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I'm 15/female.
Here's what's going on... I was in a relationship with this guy, we'll call him Keith. Keith is 20, he'll be 21 in 15 days (no this isn't about age or anything, because I'm mature for my age, he's immature and where I live, we're legal), so Keith and I have known eachother for about 2 months, we dated for just over a month. During that time, we spent pretty much all our time together, I stayed over at his house for a week at a time, several times, and hung out with him all the time. Our relationship was going really really well, like don't get me wrong, we fought and everything but it was the type of relationship where we would fight, but we'd talk everything out afterwards and make everything work. So, what happened was, I found out he was engaged to his baby mama who lives an hour away who he rarely sees, and he liked and was cheating on me with another girl who was dating my other ex-boyfriend as well. So I found out while I was at an all-ages night club, called him and broke up with him. At the club, I was with this other guy, we'll call him Tyler. Tyler's 16 and last year, around March or April, I got pregnant with his kid, but ended up having a miscarriage at about 2 months along. Since then, we've stayed very good friends, and we spent the entire summer together, until we were very stupid, broke into a house together and got caught. Now I have a non-assosiation order with him, and I didn't see him in 6 months until boxing day which was the day before we went to the club. ANYWAYS, so Tyler and I were kissing and acting like a couple at the club, and his friend told me he though we might start dating, and I felt the same way, until the cops showed up and arrested him for a fight he didn't even get into. Now he's doing 3 months in jail, which is kid time for him, and my street sister says she's going to hook me up with him after he gets out of jail. The only problem with that is that I still have very strong feelings for Keith, and I don't know what's going to happen between us between now and then, because I went to his house to see if any of my stuff was still there, and it he couldn't even keep eye contact with me, and he hugged me for longer than an ex usually would.
So basiclly, I can honestly say I love them both. I know if I date Tyler, he'll treat me right and we've been so tight for so long, we know eachother really really well. And if I date Keith, I know I'll be really really happy with him, I'm just afraid that if I do, he's going to pull the same shit as he did before, and I don't think I could handle that again. Plus I can barely talk to Keith right now, because his phone is cut off and when I can get a hold of him, his new girlfriend (the one he was cheating on me with) won't let him talk to me. And I can't talk to Tyler for 3 months .
WHAT DO I DO ?!?! :(
Thanks in advace,
And sorry this is so long .
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I completely agree with the other answer. You can do better than either one of these losers. And if you take Keith back, you're just begging to get cheated on again.
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I've been in an exclusive relationship with this guy for three months. He's perfect and amazing and our relationship is great. In addition to the emotional aspect of our relationship (we connect really well), we are extremely attracted to one another... so we usually end our dates with an intense makeout session accompanied by other stuff at his house for hours at a time. He's focused on pleasuring me and asks for nothing in return. He only does what I'm comfortable with. Thus far he's fingered me and felt me up, both through my clothes, in addition to some other stuff not as sexual. I am saving myself for marriage and he knows and is fine with this but I'm just afriad we're moving too fast, that we'll do everything there is to do outside of sex before the relationship is close to ending-- we're both very happy and have already made long-term plans that stretch into next fall.
I do enjoy what he's doing and it feels so good that its honestly hard to say no, and he makes me feel so comfortable... should we slow it down? I'm 16, he's 18. Thanks :] (link)
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The important thing is that you're both comfortable with how fast you're going. If it's making you uncomfortable, then you should slow down. But it seems to me like you're pretty comfortable with it, and he seems like a good guy who respects your boundaries, so I don't really see any need to worry about it.
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I'm 16/f. My boyfriend is 17.
God, I love him a whole lot. We just started dating, but we've been friends for so long that it's just like what was supposed to happen.
Except...
He lives an hour away from me.
I'm trying to be realistic here, because I'm only sixteen years old, so how does anyone expect a sixteen year old to even WANT to make a long distance relationship work.
It's just that, all the guys at my school are total jerks. And he's tired of all the girls at his school because they're kind of sluts. And we just have liked each other for so long.
It would've been easier if he still lived here, but he moved about a year ago.
I don't know what to do, if I should bother having this relationship or just stay friends. It's hard to make that decision because he's just so sweet to me, looking out for me. And it's so nice to actually have a guy care about you for a change.
