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Q: What's YOUR view on long distance relationships?
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Depending on the couple and how committed they are to the relationship, I believe that long distance relationships can work out. I've seen long distance relationships work out with people I know. My brother was in a LDR with his wife for a few years before they got married. Also, my best friend is currently going through a LDR with her boyfriend who is living in another country and they plan to get married in the future.

Q: I was just wondering.....how can you tell if a guy likes you?Because this guy that i really like looks like he likes me but Im not sure.What are some signs?

http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Guy-Likes-You

http://teenies674.tripod.com/id18.html

basically, lots of eye contact.

Q: so yeah i am pretty curious about how you know if a guy likes you soo....

yeaa?
http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Guy-Likes-You

http://teenies674.tripod.com/id18.html


Q: love songs are good too.
idontknow but they make me miss him.
here are some that i already like.

goodbye to you
tim mcgraw (taylor swift)
breathe
so contagious
the alamo is no place for dancing
with me
getting into you
your guardian angel
only one

i dont like metal/screamo.
or top 40 music.
so what are some songs that have to do with breakups? or love songs?



thanksabunchhxx
P.S. I'm still not over you-Rihanna
One of these days- Michelle Branch
Mine to Remember- Waz
Just so you know-Jesse Mccartney
Fallen through- Skye sweetnam
Your Face- Taylor Swift (find this on youtube, its an awesome song)
Over-Lindsay Lohan
Something I never had-Lindsay Lohan
someday we'll know-mandy moore
Can we still be friends-mandy moore
Find your way back-Michelle branch
I'd rather be in love-Michelle branch
come in with the rain-taylor swift
who knew-Pink
505- Arctic Monkeys
I hate that i love you-Rihanna and Ne-yo
all good things-mandy moore
white flag- dido
my boo-usher and alicia keys
who am i to say-hope
Skin-Alexz Johnson
Wait for you- elliot yamin
blackhole- lindsay lohan
the getaway-Hilary Duff
I'm only me when I'm with you-Taylor Swift
Symptoms of you-Lindsay Lohan
Tattoo-Jordin Sparks
Careless Whisper-Tamia
Out of the blue- aly and aj
big girls don't cry- Fergie


Q: So my boyfriend and I were having some technical difficulties, and I want some songs to reassure me that I love him. He lied about something in the past and me,I blow everything out of proportion. So any good songs out there to help me out!?
Mine to Remember-Waz
P.S. I'm not over you- Rihanna
I hate that I love you- Rihanna and Ne yo
Symptoms of you-Lindsay Lohan
One of these days- Michelle Branch
505- Arctic Monkeys
Who am I to say- Hope
Wait for you- Elliot Yamin
Your Face- Taylor Swift [this one might be hard to find.]

Here are my favs. I'll list more later if I can think of anything else.

Q: Its the 2nd year I'm with my guy... I love him alot....
we've been through alot of problems through the last year.. but we love eachother alot and want to go on....

for this valentines i thought of burning some CD's full of love and romance movies along with some other presents...
I need help

please can you give me names of beautiful meaningful movies biased on love and romance???

in addition to that
something like a perfect guy movie would be great too..
also a movie that shows how two people realize they cant live without eachother would be great too


Please please help me..

I need names of many movies as possible biased on love and romance...
Here is some that I thought of at the top of my head:

Titanic, Simply Irresistible, Notebook, Sleepless in Seattle, Dirty Dancing, The Lover, Walk to Remember,Shop Girl(more of a comedy though), 10 Things I hate about you, Can't buy me love, Pretty in Pink

I'll add more if I can think of more.

Q: What are some good songs about getting cheated on?
Should've said no-Taylor Swift
Before he cheats-carrie underwood
Calling all detectives- Marie Serneholt
If you were me- Lindsay Lohan

I'll add more later if I can think of any

Q: Im a girl & i am 13 years old. I really really like this guy. Im head over heals for him, and i feel so good when im around him. heres the problem: he's taken. I know i need to just wait my time, but I feel that if i wait any longer i will BURST! School starts in one week...and him & his gf both go to my school. I would just avoid him, but i go to a private school with only 10 kids in my class. I like him so much, but i know better than to tell him i like him when he is dating a differnt girl....but when hes with her & im there i pretty much dont exsist. please help me. :(

-heartbroken
the thing is that the guy that you like is already taken and there isn't anything that you can really do because its like you have no control over your situation. I'm not asking you to get over him because I know that its not that easy. I think that you should date and see other guys and have fun since you're young and you have a couple more years of school left. You never know, you might find someone else who is better than the guy that you like or he breaks up with his gf and you would be able to make your move because not alot of relationships at the age of 13 is going to last forever. its kinda like what my teacher said dating when you're a teenager is like experimenting and practice in order to find out what you look for in a potential "soul mate".

