well im 18, in love with Steve Mark Jones (if you cant tell) we are living together two months now and celebrate our 4 month anniversary today! (Jan 13)
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My bf didn't kiss me for a long time because he was nervous and didn't want to do anything wrong. We finally did, and it was great since I care about him but otherwise, I didn't really like it. I don't really know how to describe what I didn't like. He opens mouths mouth too much and it's slobbery and wet. Kind of passionate, but wiping off my mouth afterward is definetly not. It reminds he of getting licked by a dog or something. Yuck... I don't know what to do because we've kissed several times since that and they all seem the same. Should I say anything? I don't want to hurt his feelings because I know how scared he is of doing "wrong". Please help!!! I care about him so I don't want kissing, a display of affection, to be what gives us problems. That just seems silly to me. (link)
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girl...you gotta sit him down and ya know juss explain to him "hey,hunny,i love you,but you slobber on me" make it kinda light hearted so he doesnt feel attacked. Sit him down and then explain to him how you want your kisses to be!
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Why is it that everyone focuses on the sex of a relationship before a relationship has even started, why do people judge each other on looks rather than personality? (link)
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b/c this world is full of superficial assholes!
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well i go with a dude and he brought me a 100$ pair of earings,and i brouht him a 150$ 24 k bracelet and he let a girl wear it and she broke it on pupose what do i do. (link)
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kick her butt! no im joking. MAke her pay for it. then kick his butt for letting her wear something as expensive and meaningful. question...why did he let her wear it...think about that one
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It's my boyfriends 21st birthday in about 3 weeks and i want to get him something really special, i was going get him some kind of gadget but i've decided its not special enough.
if anyone has any ideas please share :-)
Also if i get him a watch and have it engraved, would it have to be made out of a certain kind of metal or maerial so they can engrave it and is it expensive to do? thank you (link)
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make a scrap book with pictures of hte two of you...make something liek that...that means more than buying something b/c u put your whole heart into the project.
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im 13 and a female. everyday me and my bf go to our school library and hang there and we are usually kissing and making out but i dont really want to all i want to do is talk to him and some friends, snuggle close with him, and maybe a odd kiss a day if im in the mood. he love to snuggle with me too but he takes it too far and i really need to be answered tonight cuz tomorrow i might be biking to his house tomorrow and we will be alone and im sorta afraid of what he will do. is that wrong? what should i do? sry its so long.
**sleepiesheep** (link)
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hun, you have to make him listen to you. tell him what you want. if he is a true man he will respect what you want an want to make you happy. you should never be afraid of what your boyfreind will do. you are 13. you should not be going much further than making out. You are young yet. Enjoy your relationship. Tell him that it bothers you and that you want to curl up in his arms and tlak to him about anythign and everything! good luck!
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Ok, so I'm pretty sure that I love my gf, and a friend told me she loved me. But I don't know if he was telling the truth. I want to bring it up but I don't know how I can tell if she does. If I say it and then she doesn't say it back, well I wouldn't know what to do, it would just be out there and then everything would be awkward. What
should I do? Do i just tell her or wait to see if she loves me, then tell her. Sorry I'm just confused.
Thanks, I'll rate high for good advice. (link)
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awe, fresh love. sorry, i find it adorable. but listen to me, love is full of give and take. love is full of risks. take the risk, take the leap, and tell her how you feel. if you keep someting as complicated as love deep inside...it will only cause you pain. so let her know how you feel. if she feels the same she will tell you. you wont know unless you ask. so take a risk...go out on a limb...and tell her! good luck and congrats on beign in love. its great isnt it! let me know how things go ok?
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On sunda is my boyfriends little sisters birthday party. It will be the first time I have ever met his parents! I want them to know I am a really nice girl and that I love there son alot. What kind of things can I do to show them that I am really nice and that I will treat there son well. I love him and I want to be with him for ever!
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Just be you. Thats hte best I can tell you. Don't pretend to be something your not. Don't be shy. Don't be scared either. Parents can pick up on that! (lol). Just act like you two normally would, except if you are into the exhibition thing (i dont know if you are or not...) then keep kissing and things like that to a respectable level. respect them, since it is their house...and just be you above everything else. Good luck!
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today is my one month anniversary and i want ot spend time with my boyfriend but im not allowed to hang out during the week. so should i sneak out or wait to the weekend to come? what would you do? i rate 5s
thanks for helping
kriddle06 :) (link)
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first off, no man is worht disobeying your parents for. i would wait until saturday. call your man up. tell him "ya know i cant hang out tonight, but happy anniversary. how is saturday or sunday, we an celebrate it then?" trust me, getting grounded is not worth it for any man for any thing. if your living with your parents and (im guessing) still in school, your parents obviously have a reason. unless you talk to them and explain, its your one month anniversary and you two wanted t hang out. would it be ok? but don't sneak out.
