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should i do it?
me and my bf have been dating for 3 months today! and i love him... i really do! and he loves me too! we pretty much been each others first for everything! first real love you know? and well we talked about having sex tomorrow and i really want to but i want peoples oppinions! i'm 14 and he is 16 but we are both fish in highschool!
also how much does it bleed when a boy "pops your cherry"?!
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ok seriously i was a little bummed out when i read the other answers..you were asking for advice not critizim (sp?) anyway i think that if you truly feel your ready to have sex with him and you truly are in love with you and he is with you then do whatever you want. Just be safe, know your consequences ( pregnant, STD's , he could break up with you after that ) just be aware ok honey? hope all is well
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i would wait. you have your whole life to have sex. no need to rush it. it's only three months and i don't believe your ready. don't get me wrong i do not know you. but at 14 i know 89/100 people in my school were not ready. and it bleeds a lot. kind of like you have your period for only one day
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You're only 14. You're way too young to be having sex yet, especially with someone you've only been dating for three months. Not to mention, if you feel the need to come ask people online what you should do, you're obviously not ready for it. You should be sure of yourself before you take that step--it's one you can't take back.
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If I weren't as nice as I am, I would have answered this like this:
Slut.
Lucky for you, I'm nicer, but that was honestly my first impression.
You are NOT in love after 3 months.
You are NOT ready for sex if you are asking anything remotely related to sex on a website.
Please don't make this mistake.
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Oh geez girl, you're way too young. Yes, a lot of people do lose their virginity in high school but not many do when they're 14. If you want our opinions on if you should do it or not, you're not ready to lose it. You guys haven't been going out for very long either, three months isn't a long time at all. Just wait for a while until you guys are in a serious relationship, like about a year or so, than you can both can talk this over again. If something happens between now & about a year that causes you guys to break up, than you'll be thankful that you didn't lose your virginity to him. You'd more than likely regret it & think to yourself that you should have waited.
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Well I will just say this first..I would wait. Trust me you are only 14. What you give up tomorrow is going to stick with you for the rest of your life. Its been only 3 months. Chances are after a while you will have broken up and you will be stuck with bad decisions youve made. Temptation is out there...trust me...however I encourage you to be strong and resist. At this moment it may sound dumb or whatever, but in the long run, it will be one of the best choices youve ever made. I suggest waiting. E-mail me if you have trouble resisting...We can get through this because waiting is the best thing you can do. There are lots of people out there even on this site who will tell you they wished theyd have waited...dont join that catagory...Join the few who said "I waited and it was the best decision of my life.."
Strata_XIII@hotmail.com
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Ok wow. first of all hun. I think no matter where you live...that's illegal. And if you're asking people's opinions on here, then you're obviously not 100% comfortable with what you're doing, which means the timing definitly isn't right.
Trust me, I'm 16 and i still dont even think that I'm old enough, because I think of it this way, I mean, if you have sex now, then once you get married...What is there to look forward to?
I would say don't do it.
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wow..
1-you are kinda young to be doing that...
2-you have not been dating long
3-if you are asking for our opinion whether you should give your most precious thing to a guy then you are not ready
4-last but not least just remember if you do you may never get it back to give to your husband someday.
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