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Hi my name is Ivanna i'm just 15 but i've gone through alot and i most likely would understand what you go through.So give me a chance and ask wutever u need to because i will most likely get back to you in the next 24 hours.SO smile.
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okay i like this guy and hes a freshman n im an 8th grader we tlk on the fone alot! and like ughh...i like him SOOOO much! he says the right things at the right moments! and we get along great! im gonna see him this friday...hopefully but im really shy in person...not on the fone tho...wat do i do?!

...help!
i rate high btw!
13.f (link)
Tell him that you like him just staight out. If he says the right things at the right time it's most likely he trying to impress you. So i think you should go for it.
GOOD LUCK!


I really need some good gift ideas for my boyfriend for christmas, any one have any ideas? he's 14 and my limit is 20$ but mabi a little over:

-he likes(building) models
-video games-final fantasy
-kingdom hearts (link)
Get him a air brushed shirt with hhis name on it and a picture his favorite character in a game or something.


okay so theres this boy that ive been datin for wel over 6 motnhs and i really like him alot.. and well latley theres little things that are startin to annoy me like just little things that get to you after being with a person for a long time.. and wel ive also been having dreams about my X and its starting to make me remember all the times we had.. and how we had alotta fun together and i still and attracted to him but i dont wanna leave my boyfriend now because i dont think that my X will love me as much as my boyfriend now does.. and i dont wanna leave something that might be a really good thing..
please help thanks (link)
Those things that he does that you don't really like after a while you wont even notice or you can even try just letting him know. Don't leave him for your ex because the other is your ex for a reason. That happens alot in relationships so try to keep things going but thinking bout ex's happens ALOT! I hope I helped good luck!


well let's see: i havee ben dating the same person for a little over 2 years.ever sencee like the endd of 6th gradee&&know were in 9th and everything has completletlyy changed. I know i lovee him w/ alll my heartt&&so muchh more..butt he doesntt show anything what soo ever.we dont go out nott and it really hurtss but we might workk thingss out. He sayys he lovess me but i know deep downn he doesnt..&&i cant seem to lett goo..Annd im soo confusedd (link)
You should talk to him about this because if you don't then how does he know he's doing something wrong. If you don't want to tell him then just give him slight hints but not to make him feel like he bad or anything.
GOOD LUCK!


I'm trying to get over this one guy that I used to really like, but whenever I try to move on to someone different he keeps on becoming more appealing to me. As if he wont let me forget about him. Should I confront him about how I feel or continue to look for someone new? (link)
Did he do something for you to want to get over him? Other then that try to get with other guys and if tries to talk to you then ignore him because little by little you will end up not likeing him and it will be the other way around. thats how it usually works out well at least with me.


Me: bye baby io lkove you
Her: later
Me: ...?
Her: bye?
Me: i said i love yiou
Her): you too
Me: :-\

Is this girl still into me? Is she giving up on me or what?
I need to know because my heart can't take it anymore (link)
Either she was having a bad day most likely that it or she lost interest.
-SORRY!


I like my best friend more than a friend but don't wanna ruin our friendship. He likes me back tto. What should i do? Risk it or play it safe? (link)
I think you should go out with him and try cause if you two are good friends then breaking up shouldnt really affect you 2's relationship.


13/f

is making out for your first kiss wrong? i got my first kiss from my ex when i was 12 yrs. old, but i still know how perfect it felt. i was just wondering if it's wrong to make out as your first kiss. is it? (link)
i dont tihnk it's wrong cause it's still concidered a kiss. as long as you enjoyed it's all good.


ok, its really hard to explain this without going into detail on the last 8 years of my life, but ill try my hardest- 14/m