Has anybody ever tried a long distance relationship before? Worth it or not? (link)
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An hour is really not that bad. I'm in a long-distance relationship where we're TWELVE hours apart. Is it worth it? If you have strong enough feelings for the person, absolutely. Long-distance relationships actually aren't any more likely to break up or end up cheating on each other than short-distance relationships, even though people think they are.
Basically, you're the only person who can decide if it's worth it for you or not, though. I won't lie to you, they ARE a lot harder than dating someone who lives closer. But like I said, if you like them enough--which it seems like you do--it's definitely worth it.
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Uh im gonna shorten this as much as I can but i think more detail would give me better answers so... bare with me.
Me and my best friend met when we were 12. She moved in next door. I liked her in that puppy dog kinda thing ya know and she liked me to. But nothing ever happen. About 7th grade we dated for...3 days i think. She was like its awkward your my best friend my brother whatever. I was like ok its cool. We kissed on a truth or dare thing, both of our first kisses.
So 11th grade high school were 17. Shes dated this kid named *bob* for about 4 years. They break up on and off, he treats her bad, yea. Well i liked her this whole time and it was terrible, picking her up from his house crying at like 2 am. Hanging out with her and shed be like can u drop me off at *bobs* or come pick me up.
Well they broke up for the final time and we started talking serious again for about 2 weeks. then she broke it off and went back to *bob*. Im gonna input here that i was basically her best friend and she told me everything, from sexual to school. Thats hard to hear btw, but i was always there because if she was happy, i was...yea.
Well family crap came up and she moved across the country, in January. We visited her during...July? We hung out the whole time she blew off her bf for me and everything and then after about a week we went back home.
So we txted, aimed, just talked to each other the whole time. She came down about 2 weeks ago to visit us for Christmas. When she got here she told me she always knew i was the one and she always liked me. Surprised me but I told her I still liked her to. So we chilled together all week laid in bed, cuddled, watched movies, all that good stuff.
2 days before she left she said she had a headache so i was rubbing her head. Then uh things got a little hotter and ended up with me fingering her. The next day we talked about it and she was like i let my hormones take control but the kiss during it was all me. Next night were cuddling together and were getting a little hot, but shes stopped my hand once or twice, and her family decides its time to leave. I kiss her goodbye and shes moving back in may and is like im gonna wait for you when i come home ur all mine.
Ok I really am sorry for the long story and if i get no help i completly understand. But my question.
1. WTF do i do?
2. She was seriously into me, i turned her on from rubbing her back, thats not possible.. I know. So that means it wasnt where I was rubbing its the fact that it was me. right?
3. Was I wrong to do that if i knew it was just hormones. Like she kissed my neck at one point, girls only do that if hormones are involved.
Any advice at all is amazing because that means you read all this crap about some random person and you cared. Your amazing, or just really bored. (link)
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First of all, you're a really great guy for sticking by her through all this, and it sounds like you really care about her, so good for you. If the two of you don't end up together, just know that it's her loss, because I'd say she's missing out on someone pretty special.
Now, it sounds to me like this girl doesn't really know what she wants. I'm not saying she doesn't like you and isn't attracted to you, but it's possible that you're mostly a backup plan to her--as in, she's only going to run to you when things aren't working out with Bob so that she doesn't have to be alone. On the other hand, however, it's also very possible that she's genuinely realized her feelings for you and truthfully does want to be with you now. I guess basically what I'm saying is that you shouldn't necessarily get down about it or expect the worst or anything, but do be aware that there could just be more heartache for you ahead.
SO. Obviously it's kind of hard for us to know what she's really feeling, since we're just people on an advice page and can't see into her head. ;) What I would recommend doing is that you talk to her (calling her might be best) about how you both feel. Let her know that you really like her a lot, tell her how you feel, and find a tactful way to ask if she's really serious about it or not. You might have to be a little careful with how you ask it, to avoid hurting her or pissing her off. Some people you could straight-up ask, "Are you really taking this seriously, or are you just using me as a last resort and you're going to run back to Bob or somebody else eventually?" Other people would probably get offended by that. You obviously know her pretty well, so you can probably figure out a way to find out that'll work for her.
