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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...*~respect yourself~*
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15/m. well whenever i go on a date with this girl, i find it really hard to like talk. we both do. theres nothing really to say. weve talked about everything. ive asked about her, what she likes, what she doesnt etc and vice versa. there really is nothing to talk about. there will be odd moments of silence for like 1 minute or two when no one says anything.
Gday mate,
sometimes it's just hard to talk to people. it seems to me that she's not the right girl for you because you need to be able to talk in a relationship. if you have nothing to talk about then theres not really a point in continueing to date her.
i really really love this guy. but i told him that i thought i was in love with him and he acts like hes in love with me and he says stuff that makes me think he is but then he says hes not IN love with me he says he just loves me.. and so im confused... like he always tells me that i mean more to him than anyone and that he loves me so much and that he cares about me more than anyone else and stuff like that so what do u think??
Gday mate
Seems to me that he just wants to be friends. if you are happy with that then that's fantastic because it seems that he really cares about you. on the other hand it might be hard for you because if your IN love with him then you might need to be apart to get over him.
Okay, so to understand me i am going to have to go back in time and get some background and it might be long but please, i need the help. I am going to use some fake names otherwise it could get confusing.
SOO;; towards the end of the school year my bestfriend, Jason, told me that this kid Steve said i was hott so Jason said he would talk to me about him and see what i thought about him. I told Jason that i thought steve was realllly cute. So me and steve started to talk and then school was about a week till over for summer. Steve ended up telling me that he liked me and i told him i liked him too. THen STeve said "Wouldnt it be weird though since summer is coming and we will barely see eachother" but i had figured we woulda hung out. ((which we didnt)) everytime i would try he couldnt. So the entire summer has gone by and i still havent seen him and i havent talked to him in about 2 weeks or so. something like that. THen, whenever i will try and talk he doesnt talk back, like texting. So i have no clue if he doesnt like me or what. i think he may like this other girl...but i have no idea. i really need some help.
**sorry its longg =[ **
Gday mate,
Look, seems to me that steve isn't interested anymore. either that or he likes being pursued. best thing is to stop trying to contact him. that should wake him up a bit and if he likes you, he'll call you. he obviously knows how you feel so just leave it up to him. if he doesn't call then he totally isn't worth it so move on and find a guy that deserves you. good luck!
Ok. I am going to use real names because I don't feel the need to hide this.
I have a friend Taylor. We have been good friends for a while. I also have a best friend Dave.
Dave and Taylor were together, but not going out. They really liked eachother, understandable right?
Taylor "broke up" with Dave, then hated him for the last 4 months. For no reason at all, just wouldn't talk to him and made fun on him constantly. Dave hurt for a while, but finally got over it.
Dave and I have been extremely close ever since we met. Dave and I now are kind of, as you can say, together.
Ever since Dave and I have been together, Taylor has been trying to talk to Dave again, and asks me ridiculous questions about me and him and what we do. She said that him her and can only be enemies, or lovers. So what does that mean? If she is trying to talk to him, that might mean she wants to be lovers with him.
She insists she is over him and does not want him, but why is she constantly asking me about it? And flipping out on me about him. I think she still has feelings for him, which is understandable. But she has hated him for 4 months, and Dave would try to talk to her, but she was just such a BITCH to him that he got over her.
It's not my fault me and him like eachother, we cannot control feelings. I understand where she is coming from because it is her ex, but still, they are over, and she knows it.
I don't know what to do. I do not what to loose either of them. Taylor is just being very immature about this and said she might as well go hook up with my ex boyfriend Justin, so I would know how it felt.
Dave and I have been through A LOT together. Like, a mad amount of stupid shit we have done and gotten in trouble for. Taylor seems like it is right to bring those mistakes up to make me sound like a bad person.
I tried talking to her so many times.
Now I am thinking I should just end it wtih Dave so this whole thing would stop, no matter how much I don't want to.
Someone please help me, I really don't know what to do.
i've actually been in the same situation... from taylors point of view. my best friend fell for my ex. this wasn't just any ex. him and i were together for ages and thought we were in love. i realised i didn't really love him so i had to break it off. my best friend kat started getting a bit distant. she stopped returning my calls and didn't hang out with me as much. if she just told me straight up i would have been okay, but i found out from someone else. she finally fessed up and started going into detail about their sex life. i figure the best way to help you is to let you know what she is probably going through.
she feels that she is losing her best friend to her ex. and i'm sure she is a little jealous - thats only natural. but i'm wondering, did you consult her before you hooked up with dave? its just that if kat had asked me it'd be okay. she might not feel comfortable with it. i suggest you talk seriously with her and it may come down to you making a choice. taylor or dave?
