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Are there any suggestions on how I should tell my parents i'm bisexual? I've wanted to for a while but didn't know how to bring it up. I have a girlfriend named Madison too. 16/F (link)
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just tell them straight they've got to understand
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ok so there is this guy we like eachother and i told him i liked him like one month and a week ago in a note but he didnt write back so now alot of guys are flirting with me and i think he may think i like one of them since he doesnt have good self esteem but he asked this girl a grade younger out and he knows she absolutley is obssesed with him and will say yes but its hard for him to ask girls out so i dont think he likes her but i dunno wat to do cuz the other day i told him i didnt like him i dunno if he heard but lately hes been standing next to me staring at me more than usual and trying to start conversations wat should i do??
THANX! (link)
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ask him if he likes you and find out if he wants you ask him open questions like I was wondering do you like me? you get the picture hope it helps
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hey alright to cut to the choice i really like this one kid that i meet at my work (community center job) and he seems kinda of shy and nervous but in front of his friends he isnt that i no of. i havnt really talked to him but he loves to play pool and so do i he cute funny and i mean i dont really no his personality to well but everytime i see him its likes i get all werid and i mean i like him alot and stuff or something like i start to get shy because i havnt talked to him or anything well i am to scared to go talk to him what do i do?? please help me sorry soo long (link)
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pluck up your courage and go and talk to him don't be to full on have a conversation with him talk about his hobbies and talk about yours and the more you talk the more you'll get to know him then one day you can invite him uptown or something and talk more hope i helped sophie
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I really think my life is worthless. I'm nothing special and i feel like such a waste. The only person who i can talk to, who keeps me going, who i have spent 3 years of my life being dedicated to, and loving .. could care less about me. I
f i can't have him i don't want any body else. I feel no point in living. I truely love him and he's the only reason i get up in the morning. I feel like just ending my life now, but i could no way do it, and i would never. This sounds immature and child-ish. But it's not. My feelings will never change.
What can i do to make everything better? (link)
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Forget about lads the're not worth it you were put on the earth for a purpose and you've got to find out what it is when you start believing in yourself others will too have faith in yourself beauty is in the eye of the beholder go out and enjoy yourself you deserve it your not worthless you may think you are but your not so have abit of self-respect and enjoy life whilst you still can hope I helped sophie
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my boyfriend goes camping alot with his family ive been dating him for 4 months now and this is the second time that one of his trips just happened to involve his ex hes always saying how much he hates her and how he wants me to go but i cant because my parents wont let me the thing is i never can tell if hes going to break the trust we have i know he loves me and i love him but his ex always gets in the way how can i tell whats going on? thanks in advance (link)
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Well ask him if he really loves you that he tells you everything that happened and ask about his ex and if he gets all nervous and tries to change the subject then he's hiding something if he says in a confident and well manned voice and looks at you then he is telling the truth
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This may be a little long...Sorry.. but i really need to know what was meant... So.. The other night I was at my boyfriends house we were laying in bed watching a movie... and his friend showed up... and then his brother came in and was watching the movie with us... Well then they all started talking about getting their new cars.. well my boyfriend and his friend.. and his friend said that him and my boyfriend could pick up chicks.... well my boyfriend was like no way.. Ive got mine right here... and put his arm around me... well then his brother said that all Kevin (my boyfriend) would have to do was have me with him to pick up chicks.... So my question is... Was he saying that I'm Hot... Or was he saying that I was like a lesbian or something... I was really confused by what he said.. (link)
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I think he meant that you were like a lesbian so you could attract all the other girls
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ok so theres this guy that i really wanna get over but i cant. he likes one of my best friends but only thinks i'm "hot." i really want to get over him but i still like him even when i try to forget about it. and even if i do still like him...he doesnt like me. help!?! (link)
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he's not worth thinking about just remember theres someone out there for everyone don't waste your time on one lad go out there and have the most fun you've ever had flirt with as many boys as possible be spontanious and enjoy what you've got forget him he's not worth it theres plenty more fish in the sea and you will find someone when you least exspect if I know it's hard but you've got to move on