Whatever ends up happening, I wish you the best of luck. Just remember: if it's meant to be, it will be. And if it's not meant to be, that just means you'll be a great boyfriend to some other lucky girl someday. =)
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I need advice! please help im 19/f and my boyfriend is 20yrs of age and I we want to make love but I dont want to have it on my house or at his place because of parents we want total privacy and I was wondering in a motel but dont want him to pay or neither do I for just making love should we still go? I dont know what to do...please help (link)
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A hotel room honestly might be your best bet. I understand not wanting to pay just to have sex, but it's probably the only way you can be guaranteed total privacy. If you look, you can probably find a pretty cheap room somewhere--if you're only getting a room for lovemaking purposes, you don't really need the Hilton or anything.
Other options: you could wait till his parents or yours aren't home, and do it in one of your homes then. That could add the pressure of trying to get done before they come home, though, which could dampen the experience. There's also always the classic sex in the backseat/on the hood of a car, but...I'm not sure I'd recommend that one. It can be hard to find an abandoned place, it can be cramped in the backseat, and it can be pretty risky as far as getting caught goes.
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If I am a 16 year old guy and I'm going out with a guy that is 20 is it illegal if it is will I be able to be with him when i turn 17 (link)
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Having a relationship is never illegal at any age anywhere. Having sex, however, may be. It all depends on where you live. If you're under the age of consent in your area and the two of you have sex, then he could end up arrested for statutory rape, even if it was completely consensual.
Since I don't know where you live, here's a link to a site that has a list of ages of consent around the world: http://www.avert.org/age-of-consent.htm
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I'm like bipolar about this. I love being in relationships and seem to always be looking for one that I think will last a long time but once I'm in one after about 3-4 weeks i get bored with the person and either dump them or end up cheating[I'm working on that though cause i know cheating is wrong]. When I'm single though i get very lonely after a while even if m talking to someone. Even now I've been single for about a month now and I'm lonely. I really do want i long relationship but I don't what usually happens to me to happen yet again.
advice please:) (link)
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The thing about love is that people expect it to be thrilling and passionate like it is in the beginning all the time, the way relationships are in movies. But real love isn't like that. And a lot of people, when the passion starts to fade a little and they start getting more comfortable in the relationship, they get bored and look for someone else they can feel that spark with. Which is really sad, because that's the point in the relationship where REAL love actually starts. And then people end up doing just exactly what you described, and jumping from person to person without ever staying with anyone because nobody can ever give them that "new love" feeling permanently.
Either it's that, or you're just not ready to settle down yet, in which case I would recommend dating around for a while without getting involved in anything serious until you're ready to commit. Hell, that might be a good idea anyway.
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so,i want my boyfriend to eat me out but i dont know how i should look "down there." im embarrased but i want to do it at the same time. (link)
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How you should look "down there" is exactly how you do look. Vaginas come in all shapes, sizes, and colors.
What exactly are you embarrassed about? Whatever it is, chances are he's not going to say or even think anything. Most guys are far, far less picky about things like boob size and the way vaginas look than girls tend to think.
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hey, so this is whats up.
this guys is into to me, & he likes me a lotttt but i just don't know at all how i feel about him, cause, i hung out with him tonight and he was hinting that he liked me and such and in my head i was like hm, i really don't know how i feel about this kid cause, i'm the type of girl who hooks-up with guys but. doesn't really want relationships.
& never likes to be tied down cause i feel it's too easy to get hurt that way, so we were in his car and he was on the phone with his friend who's house we were going to, and he was like yoo i'm with my girl and i was like ..... what. and i was like were best friends silly jokingly and he was like no i never said that, and i just ignored it and went on with the night and then we were at his friends house and he was like putting his arm around me and shit, and i was just like uhh. i don't know ! in my head. & he already asked me out in the past so i know he's into me a lot and he asked me out, and i said i don't know... and he wanted a yes or no answer and i couldn't give it to him. then later on that night after he dropped me off i texted him and i was like, are we hanging out tomorrow best friend? and he was like, listen. i'm not your friend i don't need a friend i need something more then that. & i didn't reply i don't know how to make up my mind i just don't what to do hes liked me for a while now, and i don't want to hurt him and leave him hanging i just don't know what to do, if were friends with benefits that would be weird for me i think because, i find if it doesn't work out as friend with benefits then it would just become award, so please help me i don't know how to make up my mind or what to do or say to him, i just don't wanna hurt him cause, i'm just not the type of girl to be tied down and he seems like he would tie me down. please help! (link)
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You know what you want to do. You don't want a relationship with the guy. So quit leaving him hanging and giving him false hope, because you're being cruel. Just tell him you don't want a relationship with him. It's not that difficult.
