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help my boyfriend treats me wrong!
me and my boyfriend fight on and off all the time we never het along ne more but i love him i have been with him for almost 2 years and i almost had a kid with him but he treats me really bad. He yells at me all the time and calls me really mean, hurtful names he hurts me so bad sometimes that i cry and sometimes cry myself to sleep he means the world to me but he always makes me feel like i am nothing and puts me down all the time. Ihave tried to kill myself before because he has made me feel so bad about myself. I am so confused and i dont know what to do please help me WHAT DO I DO?
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I too am striving too understand my boyfriends horrible behaviour towards me.
His family and his friends have told him too stop treating me like shit, but it just makes it worse.
I have no issues with who I am, I am a confident, bubbly and mature young lady and all my friends aske me WHY??
So why? I figured its because he has issues and i want too help him through it, but I just cant do it anymore. Im sick of crying. Im sick of being talked down too. Im sick of him telling me im stupid. YOU and I deserve better. NOONE deserves too be treated the way we have been. So chin up sweets, only you and I can create the lives we want, so let him go, find yourself worth, and LIVE for a better day :-) xox
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First, you have to love yourself before you are able to be in love and happy. I dont believe being in LOVE is crying and trying to kill yourself...that is pain and suffering, which is not happiness or true love. Being with him for 2 years, it is easy to feel attached to him because your life for two years has been based on you two together, it's easy to confuse love with being attached and the hardest thing you must do if you want to be happy is unattach yourself. 1. You can't find anyone better if you're still with him (and you CAN find better but you'll only be able to find the man of your dreams if you are not with the ass that doesn't deserve your love or know how to treat a you properly...he problly wants to make you feel bad about yourself to destroy your self-esteem because he knows you CAN find better. 2. What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger. Even though its going to be hard, You need to tell him that your not going to take it anymore and if he wants to be with you he's going to have to treat you good...if he doesnt do that then you know for sure he'll never do it. You can only guide someone to love and if they are capable of loving the right way then they WILL learn, but, if they dont', then it's clear they will never change because it is not who they are. If u decide to leave, time will heal and each day will be better than the last. It is also easier if you just cut off contact after the break for a little bit until you find your strength so you won't be dragged back by his false pleas for you to stay with him. 3. The only way to be happy is if you cut out all the negative things in your life that is making you sad. We put too much emphasis on being with someone to make us happy, you came to this world by yourself, you can be happy by yourself too. Its better than being put down and feeling worthless time and time again. Ask yourself if you were happy before you met him...or at least happier, there is always a choice and a way to get there again but you have to find love and strength within yourself and when you do you will be able to get anything you want including a MAN who will treat you and love you the same way you love him, in fact, he'll love you even more. I guarantee you (and believe me I know from experience) that once you have broken free from him and time has healed your dissapointment and broken heart, you will be KICKING yourself for wasting such valuable time in your life with a loser like him. That's life, you have to go through the bad to get to the good. I hope u find the happiness you are looking for!
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I think that you dont really love this guy and u should think do u really love him and want to be with him or not. OR Maby talking it over with him might help.
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wow, you should really consider dumping this guy..he sounds like a total jerk. during the day while he's at work or out, you should go to a friend's house and stay there for a while, or move in with your parents. im really sorry to hear about this. love always PiNk x InTeNtIoNs <3
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that is so not cool my frend is going throug the same thing and i told them to break up many times and i no how hard it is. but come on! be realistic here what do you think you should do? go on with life and almost killing your self because of some guy who treats you like shit? well i am wondering why you havent broken up already!!!!! well i think what i do and you thnk differently so you make the dissidion
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Thats not right at all. The best thing to do is break up with him.....I know when you hear that your probably thinking o no. I know he means so much to you but someone that loved you so much wouldn't do that. If you stay with him you could be in serious danger. I know it is very hard but its the best for you. And remember theres a guy out there that will love you even more plus he wont hurt you or yell at you. Please let me know how it goes.
luv always,~*Missy*~
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well break up with him and killing ur self over him is dumb .....i would of killed him ....anyways no one should put u down like that ......teach him a thing or to
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well 1. dont ever kill yourself over a man
and my advice to you is: tell him how you feel and if he doesnt respond to it good then he is not the one for you no man is worht your tears always remember that and is he calls you more hurtful names when you tell him dump him on the spot
well i hope i helped
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the answer is obvious, break up. do you really think you want to spend the rest of your life like this? with him out, life will be more enjoyable once again.
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BREAK UP WITH THE STUPID JERK!!!!!!!! nobody deserves to be treated that way.. and if your in that type of relationship break it off as soon as possible... don't throw away your life... it's just not worth it.. there's so much more to live for.. just cause of one bad relationship... you don't throw away your life.. if there's someone that you could talk to about it... a friend ... a family member... it doesn't matter who just as long as you get it out in the open.. forgive him, forget him, and move on...find someone new and if not who cares...the single life is just as good as being in a relationship.. so break up with the asswipe and don't kill yourself because of his problems... hope i could help =)
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Leave him. You love him, but he makes you feel miserable. Makes you cry 24-7, and hurts you emotionally and maybe even physically? Look, I know you love the guy...but staying with him is making him think its ok to hurt you. Get away from him, hes dangerous. And if he trys to get with you again, please dont take him back. Hes not worth it..you deserve someone better!
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