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HeYy! my names Lexi and i'm fourteen years old. I live in the U.S. and i love giving advice about anything (even if it's personal.) Since this community is anonymous it helps all those shy people out there, tell other ones there problems in life. Teens-to-teens. I will never make fun of you for asking a stupid question or anything like that..im not that kind of person. Even if you think it's a dumb question that everyone knows but you..just ask me! If your having friend troubles, boyfriends/girlfriends, school, sex, peer pressure, everyday problems, any kind of question and if you need advice just post!x0 You can also send me an email and i'll email the answer right back!
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My boyfriend is prude and won't make any moves like handing hands or kissing. I would really like him to show his affection for me sometimes. Should I make the moves or is he not interested in it? I don't want to scare him off. If I do make moves, what should I do and how? People tell me to follow my heart but how do I know how he feels? Please help!
YOU should make the first move. He's probably just shy and wonders if he will make a fool of himself if he tries anything. Ask him to go to the movies on friday night ( maybe a scary movie! ) and when a scary part comes along just make like a sudden reaction and reach for his hand. If he pulls back just be like it's ok and slowly reach for it again. He might get more comfortable round you and before you know it, maybe he'll be the one making the moves. x0
Hi.. I dont really know where to start but first off i cut myself... and i do it beacasue my life is so hard.. Many of my family members have died and in January 5th my friend Joe died and he was really specail to me .. and so i took out the blade.. and i started cutting.. and i have lied about me cutting myslef but if i told my mom she would kill me ... most of the time her and i get along but some times we have issues and she yells at me sometimes and it gets me all fired up jus wanting to cry .. and then i have an older brother ((15)) and he hits me sometimes.. and he annoys the crap out of me and that fires me up 2 .. and then i have a little brother ((6)) and he does everyhting in his power to annoy me .. lik for instance hell make faces at me and make nasty commments about me lik how much he hates me and i cant take it anymore.. and so i bring out the siccors and i cut myself.. Now i go to this Christain Youth Center and we talk about god and isssues and just things that come to mind.. and the lady incharge i talk to her about me life and how i feel and i tell her that i cut myself and last week we all got into a discussion about anything we wnated to talk about and then someone starts to talk about Depression and then it gets deeper into cuttin yourself.. and im just sitting there thinkin .. y is she talkin about this ... and it hurts me bad to hear this women say that its stupid to do it and its not right to take it out on myslef.. and so im wondering if i can really talk to her about my life anymore.. but im askin if i should continue doin this if it makes me feel better (( maybe not inside)) but i cant talk to my mom 4 certain reasons so imaskin you people....
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Hey I know life is hard right now and cutting yourself mite be the only way you think you can relieve the pain. And i'm not going to tell you to talk to a guidence counselor like every one else does... Yeah i've cut myself few times b4 but i realize that why am i hurting myself over stupid things.? Even though i mite be madd at my parents, friends, life in general..the scars will remain and prove it was real. Sure, when you cut yourself its painful, but then when your done you get this sudden rush and you relize your alive. I see where you're coming from... Stop cutting it just makes things worse... i know you might not wanted to hear that^. Please e-mail me at tequillakissez@yahoo.com you can tell me anything okay? I promise. x0
Ok, I really like this guy at my school. In a couple weeks there is going to be a dance and I really want to ask this guy out. But I have self esteem and dont think that Im pretty enough and am afraid of rejection. All my friends keep telling me that I should go for it. But Im very very VERY nervous. What do I do?
You should definetly go for it! Go to school, straighten your hair, put a little bit of makeup on, wear some cute jeans and a top, and ask him to go with you. Be like by any chance, would you wanna go to the dance with me? If he says no, it definetly wasn't meant to be. BUT! if he says yes, that's going to be a great moment. Worst comes to worst, you'll end up going with all friends together and maybe you could steal a dance from someone else! x0!.
I like this guy so much and i dont even think he knows i exist i mean like i talk to him all the time but all he ever tells me is about his girl problems and how they all piss him in off when i know deep inside me we are meant for eachother but i dont know what to do...HELP!
5 words for you.. Tell him how you feel. Just come out straight up. Tell him you like him..maybe you could get to know him better..go out on a date. You never know until you try..if he doesnt like you..it was never ment to be and there is someone out there for you and u will find him. x0
Does anyone have any good quotes or lyrics from songs that I can use to put in my profile for AIM. I'm looking for some sad like emo kinda songs or breaking up quotes :-/ Thanx in advance! xoxo - KrIsSy*
If you go on livejournal.com and type in __quotexwhore there is alot of great quotes on there. Also greenday lyrics are good for profiles! Hope i helped! x0
I think I am loosing my best friend. She has been hanging out alot with someone else, and when she isnt she always has excuses. she isnt the same person, i know she has to change, but i mean- she is obsessed with her weight and eating. Im not really worried about that though, i just miss her. what should i do? just forget about her?
No dont forget about her. Go over her house and ask to talk to her. A one-on-one friend based conversation. And just talk to her about those things. You'll feel better about it.
I really need to talk to my friend but there is never any time and I dont know what to do. So what do i do at this point please help!
There must be some time..Invite your friend over or go to like the mall or movies on the weekend and talk about what ever you need to talk about.
ok i have a dance this week and my crush is gonna be there and i like him soooooo much like love him but he doenst like me only b/c he dosnt kno me and so i was wondering what should i do to make him like do a double take when he sees me? something really good... like hair too!
Wear something amazing! That will definetly make him look twice (maybe even more!) Talk to him..let him know your interested and ask him to dance with you. You cant be shy! For your hair..maybe straighten it and put it half up, half down and curl it a little..so it will be cute! Maybe a little eyeshadow and some eyeliner. Hope you have an amazing night! x0
I keep breaking out bad every other week. So I look different basically everyday. I don't know what's a good face cleaning product any ideas? It's really annoying because I have relationships where I don't see my boyfriend for a week because of school and I feel selfconscious because I think I look horrible because of my breaking out. Like when I get with him my face is really clear then the next time I see him I have pimples on my forehead that show and I hate that. What's good to use for a long period of time? I have proactiv, clearasil, neutrogena cleaning solution, and oxy. xxOo Plzz & thankyOu
Pimples. Everyone gets them..Dont be ashamed! I hear proactive works really good! Neutrogena Acne cleanser is what i use twice a day and it really helps for me. If u dont see an improvement in like 2 weeks dont get discuraged..it takes time. Hope i helped!
Well me and my friend are in this fight because she said her friend linsday called me a bitch and then she said a while telling me the same thing...she was the one who said it and now we are not talking. sure i wanna be friend with her but i cant be friend with her when ugh she lies to me all the time and hated me when we first met. i have know her since last year at she said she wants to talk to me but she wont...so am i supose to talk to her or what should i do? i cry every night! PLEASE HELP ME? tell me what to say to her?!!!!!! PLEASE! i will rate or anything! thanks
*Confused with my best friend*
Ugh friends lying! Dont you just hate that! If you feel confident that you want to be her friend just invite her over and talk about the situation. That's if you want to be friends. If your the type that forget's and forgives. Hope I helped!