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Hi,
I was looking at stuff online and was really surprised to find all this conflicting information on the effectiveness of condoms. My girlfriend doesn't take the pill so I've been using condoms.
She's not goin on the pill since she's from another country and only here temporarily. I only use the latex ones too.
So if I use non-outdated condoms, and put it on correctly and at the end it doesn't tare or anything and after inspecting it before throwing it away I see that no semen is leaking out somehow then shouldn't the chances of her getting pregnant be close to zero?! I hope so anyway...
I'd like to hear what others think about this.
Thanks a bunch- (link)
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Condoms used properly are supposed to be 98% effective. With "typical use," they're 85% effective. "Typical use" involves things like not using a condom every time there's genital contact, not using them at all (the whole "well, it's just one time, what'll it hurt" thing), not putting it on properly, etc. And of course, there's always the risk it'll break or slip off. But as long as you're doing everything right, they should be pretty effective.
Even so, like another answer said, it's always best to have a backup plan. Whether it involves adding in another form of birth control, getting some Plan B ahead of time, or whatever. That way, if you ever DO have a mishap, you'll be less freaked out because you'll already have it covered and know what to do.
(For comparison, a couple not using any birth control at all is 85-90% likely to get pregnant within a year. So even using condoms poorly, they're still pretty helpful when you think about it.)
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I have a crush who doesn't like me. He doesn't even talk to me. And I'm just too shy to talk to me. He is part of the "gang". And the gang makes fun of people, like me. My Crush won't even add me on facebook. Theres nothing really that I love about him, except that he's handsome. Not really handsome. But Joe Jonas is way handsomer. :) If my crush won't even talk to me, add me on facebook and be nice to me. Is he a good choice? Because I only like him because hes handsome. And I also want to stop liking him. There are other guys in my school who are kinder than him but not so handsome. Any ways I could stop liking him? Im really obsessed by the way. If I see a letter of his first name...I go crazy! I also tend to stare at him a lot (which was last year) but now I hardly look at him. I don't show that I like him. Just so he likes me more. But seriously I love him!! (link)
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I'm pretty sure you know the answer already. Not only does he act mean towards you and refuse to acknowledge your existence, but you even admit that you only like him because he's hot. It's perfectly normal to get crushes like that, but try to just look at it and treat it as what it is--a crush on a hottie--and not take it too seriously or obsess over it so much. I mean, look at it this way: would you rather have a hot guy who treats you like crap, or a not-quite-so-hot guy who treats you wonderfully? Looks aren't everything.
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ok well i am 13 ok n my bf iz older then me ok nd he keeps pressuring me into things what should i do? cuz like i have been goin out with him for awhile now n he iz like telling me wat to do n shit n its very confusing n on msn he keeps telling me to flash him n finger myself on cam ok nd i dont no wat to do about that either ok plzzz help me i dun no wat to do!!! (link)
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No one should ever be pressuring you to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, especially since you're only 13. My honest opinion is that you should dump him. You can find someone better who will actually care about you enough to not pressure you into doing things you don't want to.
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19/F
Ok this seems long and soap-opera-ish but please bear with me. I’ve gotten rid of some of the details to make it shorter but please tell me if it isn’t clear enough. And please don't rant at me about being a cheating b**** or anything. I know I am a bad bad person. I just need you to tell me what to do.
Nate has always been the typical "rich bad boy" type. He gets a pack mentality when he is with his boys so he’s labeled an official ***hole. He's had a pretty bad past and when you get him alone, he’s different. He and I go a few years back when I wasn't into the party scene, and it got around that he "wanted" me. I shot that down and he gave up. I've been intrigued by him (i.e. had a crush on him) and we always used to exchange looks all the time at school and parties and I could feel the sizzles (but wasn’t sure it was mutual). Only last year did we start talking a bit inside and outside school. Then I finished school and didn’t see him.
