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Coming out


Question Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 11:02 pm

Are there any suggestions on how I should tell my parents i'm bisexual? I've wanted to for a while but didn't know how to bring it up. I have a girlfriend named Madison too. 16/F

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MELiixMARiiE answered Monday November 21 2005, 8:02 pm:
Well I know it's going to be hard to tell them first of all so just kinda relax yourself ( and also make sure they are in a good mood also. You wouldn't want to tell them something whenever they might be all pissed off already and everything so just wait till they're in a good mood also ) and take them into a room where you can speak with them privately. I can't really help you from any personal experiences or anything but if I were to be in your positive I would just get it out. I would just be like:

"Mom, dad, I got something to tell you.. I'm bisexual and I also have a girlfriend. Her name is Madison."

You've just got to be honest with them which already shows you love them alot and want them to know. Some people never tell their parents because they're afraid of what might happen. If you parents love you ( and I'm sure they do I mean you ARE their daughter ) they'll understand. Just be honest with them and talk to them and answer any questions they have for you ( you also might want to talk about Madison ). Just explain to them that you really like Madison ad she's a really sweet girl and maybe even after awhile invite her over to dinner sometime so your parents can meet her and get to know her. I hope I've helped you out some ( once again sorry I have no personal experience in this but I tried ). I wish the best of luck to you for whenever you tell them.





Love,
MELii

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Xfoxcutie09X answered Monday November 21 2005, 7:33 pm:
just tell them!! they are your parents they are supposed to love u no matter what you are but if your parents aren't like that then think of a way of hinting it to them at first then just come clean with them. if they dont accept you for what you are then that shows you that you how loving you parents are.i hope i helped.

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Orlandoxluva answered Sunday November 20 2005, 1:42 pm:
just tell them straight they've got to understand

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FilipinoPrincess answered Sunday November 20 2005, 3:14 am:
yes u should just tell your parents cause ur 16 and you have mixed descisions and some curiosity if your bi or not.

but personnally i dont see a reason how could anyone be bisexual its either your a lesbian or gay because if your bisexual then you like both gender...i dont see how anyone could like both genders unless their just really curius and want to try both sex.

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NESSA answered Saturday November 19 2005, 11:56 pm:
Well..just defenetly be honest with your parents!.because they should love you the way you are.Make them sit down after dinner maybe and just tell them after all truth hurts at points. [NESSA]

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Jarhead11789 answered Saturday November 19 2005, 11:30 pm:
At this age, I don't see any real reason to tell them, especially since you're bi. If you get to a more definite age, and you're getting serious with another female, then you might want to tell them, but at this point, I don't think it'd be the best idea.

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karenR answered Saturday November 19 2005, 11:11 pm:
Honestly, I see no reason to tell your parents.
If you were a homosexual, then I'd say something but bi....why?

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