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Ask everything and anything... I love giving advice!!advice
is there an easy way to get guys attention w/o acting slutty? because its very hard when guys are teenagers and have sex on the mind at all times
just be yourself when your around guyz.... try to develop good friendships with them now... and soon enough it will pay off.... try to wear just a little make-up ((not too much)).... and try to do something with your hair.... but really don't worry about it... if you are urself and you act friendly guys will start to notice... try not to focus on it too much hun.. hope i helped ya =)
ok so i like really like this guy but hes got a gf, ive liked him for almost a year now and i dont know if i should give up on him or not. me and him are pretty close friendship wise but it looks like him and his gf are gonna be together for a long time.
should i give up or should i just wait it out?
awwwe... i really think that you should move on... it's better not to dwell on it cause you don't want problems with his g/f.... hope i helped and tell me how it goes =)
13-M----OK my problem is that im not gonna have
n e 1 for valentines day! this may not seem so big to everyone else but my new years resolution was to get a real g/f by then. Im not extremly unpopular, its just everyone thinks im wierd. so someone halp me find a resolution for this!
i'm free ;-)
First of all thanks to everyone who helped answer my first question
my girlfriend is being a little cold to me lately and i'm not sure why. i mean she might be doing it just to tease me or because she's trying to break up with me. we also haven't talked in a while since we have both been so busy with school. i'm not sure what to think. i know that valentine's day is coming up so she might be doing it just for fun or she wants to make me dump her. i dunno what to think. Please Help!
Thanks!
Confused Boyfriend
hug him first lol..... that's the best thing to do..... or you can get those lil candy heart things and say let's play a game... then put them all in a bag and say let's do whichever one you pick....lol idk... anywhoo'z hope i helped ya =)
i know this is kinda confusing...
ok i met this guy on-line from one of my friends last saturday night and we talked and all, and i think i may like him i dk hes 2 years older n he went out with one of my some-what friends, i mean i talk to her but were not like close or anything...they recently just broke up and all....so he said he was single n looking or w/e, we were joking around n crap over cyber stuff on-line then he asked me how far i went with a guy...and im like uhh well im not suppose to date till im 16 so i have to wait and then he said n ur turnin 15 soon arent u and i said yeahh...then he asked me how long would i wait to have sex. or if i would give a bj or a hj...or if i would enter the back door and all...then he said that i would prob b the only one who doesnt have muchs bf all threw high school and i said yeahh well i rather be single then screw my life over be4 i graduate then he said that i could use a condom n i said yeahh condom or no condom if my parents found out i would be dead...i get a feelin that i wont turn out a virgin when i graduate im gettin this feelin that i wouldnt but anyways...then he asked me if i was bush or bare as in the south of the border..and i basically refused that and all..he knows i know his ex..and i was wonderin if this sounded like he liked me or something? any ideas?
- thx
tell him to fuck off and leave you the fuck alone
i met this kid though my friend friday night we hung out i thought he was really hot and all that good stuff saturday night me and my friend got invited to this party she bet me 5 bucks that i would hook up with him. i did. we kissed a few times at the party he told me wow i wasnt expecting this to happen and then asked if i had a boyfriend i said no do you have a girlfriend he said technically yes but no i never see her because im not aloud to. later that night we went to his house and we all stayed the night there we kissed some more i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend what should i do?
never go out with him.... it's obvious that he's a player.... even if he breaks up with his g/f what are the chances that he's not gonna do the same to you??..... you hardly know this guy and you can't trust him.... there are soo many other hot guyz everywhere... move on and find someone else that you can actually trust... if you can go to more parties.... if you're looking for a one night stand clubs are alwayz good..... hope i helped =)
My twin and I need help finding something to get our boyfriends for valetines day!! we need HELP!! If you have any Ideas PLease Post Them!! Will Rate HIGH if i like them :) Thanks!
cologne alwayz works.... try something like lacoste or dior.... smells delicious!!!
there is this guy in my neighborhood who i met at a dance and we hung out several times, once in the hood over the holidays and at a few more dances. he's adorable, and i think i really like him. he might have a girlfriend though...id like some insights on what should happen here- should i try to befriend him? i'd really like to. what can i do to hang out with him or get him to notice me without seeming like a stalker or obsessed? btw, we go to different schools...both are single-sex schools...help?
