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to kiss or not to kiss LOL
Ok I am 13 and have never kissed a guy before and a lot of people make fun of me for it and call me virgin lips. I am really sick of the names, but I normally ignore it. So anyways today my best friend asked this guy who had just recently asked me out if he was going to kiss me. He said he wasn't sure because he didn't want me to reject him for a kiss. My friend was like oh don't worry she wont she wants to kiss you, and he was like oh ok then I probably will kiss her. But this is our first date and I am not sure if it is too soon. Plus we are going to a hockey game with a group of people. All my friends are like kiss him under the bleachers thats so hot, but I am nervous. Any tips on kissing? And please don't respond to me kiss him when your ready or it will come naturally, because i have heard way to much of that. SO HELP ME PLEASE!!
Thanks,
Virgin Lips :(
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My tips: Don't tell anyone about it. Don't do it in front of your friends. Don't feel pressured to do it so soon. Your first kiss should be special. Do it when it feels right. Don't turn it into a huge scene where you're sharing it with more than one person. The reason why you have heard those things so much (do it when it feels right, it comes naturally) is because they are true! There is no right way to kiss. Everyone has their own way of doing it and their own technique. The only, only, only way to learn how to do it is to do it. Some people may give you tips on what to do or how to do it, but that's just their style. You're not them. You're totally different and should have your own style. All you have to do is feel the moment, lean in, close your eyes, and kiss. It's not complicated. The more you think about it the worse of a kisser you will be. Spontaneous kissers are always better than kissers that have a plan in mind of what they're going to do. It took me a long time to become a good kisser and to enjoy it at all in any way because I was trying so hard. As Yoda would say...don't try. Just do it. It'll be fine. Remember too, that it's okay to be nervous and even apprehensive. Good luck! :)
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kissing is not that hard! it seems harder before you've ever kissed a guy. wait for him to make the move. thats his job! lol. let him take the lead. if he uses his tongue u use ures. dont get nervous and bite it! my cousin did - that was funny - just try to relax and have a soft mouth. just like softess..
hope i helped!
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