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Boy Trouble...
Hey im 13 n just went on my first blind date. i agreed 2 go bcos the guy sounded really cool. i met him n he is kool but he smokes n m nt attracted 2 him. He asked me 2 go out with him n i sed yes(no idea y) now hes txting me n wants 2 c m evry day! on top of that im nt allowed 2 have a boyfriend till im 16...3 more years 2 go. I cant break up with the guy rite now because he askd me if im 1 of those girls that dump ppl th next day after going out with them n i said no even though i am! every relationship ive bn in i havnt liked the guy... is it bcos im shy to go out with the guys i really like or because im too young or wat? n wat do i do about the situation im in rite now?
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You need to get out of that relationship even though the guy is gonna be hurt because the longer you wait the worse it will get. I don't think that you would want to stay in a relationship that feels fake. Also, I think you don't want to be with someone who you don't have any feelings for. First, you should be completely honest with this guy and there are many things that you can tell him.
1.You can tell him that you're not ready to be in a serious relationship and you want to keep your options open.
2.you would rather be friends with him because you see him as more as a friend than a boyfriend.
3. you're not attracted to him or you don't like him in that way.
To answer your second question, I think your problem is that you just haven't found the right guy yet. Remember this, there is that one guy that you are meant to be with but you just haven't met him yet. You're still young and you have your whole life ahead of you. so don't worry about it cause one day you'll meet that one guy that you'll have feelings for. I hope that I helped!
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