Question Posted Saturday February 12 2005, 12:06 am
hi i am fourteen years of age and i have never had a partner, which means ive never been to any of the bases!! is the first kiss always the worse? i dont know what i am supposed to do when i am going to kiss somebody, like what your supposed to do with the lips, teeth, and tounge, and i am scared! i dont want to feel akward when i really suck at kissing..and im not really talented!! someone please tell me what i should do!
BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:29 am: haha thats kind of how i was before i had my first kiss... and after i did i was like thank god becuase i jus couldnt wait to get it over with.. no its not always bad.. dont think about it at all just go with what happens i didnt have mine till freshmen year on halloween! all my other friends pretty much had theres so sont worry! [ BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS's advice column | Ask BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS A Question ]
ArmyMedic answered Saturday February 12 2005, 1:46 am: be glad, buddy. women cost money and guys just want sex. welcome to the world. you know, when i was 14...i played with toys and played ball. man, how times have changed. in the mean time, always wear a condom and practice makes perfect. just know the crap you are geting into. even at your age, there are gifts that keep on giving! (not the good kind) trust me.
anyhow. dont use teeth except to nibble or lightly bite the neck. never break the skin! dont use a tougue at first. take it easy...nice and slow. experiment, buddy. show the person how you care and be gentle. look them in the eyes. pay attention to them. never be afraid to ask. just don't tell them BS you cant back up later. (like how you feel and so on) [ ArmyMedic's advice column | Ask ArmyMedic A Question ]
l0stiNth0uGht020 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 1:06 am: Well.. The first kiss is always the most awkward;-). Kissing is always weird the first time you do it.. How do you know you aren't talented? I mean, if the guy you end up kissing likes you a lot, he'll probably think that you're a good kisser.. Just remember - don't drool or slobber or anything.. and I think you'll be okay. Good luck with it! (BtW - If any guy actually comments on your kissing abilities.. screw him;-)) Hope I helped! [ l0stiNth0uGht020's advice column | Ask l0stiNth0uGht020 A Question ]
frootytooty answered Saturday February 12 2005, 12:44 am: Well just wait for Mr/or mrs. rite. It doesnt matter! My first kiss was at 11! and it sucked i didnt even like the person. Now I want to go back and make my first kiss rememberiable! So find the perfect someone! And how to kiss no worries! I know it sounds dumb but practice on a pillow and a portiable mirror untill you think your ready! But For now keep your eye out! And good luck! [ frootytooty's advice column | Ask frootytooty A Question ]
KaYlA1213 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 12:31 am: maybe you could try having your first kiss with a guys who's also never been kissed, that way it won't be as awkward. but here goes kissing guide: tilt your opposite of his, your lips will just fit with his, move your tongue around gently, and try to kind of make your lips cover your teeth meaning like keep your lips pooched out more than your teeth, that way you don't knock teeth. i hope i was a help! good luck!
*KaYlA* [ KaYlA1213's advice column | Ask KaYlA1213 A Question ]
babeoriental answered Saturday February 12 2005, 12:28 am: dear never been kissed:
nope the first kiss isn't ALWAYS the worse it can be but a majority of the time its not. you shouldn't have to worry about how the first kiss goes or anything it should be spontanious and unpredictable thats what makes it even more special. and who cares if you suck that person you are sharing that moment with will enjoy it too. hope i helped!
NEVERLETG00 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 12:16 am: well once that youve found someone and you both do end up kissing, i dont think that the guy would care at all even if you mess up, which is the slimest chance for that to happen, but dont worry. if the guy really likes you he shouldn't care about anything like that, he should be happy that your learning with him ya know? but the first kiss isn't always the worst! it could be your best because it might really mean something to ya ;D [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
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