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Ex going to the army..
Okay I just found out my ex is in Cali. going to the army and what not.It finially kind of hit me just now, that he could, in fact go to Iraj and die.And my friend asked me what would I do if he went to Iraj and die.And I didn't know what to say.It almost made me cry.Even if he put me through hell.And I tried calling him a few days ago , But he didn't answer.Basically, because I was curious how he was doing and what he was planning on doing in the future because I haven't talked to him in months.I don't want anything to do with him as in try to tell him I love him and miss him and what not.I have a boyfriend at the moment anyways.It's hard not to think about him and if he ever thinks about me.He does have a girlfriend that he left me for,But whatever.Back to what I was sayingg.He just called me just now and told me to be ready to pick up the phone tomorrow.And said he had to go because he had to go back to drills or something like that.And said bye.So I'm wondering tomorrow.. what I should say and what I shouldn't.I mean like.. would I miss you and love you be inappropiate considering I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend.I don't know, I'm confused.I just don't want to ruin anything with my current boyfriend,But I know deep down I miss him and I don't want to show it.I'm just trying to move on that's all.What do you think I should do?
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You need to break contact with him. that's the best way to get over it. i know it's scary that he could die but that's not your problem anymore. he's your ex for a reason so try not to dig up the past. how do you think your bf would feel if he found out you missed your ex? you would be putting him through the same thing your ex put you through. if you still have serious feelings for your ex then end your current relationship. good luck.
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Best thing for you to do is to tell him you still care for him as a friend, and you wish him the best and to keep you updated.
Yea it would be pretty wrong of you to tell this guy you loved him and you have a boyfriend. Think about it like this. If your current boyfriend told his ec he loved her and you found out about it how would you feel?
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