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Nervous Reck


Question Posted Wednesday January 26 2005, 6:52 pm

Ok, I really like this guy at my school. In a couple weeks there is going to be a dance and I really want to ask this guy out. But I have self esteem and dont think that Im pretty enough and am afraid of rejection. All my friends keep telling me that I should go for it. But Im very very VERY nervous. What do I do?

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IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 10:46 pm:
Your friends are right, go tell him! You have to not think about it be really natural! Get right to the point dont doze off and be like blah blah blah!
♥ Michelle

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guitargrl01 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 8:33 pm:
ask him! you'll never get that feeling out of your gut unless you do. And maybe something good will happen! Maybe he'll like you and you'll be glad you asked him. And if he's worth it, he won't care about your looks.
Hope i helped!

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xxbrunettekissxx answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 7:59 pm:
Just be yourself, and if you get rejected big deal ur friends will be behind you 100%

Luv always,~*Missy*~

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bcso9 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 7:40 pm:
just go n u can dance/grind with him there....u cant get rejected if u dont ask......just go up with him n start dancin with him there.....but dance a little with other guys 2

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bcso9 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 7:40 pm:
just go n u can dance/grind with him there....u cant get rejected if u dont ask......just go up with him n start dancin with him there.....but dance a little with other guys 2

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bcso9 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 7:40 pm:
just go n u can dance/grind with him there....u cant get rejected if u dont ask......just go up with him n start dancin with him there.....but dance a little with other guys 2

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GAPeach answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 7:29 pm:
go up to him and casually ask him, if you get rejected im sure he will sooner or later realize the shot he had and what he's missing out on...but seriously don't let urself pass this ofer by! good luck
*chels*

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 7:21 pm:
We all have self esteem.... You mean low self-esteem.I would have one of my friends try and hook us up. You should try that to it would be alot less of prssure and you wouldnt be as afraid of rejection as yourself doing it-trix

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MiZzAdViCe16 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 7:07 pm:
i think you should just take the chance the worst thing he can do is say no but but another suggestion is to ask a female friend to give you a makeover and see if you like it for the dance or w.e but you might not be into that kind of stuff well i hope i helped

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Toca_says answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 6:59 pm:
whatever you do.. don't do the whole have your friend ask him thing.. it's definately a lot better if you ask him yourself.. you should just go for it... and before you ask him just take a deep breath and come out with it.. if you really don't feel like asking him to his face.. maybe you can do it in a note.. or find out his sn.. i wouldn't call him on the phone.. cause most guyz don't like it if a girl calls them on the phone... so0o just go for it... what's the worst that can happen?? hope i could help =)

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xosweetiepiexo answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 6:57 pm:
ask him out. if you don't feel pretty enough, then the day you ask him out wear an outfit you look good in and feel good in. Don't be afraid of him saying no, if he says that he is not worth it. There are plenty of other guys out there. Good luck i hope u ask him out.

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sWeeTinnoCenCe0x answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 6:57 pm:
You should definetly go for it! Go to school, straighten your hair, put a little bit of makeup on, wear some cute jeans and a top, and ask him to go with you. Be like by any chance, would you wanna go to the dance with me? If he says no, it definetly wasn't meant to be. BUT! if he says yes, that's going to be a great moment. Worst comes to worst, you'll end up going with all friends together and maybe you could steal a dance from someone else! x0!.

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Sherry answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 6:56 pm:
Haha:) I just answered your question like a minute ago. Well i said to just ask him online through IM or email because its way easier to ask people out through the internet. You wont get as nervous!

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Sherry answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 6:55 pm:
Maybe you should figure out his IM or email (if you dont have it already) and ask him that way! It's totally easy to do stuff like that online because your not seeing his face or anything! You wont be as nervous!

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