Member Since: February 22, 2005
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Last Update: February 22, 2005
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Okay, so I said the wrong thing at one point and told my guy I didn't feel like I could trust him (of course, at the time, I was just mad and upset, and everyone says the wrong things/stupid things when they're mad).
The thing was, he lied to me about something totally mundane, and he did it to keep me from worrying, but he can't lie to me worth crap, and I can always tell when he's lying, but I never know what he's lying about.
I have major trust issues because my last guy lied to me, cheated on me, then lied to me about cheating on me and lying to me. Lol. I mean, you'd have trust issues too.
So yesterday we talked, and he said something about maybe taking it a little too fast if I felt I couldn't trust him, and now he wants to refrain from sex...lol. Like, he wants to go back in time to like, right before we had sex. So it'll be physical, but like...not physical.
I asked him every confirmation question I could think of, including "is this leading to some sort of a breakup? If it is, be honest and don't string me along," and he didn't even let me finish before he said "What? No!" like "that's ridiculous". I mean, we've been engaged since august, and we're still engaged - he laughed at me when I sounded all nervous about it - he said "just because I want to go back in time doesn't mean I'm changing the future," so I don't think we're breaking up anytime soon.
But I don't understand the not wanting sex.
I have a couple of ideas - one might've been that every time we've seen each other lately has kinda led to sex because our schedules are so crazy that we never see each other.
Anyone have any other ideas? Thanks in advance for your help. (link)
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If you don't think you are ready, DONT DO IT!! If you have your doubts about the guy, dump him. DEFINATLY.
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im 14 with a 2 year old 1/2 sister. i love her to death but sometimes i get fed up. i only see her every other weekend but if im trying to do my homework shes always trying to play with me. I feel bad to leave her, and i always feel im obligated to stay. my dad and stepmom dont really help no matter how much i stress i need to do my home work (link)
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Well, get your homework done first, then play with her! Its fine to get your h/w done first.
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I'm currently a senior in hs and already have a dress for my Senior Prom but I like my Junior Prom dress better. So would it be weird to wear last year's dress again. Or should I just suck it up and wear my new one. (link)
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Whatever one you think is prettier on you! It doesn't matter if you wore the one from last year! Just do a diffrent hairstyle and wear diffrent shoes.
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Whenever I am done with school, I go to track. After track practice, I go home and get home by around 5:00. I eat dinner, then watch some shows and go on the computer (like now, but it's only to get advice!). I end up starting my homework at 9:00 PM, setting my alarm for 5:00 to finish it, sleep through my alarm, and wake up at 6:00 with no time to do my homework. I always finish it on the bus and get off the hook, but I really want to stop and do my homework right away! How can I do my homework with plenty time to spare? (link)
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Well, first of all, get your homework done FIRST! Don't watch T.V.! Thats the LAST thing you should do!
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my boyfriend hugged me for the first time... and it was awesome!!! the only problem was that we were both hesitant... we just stood there looking at each other... bye the way... we're both VERY shy... he says he is gonna hug me again... but he is going to surprise me... how can i make it so im not hesitant?? thanks ! (link)
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Well, hes most likely the shy one that really wants to hug you, and is waiting for YOU to hug HIM! Just go up to him and hug him. It most likely wont be awkward then. :)
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