my boyfriend hugged me for the first time... and it was awesome!!! the only problem was that we were both hesitant... we just stood there looking at each other... bye the way... we're both VERY shy... he says he is gonna hug me again... but he is going to surprise me... how can i make it so im not hesitant?? thanks !
Clash2004 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 11:29 pm: Dear Hug,
You like this boy right? Then why be so hesitant? Seize the day girl. Also don't be afraid of him, there is nothing to be afraid of is there? Just Breathe and keep your cool.
Hope I helped :)
Signed,
Clash2004 [ Clash2004's advice column | Ask Clash2004 A Question ]
ADViCE4YOUx3 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 10:26 pm: This is hard and it feels very akward. Act like he is a bff that you have not seen in so long. You will want to hug him so bad. Try not to be shy with him. Spend alot of time talking on the phone to grow closer. Good luck =) xo0 [ ADViCE4YOUx3's advice column | Ask ADViCE4YOUx3 A Question ]
gcfreakadoodle answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 9:41 pm: r u friggin serious..."im a geek whos hesitant to hug my boyfriend ahhhhhhhh" please just give me a friggin gun now. Hun its a hug ooooohh and lets make it more fun "I'll surprise you next time wowey capoodles" [ gcfreakadoodle's advice column | Ask gcfreakadoodle A Question ]
HunniBunni answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 8:18 pm: Are your serious. I feel like a slut now. I kissed my guy the first day we went out. Geeze. Wow, you must be young. But thats still cute. You should go hug him first! He'll be surprised n mayb u can sneek a kiss on the cheek or something. [ HunniBunni's advice column | Ask HunniBunni A Question ]
angieroonie answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 7:40 pm: youve done it once, you can do it again. there is nothing wrong with hugging so just dont worry about it. justhug him back. it aint too hard! [ angieroonie's advice column | Ask angieroonie A Question ]
snigglefritz18 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 7:21 pm: Well, hes most likely the shy one that really wants to hug you, and is waiting for YOU to hug HIM! Just go up to him and hug him. It most likely wont be awkward then. :) [ snigglefritz18's advice column | Ask snigglefritz18 A Question ]
iNdEeD2isBaK answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 7:12 pm: its a hug and like heck my first bf the 2nd day he KISSED me yeah i was hesitant but just let him make the move...who no's he jsu t kiss u instead!!!
♥ indeed2 [ iNdEeD2isBaK's advice column | Ask iNdEeD2isBaK A Question ]
NEVERLETG00 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 7:07 pm: after the first step things go alot easier in the relationship. i think you both are afraid to do something that will make the other scared and break up. itll take some time i would say because you say that both of you are shy. you can try to be more outgoing and make him feel more comfortable around you to make him less hesitant about things. xox [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
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