Okay I just found out my ex is in Cali. going to the army and what not.It finially kind of hit me just now, that he could, in fact go to Iraj and die.And my friend asked me what would I do if he went to Iraj and die.And I didn't know what to say.It almost made me cry.Even if he put me through hell.And I tried calling him a few days ago , But he didn't answer.Basically, because I was curious how he was doing and what he was planning on doing in the future because I haven't talked to him in months.I don't want anything to do with him as in try to tell him I love him and miss him and what not.I have a boyfriend at the moment anyways.It's hard not to think about him and if he ever thinks about me.He does have a girlfriend that he left me for,But whatever.Back to what I was sayingg.He just called me just now and told me to be ready to pick up the phone tomorrow.And said he had to go because he had to go back to drills or something like that.And said bye.So I'm wondering tomorrow.. what I should say and what I shouldn't.I mean like.. would I miss you and love you be inappropiate considering I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend.I don't know, I'm confused.I just don't want to ruin anything with my current boyfriend,But I know deep down I miss him and I don't want to show it.I'm just trying to move on that's all.What do you think I should do?
You need to break contact with him. that's the best way to get over it. i know it's scary that he could die but that's not your problem anymore. he's your ex for a reason so try not to dig up the past. how do you think your bf would feel if he found out you missed your ex? you would be putting him through the same thing your ex put you through. if you still have serious feelings for your ex then end your current relationship. good luck.
James: one of my best friends ever
Joy: another best friend
In the beginning of the year, James liked me. im not going to go into detail about how i know,. but im positive. and anyway, i didnt think i did then. i was just so confused about it, so he found out that i didnt like him, and nothing ever happpened. but more recently, i've started to really like him. i actually think that i lov ehim, i really do. but my friend said that sheee thinks he likes joy, who i've been best friends with for more than 5 years. i kiund of see it. im pretty sure he doesnt like me. all i want is for him to be happy, and if thats going to make him happy, then i guess im glad. but it still hurts, a lot. especially since i dont think she likes him, and he's just going to end up getting hurt. i really don't want him to be unhappy, but at the same time, im really upset that he likes her and not me. should i feel so bad?
it always gets confusing when you fall for a friend, but i think he needs to make his own mistakes. if he gets hurt then, well thats life. she might actually like him. you could always ask her and if she doesn't get her to let him down gently before he gets too hurt. just be there for him and wait to see what happens.
Ok I am 13 and have never kissed a guy before and a lot of people make fun of me for it and call me virgin lips. I am really sick of the names, but I normally ignore it. So anyways today my best friend asked this guy who had just recently asked me out if he was going to kiss me. He said he wasn't sure because he didn't want me to reject him for a kiss. My friend was like oh don't worry she wont she wants to kiss you, and he was like oh ok then I probably will kiss her. But this is our first date and I am not sure if it is too soon. Plus we are going to a hockey game with a group of people. All my friends are like kiss him under the bleachers thats so hot, but I am nervous. Any tips on kissing? And please don't respond to me kiss him when your ready or it will come naturally, because i have heard way to much of that. SO HELP ME PLEASE!!
Thanks,
Virgin Lips :(
kissing is not that hard! it seems harder before you've ever kissed a guy. wait for him to make the move. thats his job! lol. let him take the lead. if he uses his tongue u use ures. dont get nervous and bite it! my cousin did - that was funny - just try to relax and have a soft mouth. just like softess..
hope i helped!
I'm really picky about the kind of guys I date, so when a guy asks me out, there's a good chance I'm going to turn him down. The thing is, I'm so bad at it! I either 1) panic and say yes, even though I don't mean it or 2) make up an excuse and hope he doesn't find out the truth or 3) ignore him and try to act like it never happened. It's so awkward & embarrassing! What are some good ways of telling a guy "thanks, but no thanks" in a straightforward but not rude way?
Being straightforward is as good as you can do. no matter what, if they like you, they will be upset. but its better to be upfront then to lead him on. a simple 'sorry i dont see you that way' will do fine. good luck mate!
ok well one of my best friends, jesse, also happens to be the guy i like. he knows about this, i told him. he was flirty afterwards. then he said he had commitment problems. so things remained the same, we were flirty and still good friends. but then something happened, jen told him that i said that he likes me (i actually just assumed he liked me).so he talked to me and said he doesnt like me "in that kinda way" because he has commitment issues. so i was hurt i guess becuz i thought he was gonna ask me out [again those stupid rumors. jen heard form his friend, margrot that he was gonna ask me out, but it wasnt tru] and then things didnt change. i thought they would. after about a week i was again convinced that he liked me. and then margrot told me that he didnt really like me thats just the way he was. like he always messes with girls minds. so now im trying really hard to get over him. no idea how to though, i see him everyday.i just wanna see him as a best friend and nothing more. i dont wanna be one of them girls with an unhealthy obsession. thanx.