In May, I met Blake. He’s ridiculously good-looking, the sweetest guy ever, and a cook. I didn’t think he was into me so I backed off then recently, Blake started showing interest in me and I was thrilled. We were perfect for each other, our life goals and views were the same, we had minor arguments sometimes, which ended with practically no resentment on either end, and we always made up quickly. It was the perfect relationship. I was still a virgin but he understood because he had only been with one chick (his year-long girlfriend in grade 11).
End of last year, Nate and I ended up at a party together. I was hammered out of my mind and we had sex in a bedroom. It was harsh to the point that he did it, shoved me away and left. I was broken after. Eventually, I told Blake and he was mostly sad for me and he did whatever he could to make me feel better. Including sex and it was just like the rest of our relationship, comfortable.
Then one day, Nate showed up at my house after I saw him at the mall and went home all shaken up. We had sex. We have had sex about five times now altogether. Usually it’s when I’m vunerable. It’s pretty much casual sex but it is explosive as in really really hot, stuff I thought didn’t exist outside novels. Blake and I haven’t even come close, even though there is some sizzle, it isn’t comparable. Told Blake once and he was mad but he came back and told me he’d still have me and he didn’t understand. Usually Nate just has sex with me and sticks around for a while and leaves but one time, he actually stayed after and kissed my face and stuff.
This is what confuses me. Blake and I are perfect for each other and it’s not a completely devoid of sexual drive either but when I’m with Nate, it feels right like it’s exactly where I belong.
I’m just so afraid of hurting Blake. I want to stay with him but at the same time, I feel like puking when I think about what a disgusting unfaithful slut I’m being. And I’m pretty sure Nate doesn’t want a relationship. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to look back twenty years from now and regret it. I know that bad boy’s can’t be tamed but I know his history and I kind of still ache for Nate but Blake is just perfect.
Help? (link)
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I haven't read everything other people have answered with, so forgive me if I'm repeating things you've been told before.
You already know that what you're doing is wrong, that much is obvious. So, I won't waste any time being judgmental. Thing is, you have GOT to just buck up and STOP doing this. All you're doing is hurting everyone who's involved.
Before you can do anything, you have to figure out what it is that you want--or, more correctly, WHO you want. It seems from what you've said that you have a great relationship with Blake, and maybe you'll end up deciding that's what you want to keep. He's certainly a very understanding and forgiving person--that's obvious from the fact that he's stuck by you throughout all this. On the other hand, maybe you'd rather have the passion you feel with Nate. And if that's what you want and what you're happy with, then by all means, go for it. To each their own, and you're going to end up hurting one or the other of the guys anyway.
Probably the best thing you could do would be to just be single for a while, until you figure things out and decide who it is that you really want. Until you know what you want and are willing to stick to it, don't be with Blake, and don't do anything with Nate. And if you DO decide to be with Blake, it's probably for the best if you just stop hanging out with Nate altogether. You obviously can't resist the temptation he presents, so if you want your relationship with Blake to work, you'll have to let him go.
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I like this guy who likes me back. Only problem is, he has a girlfriend. He cheated on her with me, and we were hooking up for a couple weeks. Then we talked about it all and he said "im confused, because i mean i love my girlfriend but then i see you, and i like you too. i dont think we should hook up until i know whats going on with her." so i left it at that. i was really upset for the next few days. we still talk, and i saw him the other night and he was standing behind me with his arms around me. little things he does makes me know he cares. but i dont know what to make of it. he tells me he misses me, and he was sad today when he said that he doesnt think i still like him because i dont call him or IM him all the time. i told him i dont want to be a pain. i miss him so much, and i know he misses me. but whats the deal..? sorry this is so long (link)
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The best thing you can do is tell this guy to #$*#(% off. I know you probably don't want to hear it, and I know it's hard to do. But the fact is, if he cares so little about the commitments he's made as to cheat on his girlfriend with you--not just once or twice, but for a couple weeks--then even if he DID break up with her and get together with you, there's no reason that he won't turn around and do the exact same thing to you. Take advice from someone who's been in a similar situation--you don't want to be "the other girl." Have more respect, both for his girlfriend and yourself, and just walk away from the whole situation. You can find someone better who WON'T cheat, on you or anyone else. Best of luck. =)
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me and my bf have been dating for 3 months today! and i love him... i really do! and he loves me too! we pretty much been each others first for everything! first real love you know? and well we talked about having sex tomorrow and i really want to but i want peoples oppinions! i'm 14 and he is 16 but we are both fish in highschool!