Whenever you feel like you're going to explode, it definitely helps to write how you feel about him or if you wrote a letter to him(without sending it) on what you wish that you could tell him but can't.

If you really want to tell him that you like him go ahead and do it even though on the plus side- he finally knows how you feel and you might feel relieved but on the negative side- there will be drama and you might get hurt.

I can't really tell you what you should exactly do because I think that if I tell you the wrong thing, you might blame me. so please just do what you want to do and listen to your instinct. I know that my advice isn't great but if I personally knew you, I know that I would be able to help you a little more.

Q: 13/f and i've already got stretch marks on my inner legs/but I'm athletic not fat at all..I'm afraid if boys knew i have them they wouldnt date me they would probably think i'm digusting so I don't go swimming/wear short shourts in public or anywere around boys I feel so embassrent or however you spell it around them what should i do? Also does boys really care if girls have stretch marks?

=( I hate stretch marks

Remind yourself that stretch marks are normal and every girl gets them. Your stretch marks might fade over time but if you want your stretch marks to fade quicker you can use cocoa butter, mederma( a cream that you can get at a drug store) or get some kind of a prescription like Retin A.

Q: is it odd to date somebody a year younger then you, and he's a little bit shorter then you?
Im a female.
I don't really think thats weird. The only thing that matters is how you both feel about each other. You shouldn't care about what other people say if they make comments about you two.

Q: Hey im 13 n just went on my first blind date. i agreed 2 go bcos the guy sounded really cool. i met him n he is kool but he smokes n m nt attracted 2 him. He asked me 2 go out with him n i sed yes(no idea y) now hes txting me n wants 2 c m evry day! on top of that im nt allowed 2 have a boyfriend till im 16...3 more years 2 go. I cant break up with the guy rite now because he askd me if im 1 of those girls that dump ppl th next day after going out with them n i said no even though i am! every relationship ive bn in i havnt liked the guy... is it bcos im shy to go out with the guys i really like or because im too young or wat? n wat do i do about the situation im in rite now?
You need to get out of that relationship even though the guy is gonna be hurt because the longer you wait the worse it will get. I don't think that you would want to stay in a relationship that feels fake. Also, I think you don't want to be with someone who you don't have any feelings for. First, you should be completely honest with this guy and there are many things that you can tell him.

1.You can tell him that you're not ready to be in a serious relationship and you want to keep your options open.
2.you would rather be friends with him because you see him as more as a friend than a boyfriend.
3. you're not attracted to him or you don't like him in that way.


To answer your second question, I think your problem is that you just haven't found the right guy yet. Remember this, there is that one guy that you are meant to be with but you just haven't met him yet. You're still young and you have your whole life ahead of you. so don't worry about it cause one day you'll meet that one guy that you'll have feelings for. I hope that I helped!


Q: I saw my bf at the mall with another guy kissing him! Not just kissing but making out! What should i do? Should i confront him?!
HELP me please!
Thank you soooo much
ugh, that is just gross. You should confront him cause you can't act like nothing happened. if was in that situation I would confront him no matter what.

Q: Everybody in my life is seeming to find "the one" but i seem to be all alone and if seems as if everybody guys i mean dont like me will i be single forever?
No, you won't be single forever. For now, you shouldn't worry about this and you should be patient and have a positive attitude. There is always a certain someone for everyone. Eventually you will find that person and it can happen anytime and anywhere. Remember this, the guy you're meant to be with is out there but you just haven't met him yet. sometimes I get the same feeling that I'll never find the right person so you're not alone.
♥ Georgia

Q: Why are boys so... i dont even know what word to use.. i mean they tell you they love you just to get in your pants! and they are sooo confusing, they bring so much pain but i still want them! ... grrr, am i making any sense? all i truley want is this...
i want a boy---
who can wrestle with me
and let me win.
who i can talk to about anything.
who laughs at my jokes.
a boy who puts my cold hands
in his warm hoodie pockets.
who lets me use his sweatshirt
for a pillow.
who buys me 25 cent rings,
and sticky hands.
who says i love you & means it.
who will kiss me in the rain,
in the sunshine, and in the snow.
who calls unexpectedly.
who will have many inside jokes
with me and remember each one.
a boy who notices girl's haircuts.
who realizes that girls say things
but dont always mean them.
who i can go swimming with
on hot days.
who can tell me his problems
and let me help.
who will listen to me talk--
about the new nail polish i got.
who will bring me seashells
from the beach.
who will let me beat him up
when i get angry.
who writes love letters to me,
but doesn't send them.
who draws pictures and slips them
gently into my locker slot.
who saves his genuine, big smiles for me.
a boy with deep eyes,
that can see through faces into depths.