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ok, im 13 years old and i have had this boyfriend for about 7 months now. he is having majior family problems and doesnt know how to deal with them anymore. he is one of those people who keep things bottled up inside of him. i told him he could always talk to me about it but i dont think he is comfortable talking to anyone about it. well, he is getting like really depressed and he told me he doesnt know if he can handle it all anymore. he is thinking about running away or killing himself. i told him not to and i pleaed for him not to but i dont think it is getting through to him. he told me that the last thing he wanted to do was hurt me but he is REALLY anrgy. i dont know what to say or what to do. he told me if he does anything he'll come to school and say good bye to me and stuff. PLEASE PLEASE help me! im so scared!
-Leah- (link)
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ok calm down. you need to keep the level head of the two of you. It is good that you want to help your boyfreind out. my fiance had many of hte same problems, depression, bipolar, even a few suicidal thoughts. he bottled everything up inside him too until it exploded. (my dad does the same thing). all you can do is support him. talk him into going to therapy. tell him that if he doesnt want to hurt you, then dont hurt himself. because him hurting himself hurts you. just reassure him that you are there for him. maybe you ned to force him to talk no matter how uncomphortable he is with it. He needs to let it out in some way shape or form. he needs to know that you deeply care about him. he needs your support. My fiance got into therapy and is on meds now to regulate his moods and help him out. he is doing much better. might i suggest the same thing to you. you just have to let him feel how much you care about him. you can tell him you care until your blue in teh face, but it wont do any good unless you SHOW him. he needsto see that you care about him enough to go out on a limp for him. if it gets really really bad maybe talk to his mom or dad, or your mom and dad and have htem talk to his. but i cant really tell you much else. if you want anything else...you can email me at StageAddict05@hotmail.com i am online right now and i will help you to hte best of my abilities. but hte biggest thing i can tell you is to stay calm ok? email me if you need anything, ok. i am on right now if you just need some one to talk to. granted it is through email, but it is better than nothing. i have nothing but support for you, seeing as i have goen through it myself. i am glad you came to me, and i hope i can help you out.
Juelz
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I like this boy ALOT! and we were going out but now his going out with this girl i REALLY hate!! i mean shes a total WHORE!(so to speak) I just dont understand. is he trying to make me mad? or is he over me? (link)
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not everyone moves on and dates other ppl to spiet their ex's. Maybe he is over you, Maybe he is really trying to piss you off. You wont know unless you ask him
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Ok im a BOY and 14 years old...i like another girl...she is pretty kind to me and is 16...idk how i shud tell her that i rlly love her...ask her e-mail?go to a movie with her?please help! (link)
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your 14! you dont know what love is! you can not really be in love until you know exactly who you are! you are entirely to young to be in love, trust me. being "in love" at such a young age will just lead to heartache. They will move on and "love" some one else and leave you behind! Listen to me and listen to me good. you are not in love. yeah yeah yeah there is the whole "love at first sight" thing, but that is only a physical attraction. to be in love there is more than a physical attraction (but it sure helps!) do yourself a favor and maybe spend time with her. get to know her. and dont rush into anything!
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There is this girl I like at work. She seems really cool and it seems like we have alot in common. But she says she has a boyfriend for 7 months. What are some ways that I can get her to leave him and date me? I know its bad, but I think there is a chemistry there. (link)
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so you wanna break this girl up with her boyfreind becuase you like her! im sorry but that is low. if you think there is a chemistry there, wait until they break up. dont try and make hre break up with him to go with you. that is a very low thing to do
The Future Mrs Steven Mark Jones
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So, I'm going out with this girl and everything is going well and everything. Yesterday we are talking on the phone, and she tells me that she is attracted to heavy guys, which I don't mind. I wouldn't consider myself obese, but she says she usually dates heavier set guys. Although she didnt come out and say it, she seemed to hint that she would like me heavier. Now, I'm willing to do anything for her, but I just spent last summer trying to lose weight! I'd rather not gain back that 25 I lost... Is there anything I can do that will satisfy both of us? For your information, I am 15 and male. (link)
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my biggest piece of advice i can you is this. DONT CHANGE WHO YOU ARE FOR SOME ONE ELSE! Don't change yourself for some one eles. Always be YOU! be the YOU that YOU want to be. Not hte YOU that SHE wants YOU to be. You gotta be comfortable in your own skin. if you dont wanna gain back any wieght that you lost, i dont blame you. dont do it. tell her you love her and that you would do anything for her except change who you are. because then she wouldnt love the true you, she would love the you that she created. which is not fair to you. so good luck and drop me a line if you need any more help!
The Future Mrs Steven Mark Jones
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What is a good birthday present to give to my boyfriend?? im all out all ideas (link)
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a cd he likes, something romantic. recreate your first date. um a night of something he likes to do. a movie he likes. something!