Yea you should definately get to know this kid better... find out his number or his sn... and the next time you go to the moviez or bowling or something with your friends give him a call...hope this helps =)
I am a 17/m and i really like this girl. I have a plan to ask her out. The only problem is that it involves two weeks and Valentines day. The plan is to leave notes in her locker with no name just ending it the same way. Should i go for the two week plan or should i just ask her?
awwww that's so0o cute... girl's love it when guyz do that for them.... definately do the two week plan.... it's so romantic when a guy asks a girl out on Valentine's Day... tell me how it goes =)
i think your advice was the best i got so i wanted to thank you but i have a bit of a problem. He liked me about 2 or 3 weeks ago and it might be too late now and we both liked eachother last year but we both didnt know. Now im afraid its too late. Also after i told him that i didnt like him, we had a long talk and we became better friends, i still dont even see him every day. also he said something that i found a little creepy. he said "ill look forward to seeingyou in the halls" and wrote a few other things that made me less than comfortable. I was in such a weird mood then and went and told my friends and they think of him as creepy. he was known by a few people for not leaving his ex alone. I was very flattered when he said i was pretty because no guy has ever said that to me and i consider myself as ugly. some of my friends think of him as annoying and i just dont know what to do. he is also one of my best friends, best friends ex. she would be fine with it but still. and ive never had a boyfriend so i dont know how that would work, we dont have cars so if we wanted to go out how would we get there? ask our moms to take us? my mom would make weird jokes and i would be embarraced but as the days go on i think i would stop liking him but i like him more and more and every time i see him in the hall i get butterflies in my stomache. I see him only once a week and maybe not even that. im so confused.
thanks for saying my advice was the best.. i feel soo special =)... anyways this is a very strange situation... you said how he makes you feel uncomfortable and that he's a little creepy... it seems like he has the qualities of a stalker...=/... idk wat to tell you... but i would keep my distance... never go out with this kid... if he asks you again... just tell him that you don't think it would work out... and i'm sure that you are pretty.... you don't have to feel obligated to go out with any guy that says this you are. If you feel like maybe you should go out with him... first get to know him better.... like sometimes if you're going to the movies or the mall with a BIG group of friends then get to know him. If you still feel comfortable and you get to know him enough... maybe you could be friends with benefitz...??... hope i helped.. and tell me how it goes =)
I know this is going to sound like a stupid high school crush, but thats what it is i guess, this guy said that he liked me and he asked me out. At the time i didnt like him, i did about a year ago but since we had no classes together and i barely saw him. Now over the past few weeks ive started seeing him in the halls and beginning to like him more. I am very shy unless im with my closest friends and have never told anyone to their face that i like them.I want to know if i shud just wait it out and let it, like all my crushes, slowly fade away or should i tell him how it is?
awww... that's sooo cute... you definately should tell him that you like him... if he likes you.. and u like him... what's keeping you two from being together?? just go for it... if you don't want to tell him to his face pass him a note or talk to him on AIM...good luck.. and tell me how it goes...=)
~>Rae
I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for 2 months and 1 week. I really like him and all..but sometime he bugs me so much!! I kind of miss being single and I dont know what to do..
and i dont want to break up with him...ugh..i'm sucha mess...please tell me your answer
the answer is so obvious.. i shouldn't even have to say it.. if your unhappy in a relationship.. then atleast talk to him about it... if that doesn't work then just break up with him.... then you will be single like u wanted to be.. and u won't have unnecessary problems.. hope i helped =)
Im 14/f and ive never had a boyfriend..is this weird...is it normal??