who wears baseball hats and
lets me wear his too.

who gives me his t-shirt to change into
and not expect to get it back.
who knows my favorite color, song,
car, vegetable, perfume and
the color of my toothbrush.
a boy who will shake my dad's handand look my mother in the eye.
who will call me by my full name--
first, middle and last.
a boy who will kiss me and
tell me i'm beautiful.
a boy who will let me cry to him.
who will squeeze my hips just right.
who suprises me and compliments
my manicure and plays with my hair.
who knows when i have a math test
or when i fail one.
a boy who smells like
he just stepped out of the shower.
who tells me i have a nice laugh,
and a smile that lights up the room.
a boy who's simply mine to hold."
that is exactly what i want!
why cant i get that?
Sorry, but there is no such thing as the perfect guy and most guys aren't like this. Almost every girl would want this type of guy but he just doesn't exist. Also mostly 90 percent of guys are jerks and only 10 percent are sweethearts. Think of it this way the guy you are meant to be with is out there but you haven't met him yet. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: i went on my first date with my boyfriend last night and he was kinda selfish...during the movie i took out my last ten dollars and he grabbed it and stuff...i thought he'd give it back but he spent it on himself! he bought popcorn..i didnt want any tho. then we went to the dollar store and he bought a whole bunch of stuff for himself with my money! he didnt ask me or anything. i dont want to talk to him about it cuz i dont know why..i guess im shy...he doesnt have aim or anything so i cant IM him...if you guys help me i will rate you a 5!! also if you have AIM, please IM me at SummerSunset48. thanks
Thats messed up! This guy is a rude and selfish a-hole. You should confront him, try to get your money back from him and then definitely dump him. I mean if he really wanted popcorn he could of asked nicely and said thank you but instead he just took away all of your money and spent the money for himself on his lil shopping spree. Don't let this guy take advantage of you and stand up for yourself. If you stay with him he might continue to take advantage of you and continue spending your money. This guy probably isn't the right person for you and the person that you are meant to be with is out there but you haven't met him yet. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: im going to a birthday sleepover party tonight for my friends (they are twins: one boy on girl) and after their parents go to bed the guys are going to hang with the girls and play a game called seven minutes in heaven.

my questions:
what the heck is that?
how do i play it?
and what do i do in the seven minutes?

WILL RATE

BTW: im 13/F
Seven minutes in heaven is when you go into a closet for seven minutes and make out or do whatever you want with a person. When your time is up you leave and another couple will go into the closet and make out for seven minutes. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?
In my opinion, I think that itz cute asking before kissing cause it shows that you respect the girl. But, it depends cause some girls like the guy to just go for it or to ask before kissing. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: I recently just got braces, and I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for a few months now and we haven't kissed yet.
Well I'm afraid now that since I have braces he won't want to kiss me.
I don't know, this is just something that worries me. But should I be worried about this?
I don't think that you should be worried about this cause you are still able to kiss someone even if you have braces. The guy should like you for just the way you are and shouldn't care about your braces. If he dumps you just because of your braces then this guy is a jerk and is messed up. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: I think I love this boy named Mat. I'm not sure. Every time I think about him I feel sick and I cry. Everytime I hear the song We Belong Together by Maria Carrie I think about him and I cry. He was the first boy I ever held hands with on the bus, and he broke up with me that night. I cried myself to sleep every night. Please tell me what is wrong with me. I am 12, and I am a girl.
- Chelsea Leigh
Theres nothing wrong with you. All I can say is that the pain of being heart broken is a part of life and everyone experiences it. You will eventually get over him and forget about him. So don't waste your time crying over a boy. You're only 12 years old and you have a full life ahead of ya. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: i really like this boy and he knows i like him but im afraid to ask him wat he thinks of me,but i dont want to get rejected wat should i do.
Remember life is about taking risks and you'll never know your answer if you don't do anything. Itz like a 50/50 chance like flipping a coin and it is either that he likes you or doesn't like you. If he rejects you then you two aren't meant to be together and just forget about him. Also, you can have a close friend of yours ask him about you. and that might make it easier for you. Remember this that special someone is out there but you just haven't met him yet. I've been through this situation and I regret not saying anything to him. So don't make the same mistake I did. ♥ Peachgirly

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"Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances, you just have to live life to the fullest. laugh as much as you can, spend all your money, tell someone what they mean to you, tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someones hand, comfort a friend, pig out, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, smile till your face hurts, dont be afraid to take chances or fall in love...& most of all live in the moment cause when you look back someday knowing you have no regrets it's gonna be what makes you smile."


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