SAM =)
one of the best ways to get over a guy is to move on. some people think it's wrong but i believe the whole rebound guy thing is great. it gives you the little reminder you need - there are plenty of fish in the sea.
So...I am 15 (soon to be 16) and this past Saturday, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We've been together for almost 3 months. His Dad found out and now I have a feeling that he is going to tell my mom. I want to tell her. I really do, but I think that she will be really disappointed in me. I was going to tell her tonight but I couldn't do it. Something told me that it wasn't a good idea, but then I get the feeling that I should because if she finds out from his dad, then she will be even more disappointed in me for the fact that I didn't tell her myself. I don't think she'll trust me ever again. And I have a feeling that she won't want me to see him anymore. I can already see what she is going to say. "You're only 15." or "How could you be so stupid?" or she will call me a slut...I don't know what to do. Should I tell her? Or not...
if theres one thing i've learned in my life is that you cant hide anything from your mum. best to tell her so she doesn't find out from his dad.
I am 20/male in college, but I am having trouble approaching a girl in one of my classes. I sit in the back and she sits in the front, and we leave in different directions after class. How can I approach her and what do I say once I do? The only reason I mention that we leave different ways is because I dont want to follow her out and look like a stalker or something. But I guess my biggest problem is just knowing what to say. Thanks
you can either slip her a note as you walk out the door (use the bathroom as an excuse) or just do it straight up. i'm 19 and i'd prefer if a guy just came up to me and asked me for coffee. that way i can say yes or if i wasn't interested say thanks for the offer but maybe some other time. just my point of view.
I am 20/male in college. I am really shy, and there's this girl in class that I want to talk to. The class is a psychology class and after doing personality tests, we found out that she was the shyest person in class (I thought for sure it would be me). Anyway, I dont know how to approach her or what to say to her. And I'd rather not use the results of the personality test as a conversation topic to start out. What should I do and say?
just be straight forward with her. just say hi and ask her if she'd like to go for coffee one day. the worst that can happen is she'll say no. go for it!
so i am going to sound rediculous, and this may be long, i appologize. but i am in a strong need of advice and this is the only place i can turn to without a biased opinion now.
i went out with this guy zach. he was really sweet but kind of immature. but i really liked being with him b/c he understood me like no other person ever has, he was a good boyfriend. well his immaturity got to me and i broke up with him, but we both thought it was only temporary, i know this.
we never stopped being best friends though, the day after we broke up it still didnt feel wierd. its a little bit mroe distant but that was my choice after this happened...
2 weeks later we were talking bout getting back together and we were flirty and he told me how much he loved me. well i have history with this girl in my school, we were friends and we got in a fight b/c she didnt get invited to my party [yea immature little fight that teenage girls get into, i know i was wrong but we all grow up] and instead of just being catty like any other teenage girl she went to the shcool and told them my dad beats me, i had bruises form volleyball but no my family is fine i never told her this she was just trying to cause drama. me and my sister almost got taken out of our house by social services, she thought this was funny. well her name is kelly.
and at this party zach was all over kelly they were cuddling in the bed, fell asleep together, and flirting alllllll night and every1 there [even he admits] that they were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend. this really hurt my feelings b/c it wasnt just any girl, which i would have been upset but not say anything, but he knows what she did to me and he was the one i was crying in the arms of when social services told me and my sister we were going to be taken into foster homes [they didnt b/c lack of evidence, me and my siste rof course denied everything]
it felt liek he betrayed me... i tried to mention it but all he said was "im not replacing you with kelly" and i told him it was about alot mroe than that, he will just make me feel like im being over jealous.
today he asked me out again, he did that with kelly last sunday. i told him im gonna have to think bout it, that hurt me but we are great together. he gets me more than anybody and i love hanging out with him but the kelly thing will always bother me =/
ONE MORE ISSUE, i dnt have alot of time... there is this guy Matt that is the sweetest guy ever. he likes me soo much and i liekd being with him, he makes me feel really good. he's friends with my friends and really the perfect personality but im not sure he knows me at all... he likes me but i feel liek if i let out my crazy side or my temper gets the ebst fo me he will not expect it and think of me differantly
so the questiosn to answer :: should i dump zach? or go for matt?
simply, i think you should dump zach. he was doing it to get at you wether he says so of not. kelly is obviously a bitch and he stepped over the line by going for her. i suggest you give it a try with matt. who knows, he might like your quirky side :) one way to find out!
