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I really think my life is worthless. I'm nothing special and i feel like such a waste. The only person who i can talk to, who keeps me going, who i have spent 3 years of my life being dedicated to, and loving .. could care less about me. I
f i can't have him i don't want any body else. I feel no point in living. I truely love him and he's the only reason i get up in the morning. I feel like just ending my life now, but i could no way do it, and i would never. This sounds immature and child-ish. But it's not. My feelings will never change.
What can i do to make everything better?
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Have confidence.people who kill them elves are just taking the easy way out..with no adventures..try telling him how you fell..and always remember that no guy is worth loosing your life over..you have to live for yourself an belive in your self if you cant do that you dont have anything..you cant count on someone to make you happy...you have to makre sure you can make your self happy..before you can be together with someone an get committed
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Forget about lads the're not worth it you were put on the earth for a purpose and you've got to find out what it is when you start believing in yourself others will too have faith in yourself beauty is in the eye of the beholder go out and enjoy yourself you deserve it your not worthless you may think you are but your not so have abit of self-respect and enjoy life whilst you still can hope I helped sophie
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You are not better than anyone else. You are not unique. And the reason why? You don't believe yourself to be. So get the fuck over it and be selfish for a change. Why haven't YOU gotten the things you want, the things YOU deserve, the things YOU rightfully should have? So some worthless fuck has left your life. Their fucking loss, right? People should be lining up for the chance to be your friend because goddamn, you are special.
Sounds egotistical, right? But it works, as long as you more or less keep it to yourself. Otherwise, you're an ass to everyone.
You wasted your time with this guy, and later on you'd realize that anyway. It's time for something new.
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Why Dont you try doing something you loved to do before you met him.
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First of all, your life is NOT worthless and never will be!!! Every body has a purpose in their lives whether you know what that is yet or not. You are not a waste. You were created by God for a special purpose so dont think otherwise!!!
If this really special guy has disappeared from your life then yes it's going to hurt. But someway, you'll manage to get through this. There are a lot of sweet guys out there for YOU!!! Just because this one guy didn't quite work doesn't mean its the end. Even THINKING about suicide is going to make you really depressed. You say you would never do it now, but it does get worse unless you can find some other outlet for your pain. And yes, over time your feelings will change because they'll have to. Life goes on whether we're ready or not. It just makes it easier on us if we go along with it instead of fighting it. God bless you.
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Look at this song:
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It might not help that much but it explains things. But just remember that no matter what you think, there's someone out there who cares about you and who loves you. Maybe you dont know or maybe you won't except it. But there's always someone. Dont keep your feelings inside but find someone special that you trust to talk to about it.
Why do you think this person doesn't care about you? maybe you misunderstood them or are taking something they said too seriously. Talk to them about it no matter how mad you guys are (i dont know if you're mad at each other but if so, talk to them about it). B/c i'm sure there's someone.
You are not worthless, you have a purpose. We all do and never forget that. Would you have been put on this planet if you didn't?
hope i helped! if you need more help, you can leave me a message.
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First of all, you said you knew it sounded immature and childish and that your feelings will never change. And yet you ask what you can do to make it better? If nothing will ever change, why are you asking us how to make it better? So you either need to believe things will get better or else don't bother asking us.
Just thought you should realize this.
You know what else? It IS immature and it IS childish. You want to DIE when so many people are DYING at this VERY second. People that deserve to live.
Although you might think of it as the other way around, I think people that want to die are selfish. Think of all of the wonderful people that have died. YOU have a chance to become a wonderful person and make a difference, or heck, even just be a bad person. And yet, there are still people who want to die. If you aren't going to live for yourself, at least live for those that can't live anymore. And what about the people that care about you? Oh please, don't say no one cares about you. There are people you don't even know that care about you. Even strangers would care about you. If you were going to kill yourself in the street, someone would try and save you. If you passed out on the sidewalk, someone would try and help you while someone else called an ambulance. And that's CARING about you.
Suicidal people. If they only waited a little longer, they would have lived. Most people that try to kill themselves and end up being saved from it regret what they have done and realize it was not the right thing to do. Of course when you're feeling like crap you want to kill yourself right at that very moment. But what about the future? What if you waited 10 years? What if you just wanted 10 minutes?
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Why should you fear death? It's frightening that it can happen anywhere, anytime, any person. Death doesn't care who you are. Unlike most things, death isn't picky and discriminating. And when death visits someone, it's usually someone you thought would live forever.
Even if you lived a happy life up to 100 years old...what happens then? You die. You either die and leave behind what you had grieving for you. Or you live and grieve for what has already left you. So either way...death has a grip on you and you'll have to face it eventually in your life. It's a scary thing. It's something you can't escape.
These are the things that comfort me even though death is such a powerful and scary thing:
- You can make a difference in the world no matter how little or how big. Or how long you've been on this earth.
- You can at least live for those that haven't been able to.
- Everyone faces death anyway, so you are never alone.
- No matter who you are, you have a chance to make people happy. Making people happy, laugh, smile, feel warm hearted...it's a wonderful thing.