The Future Mrs STeven MArk Jones
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hello well i was txing this guy (we are going out but only for like 2 weeks so far) and at the end i put lots of love and he replied love ya too.
now what does the YA mean?? does he not like me enough to say u?? or what i need to know..
xxxthanksxxx (link)
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he said "love ya too", thats a cutesy way of saying i love you. i know that it is kinda weird, but many couples and people wont say "i love you" but they will say "love ya" cuz it is faster and cuter. don't worry and i think you may go a bit fast with him, but that is not realyl my place to get involved
the future mrs steven mark jones
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ok my boyfriend is about 20 and i'm about 16 and my supposelly home girl is telling him that im messing around on him with his best friend but im not and i guess he's believing this because he doesn't want to talk to me or his friend honestly i'm not the type to be doing something that bad and i don't want to break up with him because i liked him for three years and i dont wanna hurt him in ne ways (link)
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ok i cant really complain about the age seeing as i am 18 and my fiance is 22, same amount of difference. only difference is, is that you are a minor. so basically you have to force this guy to listen to you. you have to force this guy to lisen to your freind. if he doesnt believe you, then he doesnt trust you. you can not have a relationship with out hte foundation of TRUST! so basically you guys need to talk. if he doesnt trust you then maybe he is not worth your time. you gotta have trust, i will drill that into your head right now. liek i said if you dont have trust you dont have a damn thing! well you also need to go to this "homegirl" and spell out whats happeneing. see if she DID say anything. cuz basically it would be her word agaisnt your boyfreinds. basically y'all need to talk and straighten shit out!
The future mrs steven mark jones
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ok, i am an 18 year old female and my boyfreind is 22 years old. we live a ways apart (him new york me ohio) because i was forced to move. well, we have been living apart for about a month and a half and we can't take it anymore. but we can't decide wether we should have me move up there with him or have him move down here with me. at first we had sorta planned me going and living with him. but then my mom found out that she might have a tumor on her ovaries, tubes, or liver. She doesnt want me to leave because she needs me and my brother will too. (in situations where there is trouble, my brother looks up to me, if im doing ok he will be fine and he knows that). So my mom asked me to ask him to move here so that we coudl both support her and each other. (my mom likes him) but then i owuld be asking him to uproot his life. from the place he lived for 20 years. from his family and his freinds and everything he knows. so i asked him if he would be WILLING to do so. He told me "Whatever i have to do to be with you". But now i feel like i am being selfish in asking him to do that. did i do the right thing in asking him to move here? please help i will rate all good answers as 5's. any smartass comments dont get rated! (link)
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Don't feel guilty. Obviously if he is willing to move away from everything he knows into everything he doesnt know, he really truely loves you. How many guys would do that for a woman? Just let him know on a daily basis how much you love him and appreciate him. He sounds like a great catch and i would not let him go. when he moves in with you dont let a moment go by when he doesnt see or feel your love. You are not being selfish, wanting to be there for your mom. Now if you just didnt wanna move to be with him thats a different story, but there are circumstances out of your control. Don't worry, enjoy the time you will have with him. and make sure that you are safe when he comes in. Good luck to the both of you.
The future mrs steven mark jones
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hi my name is jake, i'm 16 sophmore in high school. over the years i watch my friends go through relationships and stuff, n i never had one. n its not bc i'm antisocial or anything; i think i'm pretty popular, lots of friends and stuff. just thinks never seem to happen or get to the point of relationships; is this weird? should i try to put more an effort to startin a relationship? or should i just kinda be passive about it like i've been. i do want to find someone, to have fun with. (link)
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let her come to you man. here is my advice, if you try to push yourself into a relationship then it will only end if pain and chaos. TRUST ME! When i am looking for a guy i always tend to pick up one who the relationship goes really sour with. but when i am not looking i tend to run into the best people in places i would not suspect. so chill, relationships will come to you eventually. i spent most of my high school career single, so it is not that unusual!
The Future Mrs. Steven Mark Jones
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y is it that all you gurls say you want a nice sweet guys when u wind up going out with the dark nasty selfish ones.
and dont say its bs because u know exactly what i am sayin
and a serious question demands a serious answer because my sanity is @ stake (link)
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well, what it is, is that normally we dont see the dark nasty selfish side at first until we are too involved (or at least that is how it works out for me) and i will admit that alot of the time girls go with a "hott guy" b/c he is good looking. and then he turns out to be scum. or it is the attraction to a "bad boy" b/c he lives on the edge and such shit. but it is different for every girl.
the future mrs steven mark jones
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OK, so I've started "seeing" this guy that I ADORE and this weekend he was away. Anyway i went out with friends to this bar everyone goes to, and this drunk guy basically grabbed me and starts making out with me! I told him no, but he wouldnt listen, and i kinda reciprocated for a few seconds before realising it was a mistake.
I feel really guilty, and its poss he could find out as its a bar where lots of people know each other.
I dont wanna tell him what happened, what should i do? thanks (link)
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let me just say that if you hold it in you will feel guilty forever. my freind cheated on her fiance (and by cheated i dont mean just made out with some one else either...) and she was so consumed by guilt for the first week that she gave in and told him. and they are getting married this fall. it is best to be honest. i am sure he will understand. but keeping it in is not a good thing. but telling him, he may not trust you for a while...but i think it is better than having that guilty pang in your stomach everytime your with him. good luck to you!
the future mrs steven mark jones
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