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basically this guy moved here a couple years ago and ive liked him ever since then. he lives right across the street from me so we became brother and sister type friends. he's had a lot of girlfriends here so we never went out, but he has liked me before. so now he's in an 8 month relationship with another girl and im happy for them. now heres the hard for me part, they've gone to 3rd within 3 months...and now they're talking about having sex within a few weeks. he talks to me about this (he doesnt know that i like him still because i dont want to create drama), but if he actually goes through with it i dont think i could ever look at him the same. we're all 15 by the way. i don't know... i've been thinking about it so much and im really upset. please help (link)
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you need to tell him theres no time like the present ask him if he's sure that he wants to do this and tell him how you feel because otherwhise it's gonna haunt you for the rest of your life
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I just got my first kiss. It was sort of a game, if the guy made a shot in basketball he got to kiss me and my friend, and he made it. I kind of like him, and I want to hook up with him, maybe even go out with him. The problem is, my friend wanted to hook up with him and she was all over him. Shes kind of a hoe, and if we ever meet new guys, she tries hooking up with all of them. I dont think she hooked up with him yet, but I think he might be liking her more than me. I dont want to attack him, so what are some moves I can make to get his attention more? How do I get to him before my friend does? Should I just straight out start making out with him? (link)
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you need to flirt leae him wanting more forget about your friend because if she acts all desperate then he's just gonna get annoyed and she'll make herslef look a fool with you just try and flirt a little like go up to him and pretend to bump into him but at the same time touch him like his arm and just be playful don't be to full on but go with the flow and bingo your in there hope i helped sophie
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so like my bf and me have been going out for 10 and 1/2 months, and we always fight about the same thing, Him going out, and today he told me that we should take a break, what is a break really and what should I do, I was so upset all I could do was cry... and whats worse i actually let him take his stupid break, and I dont know what to do, im so confused and hurt, and I cant break up with him because i love him, and he told me like a million times today he loves me, but i just feel like this is going to change our relationship, what should I do, i really need some help!@ im 16/f (link)
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he sounds like abit of a jerk if he truely loved you then he wouldn't act like this confront him about it and tell him he better get his act together i know you love him but sometimes you've got to be cruel to be kind i know it sounds harsh but thats all you can really do hope I helped sophie
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So there's this boy named Jamie and all the girls have liked him. Well,lets just say a large quantity at one time or another.
He's not that hot but, he's cute and sweet and innocent and really funny. And he's a mormin so he just gained the ability to date in May when he turned 16 and went on his first date a couple weeks ago. Now I really like him, I mean really like him. Last year we were in a couple classes together last year and became okay friends not great ones but okay ones. But I don't look or act like a lot of the girls he hangs out with. So basically what I'm askin is how could we become closer without me being to obvious.
And please don't say just flat out tell him that I like him because we're going to be in at least one class together next year, I know he doesn't like me yet and I don't want it to be awkward. (link)
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you need to talk to him don't be afraid to tell him how you feel you should express your feelings and tell him straight then see how he replies if he says sorry i'm not interested then move on if he says ok then then give it ago hope i helped sophie
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okay heres the thing. i kind of like my guy best friend. but the problem is, i cant like him. My other best friend is practically dating him. But i cant help but like him anyways. I dont really know what to do about these feelings. I know I cant actually do anything. And im sure he doesnt like me. But i just wish he did. I can move on, and i do. I like other guys, but i still like him. Nobody knows how i feel & i wouldnt know how to tell them. And i dont think i should. I mean I just.. dont know what i can do.. and im not sure how anyone can help me here.. but i just keep holding this inside of me, and its really starting to hurt.. what can i do?
help please!!
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you need to tell both your friend and him how you feel you need to make your feelings clear because if you bottle them up it will eat away at you express how you really feel tell you mate that I no your closer to him than me but maybe for my sake can we both stick with him or can she back down abit and say if your really my true friend then you'd understand but if she doesn't then ditch her with him you need to talk to him alone and tell him how you feel if he doesn't feel the same way then move on I know it's hard but trust me it works just talk to someone and have a good cry get a movie and some chocolates and then it will be alot easier hope I helped sophie
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okay heres the downlow. Whenever my boyfriend is around girls he always flirts with them, even if i'm right there. then when i talk to him about he'll either say i never did that or oh i'm sorry i won't do it again, but he never changes! I don't know what i should do. Part of me wants to break up with him and another part of me doesn't! So what should i do!!??
