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conversation problems
15/m. well whenever i go on a date with this girl, i find it really hard to like talk. we both do. theres nothing really to say. weve talked about everything. ive asked about her, what she likes, what she doesnt etc and vice versa. there really is nothing to talk about. there will be odd moments of silence for like 1 minute or two when no one says anything.
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Sometimes when you cannot find anything to talk about it is because you don't have enough in common or there is something that you want to talk about, but can't. Maybe you need to kiss her or hold her hand. sometimes people are more comfortable communicating physically first before they do verbally. Another thing, get used to the silence so that you are not uncomfortable. Silence is good that means that she is thinking about you and you can think about her.
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Gday mate,
sometimes it's just hard to talk to people. it seems to me that she's not the right girl for you because you need to be able to talk in a relationship. if you have nothing to talk about then theres not really a point in continueing to date her.
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If the problem is there's just nothing to talk about, then I would take the girl on a date somewhere that gives you something to talk about. Like to a baseball game, or bowling. Something like that. Things would most likely loosen up, and you'd find a ton more to talk about. Or you could always go to a movie, where no talking is needed. :]
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