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My boyfriend of over two years is in the Navy. We're working on a long distance relationship and we have gotten so much closer, it's unbelievable. I'm going to visit him in 18 days where he's stationed in Florida, and I'm going to be there for almost two weeks. I want these two weeks to be the best ever. Any suggestions on what I can do to make it awesome? What kinda things can we do, or what can I say/do to show him my feelings haven't changed? I want this to be perfect. =) (link)
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you know what, i'm very happy for you two to work things out especially in a long distance relationship, my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 2 years and next month hes going to bootcamp to become a marine, i dont know whats going to happen but i hope things work out like you guys =] i think you guys could go out for a nice dinner and maybe go see some movies, just spending time together doing whatever i'm sure will be enough for you two to be happy =] good luck and have fun!
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i'm dating a guy who treats me like a princess, but when we're in the bedroom, he treats me like a prostitute. he spanks me(lightly), pulls my hair, and says things like "your're so, so dirty. someone needs a shower, she's so nasty." what's up with him. (link)
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i know its kinda creepy but some guys like that sort of stuff, if your not into it just let him know be like okay stop. its not that hes treating you like a prostitute, its probably what just gets him turned on.
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im 13/f and i like a guy that is 16. i have known him since i was born and he was my sisters friend, but then we moved to dallas and now he still lives in seattle. so i just saw him a couple of days ago and now i like him ALOT and like idk wat to do. ive known him my whole! life! and like...he has a gf in california and hes had her for like a few yrs and like they see eachother every month! and like i want to move back to seattle not only b/c of him but my old friends and stuff too. so is there ne thing i can do to like make him like me or stay in touch. BTW i dont have his sn but my sister will get it but like i dont want to tlk to him on that b/c i never really talked to him. HELP!
p.s this is my sn if you can im me for more help! ilove50centmore and that is on aim! plzz help!!! (link)
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i dont think there is a way for him to like you, but def try to stay in touch with him. write him letters, email.. anything, just keeping in touch is better than nothing. well if you want to start talking to him on the computer you can just ask simple thing hows it going back in seattle? hows everyone? his family, friends.. i hope i've helped you can im me sometime, starzzz789
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My Boyfriend told me yesterday that if he doesnt have a girlfriend who loves him when he turns 16 he is inlisting into the army and i dont want that to happen. I dont want anything to tear us apart but if he does go i will miss him how do i talk him out of it!
Im 14 and He Is Almost 15! (link)
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my boyfriend, matter in fact last week, just signed up to be in the marines, for 4 years. yeah, i'm 15 and hes 18. we've been together for over a year, and i knew before we even started going out he wanted to sign up for the marines, but i never really thought anything of it, but yeah he did. its not going to tear us apart, atleast that we know of, were still going to write to eachother i'm still going to be at his house when hes gone. i still have 2 years left in highschool and then 2 years out of that until he comes back. i'm going to miss him alot but imagine if you were older, if you had kids and your the other person running the house, with no help. your better off now, but i'm sure things won't get to the point you would have to break up. and plus you have to be 18 to sign up to enroll in anything with the government unless your parents sign for you. hes still got 3 years, have fun with what you have now. xox Renee
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ok me and this guy have been going out for about 4 months, im 14, female, and i luv him soo much! We have made-out and been to each others houses, also hes looked down my shirt and lil things nuthing totally taking clothes off or anything, i definately dont want to have sex because im a christian and ive made that promise so what should we do if i want more than just making out? (link)
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well you guys can do oral sex, like you can give him head or a hand job, he can finger you, just things that you both get pleasure out of but not going too far into sex. do what you feel comfortable doing. xox
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ok well i have this ex b/f i will call him z and i went out with im on and off for almost a year i alos got quite heavy with him. i still like him and have done since we broke up. he has mooved on and been with loads of other girls so why cant i move on??? (link)
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things like that happens, it takes a while to move on from a guy that youve been like together for a year, but try hanging out with your friends more and other guys maybe, just do things that dont make you think of him and sooner or later you'll move on, its not going to ruin your life, just have some fun and meet some new guys.