also how much does it bleed when a boy "pops your cherry"?! (link)
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You're only 14. You're way too young to be having sex yet, especially with someone you've only been dating for three months. Not to mention, if you feel the need to come ask people online what you should do, you're obviously not ready for it. You should be sure of yourself before you take that step--it's one you can't take back.
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i been dating this person over a month now and the person is 15 and i am 17 about to turn 18 in a month is that a bad thing because everybody say it is jail bait something like that. (link)
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Well, 18 is over the age of consent, which 15 (in most states) is not. So technically, if you have sex you could get arrested for statutory rape (although unless the person or their parents press charges against you, there's no reason for that to happen). Hence the term jailbait. As far as a (non-sexual) relationship goes, I personally don't think there's anything wrong with it. It's one of those things where opinions differ, and if it were an age gap like 16 and 23, for instance, I'd be more hesitant. But 2-3 years doesn't make that much difference, IMO--although any age difference can be a large one during the teenage years, when everyone is growing up and changing on a daily basis.
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Alright, I know most teenage boys have looked at/look at porn. I'm pretty positive, considering the fact he just got all these pay channels in his bedroom, that my boyfriend does. Will it ever get to the point where he is more attracted to the girls on the screen than he is me? And if that happens, is breaking up the only thing to do?
I know I'm nowheres near looking like any of those girls you'd see online. (link)
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It won't happen. To a guy, porn is just a way of getting off--something that makes jacking off easier and more fun. It's a fantasy, basically, and fantasies don't necessarily have anything to do with what people actually desire to do in real life. Yes, your typical guy does love his porn collection, but can it ever replace a real live girlfriend who loves them? No way. It can't even come close.
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(((13/f)) Even though im only 13 I have a lot of trust issues with boys. And because of that its soemtimes hard to open up to guys and show my true feelings.
I really like this guy named Evan. I mean hes sweet funny and totally cute. ((im short)) People alwys seem to make funn of me because of my size i always get mad but when he dos it I laugh so hard. He doesnt say it rude hes trying to be funny ((and he is)) But I realy want to be more than just friends what should I do? (link)
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Well, you could always try flirting with him and such, and seeing how he reacts--try to get a scope on whether or not he might like you back. But really, the only way to be sure is to bring it up. Remember, there's no rule that says a girl can't ask a guy out if she's interested. And believe me, I know it's difficult, but look at it this way: it's always better to regret something you did do than something you didn't do. And at least then you'll know, and can stop worrying about what to do. Best of luck. =)
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14/f
ok well i promised to be pure until i get married. a guy at the age of 13 wanted to give up his virginity to me and i flipped so i was like ok i am going to make a chioce. i am going to be pure until marriage.what do guys think my age. will they not like me because of the choice i made? or what. (link)
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First of all, you're definitely making the right decision--even if you weren't planning on waiting for marriage, 14 is no age to be having sex yet (even though some do). As for what guys will think--does it really matter? It's YOUR body, so the only thing that really matters is what YOU think. And a guy that's decent and actually likes you for who you are will respect the decision you've made, and not try to pressure you into doing anything you're not ready for.
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ok.
15/f.
My question is.. does age really matter? like i like this guy.. we'll call him... M. well M is a bit younger then me.. like 6 months or something.. we're in the same grade and everything.. if we were to go out would that be wrong because of the age?
Like i'm gonna be 16 in February but he'll still be 15.. i guess all i'm trying to say is that.. since we're in the same grade.. would age matter?
thank you. any help is appreciated:] (link)
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Age does matter to an extent, but not with an age gap that small. It would be one thing if you were turning 16 and wanting to date a 20-something year old--then age would definitely make a difference, yes. But six months or so certainly isn't enough to worry about. Go for it. =)
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