Yes it is very normal... just cause u haven't had a b/f doesn't mean you're a loser or that your ugly or anything.... think about it.. most guyz at our age are shy and MOST of the time.. not as mature... and quite scared of rejection.. some guyz might not even be interested in girls at our age... don't worry about whether you have a b/f or not.. right now just work on your friendships with guyz... and eventually all the work you put in will pay off... hope i helped =)
I have this friend named Emily. She has recently just liked this guy named Justin. Well a week ago she decided she didn't like him anymore. Last night they were talking online and Justin told Emily that he really really liked me and he was going to ask me out and if i said no then he would like be at da point crying. I don't like him and i don't really want to go out cuz i like someone else but my friend wants me to go out w/ him... what should i do?
don't go out with him... i hate people that go out with kids just cause they feel sorry for them... it's a bitchy thing to do.. so0o tell him no.. he'll get over it.. and if he doesn't that's kinda sad.. you could try to find someone else for him.. and talk to him about it... hope i helped =)
Ok, I really like this guy at my school. In a couple weeks there is going to be a dance and I really want to ask this guy out. But I have self esteem and dont think that Im pretty enough and am afraid of rejection. All my friends keep telling me that I should go for it. But Im very very VERY nervous. What do I do?
whatever you do.. don't do the whole have your friend ask him thing.. it's definately a lot better if you ask him yourself.. you should just go for it... and before you ask him just take a deep breath and come out with it.. if you really don't feel like asking him to his face.. maybe you can do it in a note.. or find out his sn.. i wouldn't call him on the phone.. cause most guyz don't like it if a girl calls them on the phone... so0o just go for it... what's the worst that can happen?? hope i could help =)
Okay, well last night i had a dream that my crush asked me out ..so i invited him over except "my house" wasnt really MY house! It had a pool which i dont have and i had a different family. so anyway, the whole time we never hung out! He just hung out with these boys i think were my cousins (and i dont even have boy cousins!!) And didnt talk to me..then all of a sudden were outside and we start talking when a landmass happens and the only people left are me and him on this little peice of land that somehow DIDNT fall!! ?!? Then he says i want to break up withh you!! After all that ..what is this telling me? do you think i shouldnt ask him out cuz he will dump me fast? Im so confused ..i rate! sry about the length! I really need to know so plzz dont delete!
dreams are always weird... and they usually don't mean anything... but i would definately wait a while and try to get to know this kid before you start doing anything drastic... try to strike up a conversation with him and see what kind of things he's interested in... and just be yourself around him... if it was meant to be he would ask you out.. if not.. move on.. hope i helped =)
Sorry in advance for it being long. I'm 14/f and there is this guy that I really really like. The thing is we don't talk much, we don't see each other a lot, and earlier this school year he said I freaked him out. Well, during this year he has been flirting with me, and my friends noticed too. He hugs other girls, and awhile back he said he doesn't hug me because I'm too specail for his hugs. Then a couple days ago, one of my friends asked him why I don't get hugs. And he said that I don't want his hugs. I just want him to notice me, and we could talk more. But I'm kinda afraid to go up to him and just start talking or even on AIM. What should I do? I really like this guy. Does he like me or am I just being retarded?
It's obvious that this guy likes you. You have to let him know that you like him back. You could either just tell him straight out ... or you could find some creative way to tell him that you still like him... like a puzzle or something... it could be fun lol... anyhoo'z hope i could help =)
my boyfriend broke up with me because he said he idd'nt have time for a girlfriend school and training. So he broke up with me and was realyl rude about it saying all I did was care about myself and I was self centered. But yet last night he had girls over at his house. He has time for hoes but not a girlfriend? I'm really confused I really love him and everything what should I do?
Hmmm... sounds more like he's the one that's self centered... all I can tell you to do ((and I know it souns harsh but..)) GET OVER THE ASSHOLE!!! Obviously he's a jerk and he doesn't deserve you... He has you wrapped around his little finger... and you have to prove to him that he can't just do that. That's all I can tell you to do.. Hope I helped =)
Hello.
I have been having really bad luck with guys lately and im getting really tired of it. I dont know what to do because it always seems as if I either get to shy and dont know what to say or i say somthign really stupid. can someone please give me some adive.
I used to have the exact same problem as you. Really I promise you things will get better. Here are some tips ((i know they sound stupid but just hear me out)) what I usually do is try to find a common interest with the guy... that is always something that can help so0o that you can talk... Now I know your thinking what if we aren't interested in the same things? Well you can find out what the guy is interested in. Ask him about stuff that's important to him. That way not only will you have a good conversation with him you can also learn something new that you didn't know about. Hope I could help =)