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theres this guy and i like him alot and we talk everyday and he flirts with me and of course i flirt back but he said he doesnt like me! and people are always like do yall go out or yall should go out...what should i do? (link)
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well maybe he flirts with everyone, some guys are like that, and if people say that maybe you should talk to him about it, say something like you know people always say that we should go out, what do you think about that? and maybe he'll say something good about it, oh and you should tell him that you like him to, it'll help! xox
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ok.. me and my boyfriend of 10 mths broke up.. its almost been a month.. and im still totally in love with him.. ive told him.. and he knows.. i think he might like me again too.. so i was wondering.. if the next time we hug as "friends" should i kiss him on the cheek? or do i show him any type of emotion towards me wantin him back, or should i just act like friends with him?
*Madinga* (link)
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i dont think thats a good idea, because if he doesn't like you still, and you do kiss him on the neck, he could get a little freaked out about it and then he'll stop hugging you as just friends. get what i mean? first of all, just talk to him about how you feel, its the best thing to do. xox
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so i had this freind that i had benifits with.We both liked each other until He texted me today to tell me he's gettin back together with his x.but he still wants to be freinds..which sucs cuase i really like him. what should i do, just let him go and ignore him at school, or still talk to him, knowing i'll never get him back, but still be his freind...
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=/ thats why sometimes friends with benefits aren't the best.. sorry hun but you can't change his mind, just tell him how you feel about him and how it makes you upset about the whole situation. still talk to him, you still want him as a friend dont ya!? talk to him about your feelings! xox
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do you think it's better if a 17 year old dates a 25 old?! or do you think it's better for me wait until i'm 27 and he's 35?! (link)
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woah at least wait till your 18 then you'll be better, but i'm sure that theres someone closer to your age that you can have a relationship with, but def wait til your 18 then whatever happens from there is up to you.
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For me, high school relationships are about gaining experience and finding what you want in a relationship. But, what happens when you find exactly what you want your first try? And, do we ever really get over anything? (link)
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crazy, first relationship i've been in since highschool has lasted for over a year and i was a freshman and my bf was a junior. and we know that were going to be together for a VERY long time but he keeps telling me that i should just break up with him and see other people because he was the first serious relationship ive ever had and he thinks its a bad thing. i'm not sure what happens after your frist try, but i know that you dont get over anything when its your first time and you really liked someone in your relationship. xox
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my boyfriend hugged me for the first time... and it was awesome!!! the only problem was that we were both hesitant... we just stood there looking at each other... bye the way... we're both VERY shy... he says he is gonna hug me again... but he is going to surprise me... how can i make it so im not hesitant?? thanks ! (link)
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after the first step things go alot easier in the relationship. i think you both are afraid to do something that will make the other scared and break up. itll take some time i would say because you say that both of you are shy. you can try to be more outgoing and make him feel more comfortable around you to make him less hesitant about things. xox
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ok...im 13/f 7th grade... this might sound crazy... but i no i am in love!! i have a boyfriend and i am completely in love with him!! ive never felt this way about any of my other boyfriends and i know he feels the same about me... he makes me smile just thinking about him... i melt when i see him! theres only one thing... this is wierd... but since we're young and all... is there any chance this could last forever (link)
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it could, then it couldn't, your only in 7th grade and during highschool things change and be expected of it, somethings dont last forever its just nice thinking that it all can. its just my opinion on things like that and i dont doubt that you aren't in love at all i believe you, just dont be suprised hun. xox
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My friend just found out that they guy she was dating was two timeing her! She can't get it out of her head and I don't know what to do. I tried everything but nothing seems to be working. Advice, ANY advice, would be very helpful! (link)
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just keep talking to your friend and trying to make her realize that her bf is a total liar!! shes just in denial and she doesn't want to believe that this guy could do that to her. but make her realize that. be a good friend and help her thru it!
