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Making a move
My boyfriend is prude and won't make any moves like handing hands or kissing. I would really like him to show his affection for me sometimes. Should I make the moves or is he not interested in it? I don't want to scare him off. If I do make moves, what should I do and how? People tell me to follow my heart but how do I know how he feels? Please help!
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well, you dont need to do stuff to stay together.
i know you probably dont want to hear that.
its true, tho, you shouldnt have to do things to stay together
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he may be waiting for you to make the move like he might not know if you want to or something. so make the move
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well i have been in this situation and i didn't do anything and the relationship went down hill fast. you should make a move a little at a time first hold his hand then if you go to the movies rest ur head on his sholder then maybe he will give back. i hope that helps
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well yea you should make the first move, hes just really shy and maybe he doesnt want to mess up or anything. i think you need to talk to him bout it it will be so much easier trust me. but you should make the first move like kiss him at the movies or a lil kiss on the cheek. x0
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YOU should make the first move. He's probably just shy and wonders if he will make a fool of himself if he tries anything. Ask him to go to the movies on friday night ( maybe a scary movie! ) and when a scary part comes along just make like a sudden reaction and reach for his hand. If he pulls back just be like it's ok and slowly reach for it again. He might get more comfortable round you and before you know it, maybe he'll be the one making the moves. x0
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Only time will tell.
Your bf might be nervous too. Maybe he's not ready to hold hands or is scarred of what you might think. Maybe he's thinking the exact same thing as you! When people say, follow your heart, they're right, I know. If someone won't like you for who YOU are and for what YOU want to do, then maybe its just not meant to be. Remember, they're going through some of the same things as you! Hope I helped!
~K~
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