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I miss my friend


Question Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 9:26 pm

At the end of 6th grade my friend, Brady transferred schools. I've been tolerating it until the end of 7th which is now. (13/f) But I don't know if I can put up with the fact that... he doesn't know me as good anymore. See... the thing is... in 6th grade I was such a weird girl and he was such a weird guy but in a REALLY cool way, and he was the only guy that accepted my weirdness in my personality. And I loved that about him! I really miss his personality. I see him at hockey games but it's not the same... :(
I wore make-up at the game and I didn't in 6th grade when I knew him but... when he saw me he just looked at me weird then laughed. I don't know what to do!! He's not acting weird around me anymore... he's changed... and I can't act the same way I used to around him since I haven't seen him in sooooooo long. But he IMed me on AIM a few weeks ago but then he signed off right before I had a chance to reply!! I used to IM him but he was never there it was always one of his parents at the computer so eventually I just gave up. I really miss his great personality... I know I sound sappy but i'M JUST AN IDIOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it's so hard to keep in touch with him. i .... idk.
please help me!!


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Additional info, added Wednesday March 7 2007, 9:30 pm:
it's just so hard to let go of the friendship. i miss it when we used to pass notes and make fun of each other...
and he would always make fun of my dancing that was done bad on purpose..
he always used to steal my notebooks and pencils and put his feet on my desk....
it's too hard to forget about who he was and that we've both changed and...
i don't want it to be history
thanks so much<33333
~ lauren
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DearAbby92 answered Thursday March 8 2007, 12:02 am:
Why not send him a we havent talked in a while email? Or call him? The only way to stay in touch is to put in some effort. Ask about his new school, and friends, and life, and the more you talk the more comfortable it will be. Im sure you two can have a friendship again. But some people just change and grow up, and no one can do anything to help it. If that happened to him, dont take it personally. Its just life.

Good luck!

-Abby

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