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OK so my boyfriend got me a lot for Valentine's day and all I got him was a teddy bear. I cant think of anything else to get him. If anyone has any ideas at all please help me!! Thanx so so so much , I rate high. (link)
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i'm sure your bf loves candy, buy him his favorite bag of candy =D its a cute thought! xox
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ommmmgooooodness i have a hickey the size of a shot glass and i just got it like an hour ago lol... first hickey how to hide it besides makeup which ive tried..and it burnnnns baddddddddddddddddddddly :-/ ThAnK u! (link)
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hey, next time dont let your guy suck you so long lol. but okay if your hair can kinda cover it up then that will be good, or a sweatshirt maybe. i dont know what else to say for covering it up, i dont think makeup should burn when you put it on there, but then again, it probably would. so yea try a sweatshirt and maybe if your hair is long enough try leaving your hair down. but yea next time, if you want to do thru this dont let your guy give you one. xox
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hi i am fourteen years of age and i have never had a partner, which means ive never been to any of the bases!! is the first kiss always the worse? i dont know what i am supposed to do when i am going to kiss somebody, like what your supposed to do with the lips, teeth, and tounge, and i am scared! i dont want to feel akward when i really suck at kissing..and im not really talented!! someone please tell me what i should do! (link)
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well once that youve found someone and you both do end up kissing, i dont think that the guy would care at all even if you mess up, which is the slimest chance for that to happen, but dont worry. if the guy really likes you he shouldn't care about anything like that, he should be happy that your learning with him ya know? but the first kiss isn't always the worst! it could be your best because it might really mean something to ya ;D
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First of all thanks to everyone who helped answer my first question
my girlfriend is being a little cold to me lately and i'm not sure why. i mean she might be doing it just to tease me or because she's trying to break up with me. we also haven't talked in a while since we have both been so busy with school. i'm not sure what to think. i know that valentine's day is coming up so she might be doing it just for fun or she wants to make me dump her. i dunno what to think. Please Help!
Thanks!
Confused Boyfriend (link)
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think positive! dont think that she'll break up with you because you dont want to be depressed about things, so in other words, she might be doing it because of vday. suprise her with something for valentines day or something. the best thing that i suggest for you to do, is when you both aren't busy, you go to her house/or the other way around, and talk about things that have been happening. just say whats on your mind and i'm suer that the truth with come out. xox
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my boyfriend is so attached to me. he walks me to every class he sits with me everyday at lunch andtalks to me on tehphone every night. How am i supposed to miss him if hes always there with me.What can i do to make him not so attached to me? I want to be happy and excited when i see him. (link)
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aw hun, how can you not like that! but anyways, you can just tell him ithat you need a little space, but not in like a breakup or anything like that, just tell him in school you got things to catch up on so that he doesn't walk with you everywhere, and when you call him/he calls you can say that your going to go to bed early or do your homework then go to bed. dont be so mean, be nice about this, then if you dont see him/ talk to him for a while, you will be glad to see him and talk to him later.
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Me and my friend keep trying to hang out with these kids and they say that they will come nd then when the day comes they never show .. i dont get it .. they get all excited abuot coming over but then they just never come .. idk what there trying to say or if there just finding better plans or what? idk .. help please (link)
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i think that their afraid of saying that they dont want to come over or something, so instead of actually coming out to tell you the truth, they just dont do anything at all and forget about you, trust me, i know how you feel. have you asked them what happened or anything like that? whatever goes thru your mind when you say that, just say everything on your mind, because most of the time it will be like, well you made me wait the whole day for you guys, and u just ruined it. and i think they should get the hang of it and they'll feel bad, but you know what, dont get so worked up about them, go out and do what you want to do, dont waste your time waiting for them! but i hope ive helped. xox
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