my boyfriend does weed.... it pisses me off... i wish he would quit... he tells me that he is going to do it less... weekends and one day on the weekdays.... he does it too much... he hasnt stuck with it... i dont know what to do... should i tell him its either me or that or should i tell him to cut down and if he doesnt im going to have to let him go ? i love him sooo much ... i wanna marry this kid... i just wish he was more addicted to me rather than that... its seems like that is his first priority... i hate it... what should i do? please help..
you need to give him the ultimatum. as long as you dont do anything to make him stop, he's not going to. tell him it you or the weed. do you really want to marry a guy that wont even sacrifice weed for you? you should be his number 1 priority. do what you gotta do.
facts::
im 16/f
hes 17/m
been together 7 months
how do you when youre just getting used to someone as opposed to not havin feelins anymore and wantin to break up?
its been eatin me up inside for a few days, but i dont want to do something ill regret [especially because over the past 7 months theres been times when ill think were just friends and its like my feelings are gone, but then something happens that makes me realize that i do love him alot]. and we dont believe in the whole "takin a break"/open relationship kinda thing.
by the way its my first serious relationship if that helps and we are VERY serious about each other [even promised to each other] but now i dont know what to do.
my first serious boyfriend lasted 6 months. i broke it off cause i was experiencing the same things as you. i knew i loved him but it seemed like the friend way. if you were romantically in love with him you would know it. as it was my first too, i was confused. but i broke it of and was glad i did. hardest thing i ever did but it was for the best.
this is just one situation and yours may be different, but hopefully i helped
angie
13/F
me and this guy were going out last year. it wasnt very serous we didnt really talk. we were 12 gimme a break. and so he broke up with me right before school started and then in like november he said it was the biggest mistake of his life blah blah blah so we started going out again and this time it got wayy serous and it got a little to much for me and then we both changed our feelings and broke up on friday and now i kind of miss having a boyfriend but i dont miss him. anyways now hes telling my friends he still likes me and he kind of hinted he wants to get back together. i hinted back that i dont want to and told my friends i dont want to go out with him. a few of my friends like him and i know it wont work out and im pretty sure hes just using me because he wants a girlfriend. but also, if he really is nice and sincere i dont want to hurt him. and if he is just a jerk i dont wanna play into his game. how can i tell? it seems like he only says sweet stuff when he wants somthing. wich is kind of annoying. like hes working twords a goal and him being sweet is only to help him achieve this goal. omg this is very long sorry!
honey, you need to just end it for good. you obviously dont have feelings for him in that way and he's just playing with your mind. even if he's nice & sincere, you cant string him along for ever so just break it of for good.
Hey! i'm sarah and i'm 17 years old me and my boyfriend have been going together for at least 3 years and i was wondering what should i get him for valentines's day since this is the first time we celebrated valentine's together
well as much as guys hate to admit it, they love romantic things. you could give him a photo album with photo's of you two and write 100 reasons why you love him. or you can blindfold him and take him to a memorable place and have a picnic set up. if you want to spend lots of money on him, get him a peice of jewelery.
hope i helped!
angie
Our first date was tonight---me and this girl...I think i'm in love...is that possible or irrational?
it is certainly possible. but a warning to you. take it slow. nothing like a guy saying i love you after the first date to scare a girl off! just keep it to yourself for now and see where the relationship leads.
angie
So i did stuff with my ex boyfriend who has a girlfriend then i told her cuz i felt bad about it but i still really like this guy but anyways she wont let him talk to me anymore now..how can i get him to talk..ive tried emailin he wont write back he doesnt see them cuz she deleted them first or he just doesnt write back he knows my voice on the fone so he hangs up wen he knows its me and hes always with her wen i see him ..i really need to get some answers from him, but i cant get him to talk..any idea?
honey, you should learn the most important dating rule, never go back. he is an ex for a reason. and if he cheatin on his girl with you, what makes you so sure he wouldn't do it to you if you did end up getting back together? your best bet is to leave it alone. let him have his life and find yourself a new guy.
22/f
Ok I I love to do karaoke and I met this really cute guy *Kurt there a couple weeks ago. He is really nice and is good to have conversation with. when i met him I thought he was like 21-23 yrs old. He looks really young. Turns out he is 31.That didn’t really bother me like I think it should have. We have kissed a couple times but nothing more then that. Is this wrong of me? Am i too young to be doing this? I could really use some advice on this!!!! Please help!!!!!!!!!
Go for it honey! age doesn't matter! my friend is 19 and she's been with her 30 year old boyfriend for a year. they are totally in love and are engaged! age doesn't matter! also, it's a fact that males mature later then females so it actually works out better to date an older guy. good luck girl!