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my boyfriend
ok well i am 13 ok n my bf iz older then me ok nd he keeps pressuring me into things what should i do? cuz like i have been goin out with him for awhile now n he iz like telling me wat to do n shit n its very confusing n on msn he keeps telling me to flash him n finger myself on cam ok nd i dont no wat to do about that either ok plzzz help me i dun no wat to do!!!
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He just wants to get his hands in your knickers and he is not worth it all.He wants to take advantage of you - for god sakes, you're thirteen,if anyone found out the stuff that you were doing (just say that you are) then you'd be named as a slut and you'll have all sorts of people wanting you for things, it will then eventually hit your parents and what will their rections be??Tell him you don't want to do that kind of stuff - if he dont respect you bounce girl because no boy is worth it.You want to do that kind of stuff with a special one - THE one, and heck your no where nearky old enough.He'll probarbly end up having sex or raping you dear and you'll terroized and pregnant, and no I'm not exaggerating.It happens all the time.He's older than you and he should know better.Tell him to repect that you dont want to do it.
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talk to him about how you feel if he's still pressuring you then he's in it for your body not you.
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End it.
He's obviously using you, and jeez, you're 13. I personally think you should have a little more time to yourself and grow up a little more without the worry of guys! Not saying that in a rude way. Just have sometime to yourself and friends, have fun with them, and not have to worry about a guy! =)
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<B> YOU DUMP HIM RIGHT NOW!!! </B>
This guy does not want you he just wants you and your body. A guy should not pressure you into do stuff you don’t want to do. A guy should love you and cherish you for who you really are. So my opinion is to dump him right now. Well I hope this helps!!
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I'm going to give you the best advice I can in one sentence (yes, that's all it takes) -- You go dump him right now, and move on.
This guy is only wanting you physically, because if he really cared about you, he wouldn't be pressuring you into things. Never do something you're uncomfortable with, and no one should try to make you do those things either.
You're better off without this guy, he's a jerk. Trust me, there are plenty of other guys out there in the sea waiting to be caught -- good guys, that will treat you as you deserve.
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If he's trying to make you do something you don't wanna do, then dump him. He's a jerk, and he's more than likely using you for his own pleasure. Let him find a girl freaky enough to do that, and you should go find a guy that really likes you & could care less about sex. Besides, older guys are usually just in it for some ass. Dump him. =)
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dump him right now
hes a jerk and useing you and dosent deserve you dump him now
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No one should ever be pressuring you to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, especially since you're only 13. My honest opinion is that you should dump him. You can find someone better who will actually care about you enough to not pressure you into doing things you don't want to.
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