort to display his feelings for me. He never really says that much stuff to me. I know he likes me, though. What does this mean? (link)
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Maybe he's just shy and not really open with his feelings. A lot of guys have trouble conveying what they mean. You can either accept the fact and just kind of let it slide or talk to him about it and see what he says. Hope I helped.
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ok well i kinda like this guy but mi like best friend likes him also so i dont no wat 2 do? should i tell her? or just act normal and say nuthin? not really sure wat 2 do (link)
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I think you should just get it out in the open and tell her. If you guys get the whole thing situated now, it'll make things a lot easier later. If she liked him first, you might have to just kind of back off. Even if that's the case, atleast she'll know how you feel. Remember "chicks before dicks".Hope I helped.
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ok I broke up with my bf and from doing that my bf and his friends found me and beat me up pretty badly....i meen no broken bones but still pretty badly....so I was wonderin if he can get in like trouble 4 that because i kno like at school wen kids beat eachother up they dont get in trouble and i was wondering if this is like that...(my ex also did this to his last gf)....and is this my fault because thats how I feel..that its my fault...cuz my ex said that it was and it kind of is because im the one who chose to break up with him in the first place...and thats y he beat me up with his friends...well ya so do u think its my fault 2? (link)
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Of course this isn't your fault. You have the right to break up with the guy and by the looks of things it was the right choice. You need to tell the authorities ASAP!!!!! He should not feel like he has the right to beat girls period. Especially just because they chose to break up with him. Obviously he has some issues, but he needs to get arrested for what he did to you. He ASSAULTED you and that is against the law. He could get in a lot of trouble and he deserves it. When he gets in trouble, it will be HIS fault and don't let him make you think any differently. He chose to harm you. Get help as soon as possible. You need to stop him from hurting anyone else. Good Luck.
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My X-botfriend dumped me about a few months after he asked me out. I had liked him for a whole two years, and was really excited when he did. After he dumped me I was devistated, and we decided to stay friends. I saw him at a get together with all of our friends and some of the new ones. I don't know if it is just him, but he acted like we were still together. He huged me alot, and lied on my stumache, tickled me, and chased me. My friends acted afended, and kind of stand-offish when we acted like that. My friend says that he told her that he doesn't like me anymore, but to me, he acted like he still does. So here is my quwstion: How do I find out if he still likes me or not, so that I can move on in life?
P.S.
(I already tried asking, and my friends tried asking also!)
Can you help me? (link)
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I'm guessing that he's just flirting with you with no intentions of going out with you again. Some guys just have flirty personalities and act that way with girls (even if the girls are just friends). Don't read too much into it especially if he just dumped you and you've already asked around if he likes you. He might just not know how to interact with you other than the way he did when you two were going out.Otherwise, I'm not sure of a way to find out if he likes you other than just straight up asking him. Hope I helped.
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why is my ex trying to ruin the relationship im in with my new boyfriend robby?? i mean i dont like my ex and he has a girlfriend so why is he doing this to me?? (link)
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This is my own opinion and may not be right but I'm just putting it out there. I think guys are very territorial. Anything they once had any "claim" to, they feel like they still do even after you guys break up. He could be feeling jealous even if he currently has a girlfriend and just trying to do whatever he can to keep you away from anyone else. Sorry if that was completely off the mark and didn't help you.
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