I'm 13,Female (link)
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if he really cared for you he would try and change but he's oviously a jerk so i'd break it off with him and do better
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alright well there is this guy jeff who i used to date. after a bad break up we became really close friends, we told eachother everything and always laughed and had fun together. well he started talkin to my like everyday about a differant girl he liked, and honestly i didn't mind that much. i even gave him advice on rlationships, good advice. but if i said one word about a guy he always got mad and aggrivated. then one day he told me he liked me alot and would love to be my gf, so later on i asked him out. he said "i love you so much i can't stand a break up so friends with benefits???" well that was lame so i said no, just friends. then he got mad because he said i told him i liked him then asked to be just friends.... even though he did the exact same thing. well we forgave and forgot and he started talking about another girl and he asked who i would probably date because he heard that i liked some guy from my friend. i told him that i liked josh and he asked me out and i said yes.... jeff got mad and started calling me all these names and being so rude! i told him he was a selfish emotional loser... harsh but i was mad. then we forgave eachother and he said i love you i am sorry. now he is being really mean to me, always getting mad over nothing and if i get mad back he sucks up to me. so i told him that i was done with him, and we should just never talk again. after hearing him sob for a while i am beginning to think that i am the bitch? am i the mean one, or is he out of line?
p.s. im 14 f (link)
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this jeff guy sounds like a total loser you did well to move on
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Well i broke up with my bf after we dated for 7 months i felt like i wanted to experience more things so i broke up with him.. and now im dating him again and i dunno if i rly love him in my heart i see us starting a family together but i kinda feel like i want some1 new but im not for sure.. wat should i do?? (link)
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you need to decide if you love him or not and you need to talk to him
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okay i have this boyfriend & we have been going out for a long time. People have been trying to break us up but untill now it has never worked. My friend told me that my boyfriend wanted to break up with me, some people agree with her, few people agree with me. i LOVE my boyfriend & i never wanted anything to come between us. Now I dont know what to do.
Please help me. :( (link)
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you've got to ignore people like that their jealous you just get on with your life and tell oyur bf that your sick of everyone getting on your case
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I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 15. I know that it's ok and that I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy, but I really want one. I see how happy my friends are with their relationships and I just want to feel that special feeling, you know? I don't wanna sound conceited but i don't think looks are the main problem. My friends tell me that I'm not flirtatious and outgoing like them. Its just that I feel awkward being flirtatious and always question myself like omg he doesnt like me and stuff. How do I become more flirtatious and outgoing to get a boyfriend? thanks so much (link)
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ok you need to get some self-respect and love yourself believe that you can be different forget about what your friends say it's you who makes the decions so you need to get up and go flirt your hardest if your postures good then get out there and kick some butt lol what I mean is have faith in yourself your unique and have girl power so go show them boys what your made of hope i helped love sophie
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i really like this guy and i cant get him off my mind. EVER i really do love him more than anything in this world but he just doesn't understand that. we were in one of those perfect relationships where he would call me at 3 in the morning just to see what i was doing or just because he wanted to hear my voice. !! one night he called me and asked me about my ex who was killed a few months ago, he didn't know that he was killed but he thought that i was still with him. but an hour later he broke up with me and i still dont know why. its been weeks and i still cry over him all the him. i dont think i could stand to cry over him one more time. he likes all these other girls now. i just dont know what to do or how to get over him.im sorry this is long but please answer me fast !!!! thank you !!
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ok he oviously doesn't understand you need to talk to him tell him everything you feel and explain that you weren't with your ex and that you love him he'll understand but if he doesn't then he's a tosser most boys are like this so try and maybe it will be ok
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really weird problem - really need help. been with my bf for about 10 weeks.. everything is fine except the kissing. ever since we started going out hes know i've got a problem with it - i don't even know what it is myself but I just hate it! im really nervous and want to kiss him but... don't... at the same time! i get really worked up over it... once he got annoyed but he tries to be understanding... i really want to talk about it but what is there to say? what should i do?? (link)
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Well it's natrual to be scared of kissing it's quite a big step to take but if you don't feel ready then talk to your bf about it and he might understand also if your not ready then it doesn't matter you've got plenty of time to get prepared
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I*ve been going out with this guy for a little over 2 months now, and i really like him...but we dont ever see each other. We go to different schools, and we live one & a half hours away from each other. I see him when i go to my moms, every other weekend..but i dont think thats enough! Summers almost here and i*m gonna be at my moms house all summer, so i*ll be able to see him but people tell me that hes cheating on me and lying to me. I dont know what to do!!...... (link)
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You need to talk to him and sort things out get things straight with him
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