- No matter how old you are, you have accomplished many things. They can be big or small. Some things you may not even realize.
Yes death is scary. I want you to fear it. I want you to fear it enough so you will never want to die when your time is still plenty. But I don't want you to fear death so much you can't handle it when the time really comes. Everyone has a time when they will die. And your time will come when it comes. You can't WISH for it to come, especially when you still have much to go for. The time comes when it comes. So make the most of what you have until it comes.
Sorry for rambling on about death, but those were my thoughts about death and about selfish people. I was once like you. No, I didn't mope over a boy. I just felt like life had no point. But after thinking it over, I realized how selfish I was being and now I'm loving life.
You don't need a man to make you happy. The truth is, some people find true love and some people don't. What YOU need to do to make yourself feel better is to believe life CAN be worth something. Surround yourself with good friends. Do community service. Do all the things you've ever wanted to. By moping around and wishing yourself to die, you're only going to make it worse. Your may always remember the pain one boy caused you, but over time you will realize that pain was childish and stupid. You probably think I'm crazy and I know nothing, and that's fine, but I know you will understand someday when you get your head out of the dumps.
Dating is all about bonding with someone, gaining new experiences, and finding out what you need and want. You did exactly that, didn't you? So why mope around? You've done exactly what you're supposed to do when you date. If things don't work out you move on and live life. Now the only thing left to do is for you to do THAT...move on and live life.
Sorry if I sounded harsh, but you need a reality check. Life is what you make it. So make it great.
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Hey swty! Well I know from personal experiences how it feels like to not want to wake up in the morning because you don't want to face reality. Even though this person seems to mean a lot to you right now he's honestly not worth your time, effort, and especially your life. Every minute that goes by you probably think about how you guys used to be so happy together..but is he thinking about you?? It's not worth wasting your time and thinking about him if he's not thinking about you. The reality is he's probably trying to get a dumb young grl thts a complete and total skank to experience his sexual fantasies with. Your just lucky tht you didn't stay w. him or he would have used you like most guys use most grls. I'm sure tht your really pretty and can get cute guys to like you> you should def. open up your options and look around. Trust me I always say tht "everything happens 4 a reason." If you guys don't end up together than tht just means tht there's something better 4 you in your future. Try to not get attached to the guys tht you probably will date in the future there honestly not worth your tears and heart aches. Abuse them, Use them, and than Lose them>> I hope I helped w. my advice and cheered you up a bit. TRy doing something fun w. your friends tht will get your mind off of tht guy. Xo. Gl!!! Rate-me~~
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Hey it may seem like the end of the world, but just remember that you have God! Pray and ask him to help you, he will ALWAYS be there for you! That guy is missing out on a GREAT girl!!!! I hope ya believe in God 'cause last time I gave someone advice I mentioned God and they got mad, lol. Well just remember that Jesus loves you!!
I hope I helped!!!
~KiSsY~fUrR~
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aw honey.. you need to im me! we can talk i might have a situation like this sn-certain spark 08
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Yeh i feel the same way. It sucks to feel like a person you care about sooo much doesnt feel the same way. I hate it.
But I've met new people and I've become friends with people i care as much about as I do that person that doesnt feel the same way I do.
You just have to be patient which is a very hard thing to do and if you still feel like you are worthless..try talking to your friend and ask him straight out. What do you think of me?
It is really hard but it helps a great deal.
Good Luck and leave one in my inbox if you still need help.
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everyone feels like that atlaest once in their life. you're not alone. i was into a guy for 4 years, i didnt like him as much as you but i know a little of what you're going through.
you do have a purpose and a life. you had a life before he was in it. it does get easier with time. your feelings will eventually fade (though it may not seem like it now) but people like that, they'll always have a place in your heart. but over time your body and mind starts building defences and figuring out ways of getting around him. it's just natural. and it just takes a crapload of time. i know that many people have probably told you all of this over and over but it's the truth.
if you ever feel like you're about to break just IM me and we can totally talk it out. i'm like always online (now THAT'S lacking a life =P)
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To be honest with you. You cant. You've come to realise the truth.
If you died right now, do you know not even .1 percent of the world would care?
To be honest; the guy you love will soon dump you. Its great you've had a relationship for 3 years, he is now bored of you. You've already admitted that.
I'm sure now you've realised when you grow up you'll be working some crap job. You wont be a million dollar anything. You wont be a movie star. You wont be a rock star. You wont invent something. You'll sit at a desk for hours a day and wonder why you work there.
We're all part of the same heap of trash. We're nothing.
You need to stop caring. Let it all go. Its your life; you only have one of them. Quit giving to others, be selfish. Its your life, not theirs. Dont care about what goes on around you. Do what you want. Keep your close ones happy and dont worry about anything.
It all doesn't matter in the end. You wont save the world. You wont make an impact on a mass amount of people. No one cares what you do. Who you are. Or what you can do.
Know this.
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dont say that your feeling will never change cuz they will. eventually some amazing person will step into your life .... so dont think your life ends here cuz it doesnt. be optomistic. you only have one life to live . dont waste it on someone who doesnt care about you. they dont deserve you.
hope this helped :)
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