I have loved this girl my entire life and we have been great friends, and i asked her out and she said yes. Well that was about 7 or 8 months ago, and she turned out to be a SUPER freezer (for those of you who dont know, its a person who doesnt do ANY thing on dates). She wasnt at first and i thought we were goin pretty well, but then all the sudden she said she needs her space and she told me to back off a lil and slow down. and that was about 3 months ago, and then all the sudden i felt like she had broken up with me cause she didnt do ANYTHING. All the sudden i was getting to feel depressed and stuff (it wasnt only cause of her doin that, i had other stuff goin on too, and she wasnt there for me) and the last week ive called her like 6 times and she never called me back. well i swam over the summer, and i had a friend who i kinda liked last year, and so i was hangin with her, well i think i kinda love her now, and i was debating on breaking up with the first girl and goin with the second. Well, that wont work, because all the sudden the first girl is starting to show just enough that she really likes me and prolly loves me back. so now im stuck in a bind because half of me is sayin break up with her and get over her, and then go with the next girl, and half of me says stay with her and give her the chance. but i already told the second girl im breakin up with the first, so now all the sudden im just plain caught in the middle, and i have no idea what to do! please help! i rate high!!!! (link)
I think you should stay with the first girl cause she had to deal with a couple issues but now that she's comming around give her the chance to regain what yall had before.You have liked her much longer then the other girl.If you see things not going well for about another week then just see whats up with the other girl.Good Luck!


my mom wont let me see my boyfriend at all. he doesnt have a computer so i cant e-mail him or IM him. and my mom has total control over the phone. i havent been on a date with him at all! ever!! and i've been going out with him for about a month and a half. i wont see him in school because we're in different parts. i miss him so much and i love him so much. what should i do? heeelllppp!!
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Why don't you go to your friends house and tell her your situation thenask her if you can give him a call.Then set up meeting somewhere and tell your mom you will be with your friends without giving her any reason to think your going to see your bf.If that doesn't work then just ask her plain in simple. Good Luck!


My bestt friend in the whole world..talks about other girls a lot(he's a guy). And I keep telling myself and everyone else that all we are is friends because i know thats all we ever will be. but why do i get so annoyed/jealous when he talks about other girls?! i dont want to like him like that..because i know my heart will get broken. ive told him i dont like it when he talks about other girls, but he still does? how in the world can i get over him or tell him..well i don't know what i should do about it! pleaseee help!! (link)
If you like him so much why don't you try to just tell him straight up and forward because when you let some things outt in the open things can possibly change.How bad can it possibly get if you just want him to stop talking about other girls then I suggest you to talk about other boys until he begins to bug about it then ask him how he feels and bring up the way you feel.Well I'm done Good Luck!


I am so in love with this guy named Ryen.We have been dating for a while now.And he still has not poped the questtion.How do I Him to?plz help.
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You can try slightly mentioning it to him not really directly to the point but giving him a clue your interested in it and get his insight if he wants to also OR you can as if it were his idea then let your boyfriendask one of his closest friends that you also trust and mention that you want him to pop the question know maybe he will ask like if it all came from him.
*Sorry if I didn't explain correctly.


i dont no what to do. my best friend/the guy i love. that "loves" me back. is moving to bosten(i live in ny) and i go to him "are you ever gonna come back to me"? nd he said no. then i asked him if he would forget me and he said yea. then i asked when ur like 23 nd out of collage are you gonna come back to me, nd he said no i will forget you. i dont no what to do im so sad. i cryed alot about it cuz i really really really love him. and now hes moving in 2 weeks. im crying right now. im gonna miss him alot, nd he is going to forget me. someone please tell me what to do. i need help

I RATE HIGH.

- confused (link)
that's really mest up of him but their is many guys out there and right now you may think he's the one but if he really was he wouldn't have done that and I believe their is someone out their for everyone and this guy is just a practice for better guys to come. In the meantime stay busy and hang out with your friends and if you can't stop thinking about him get someone you trust and talk to them about it because trust me it helps. Good Luck and believe me this isnt the end of the world.


So, last summer I really liked this guy. We hung out a few times, but nothing happened.

Then during this year I kinda stopped liking him.

Recently, my friend told me she found out he liked me now. I'm pretty sure that I believe her since he does seem to like me (he asked me to hang out a few times..he talks to me online a lot, etc.) Today I hung out with him and my other friend and my friend said she could definitely tell that he likes me.

I'm really not sure if I like him or not, and I don't know what to do. He's kinda shy so I don't think he will ask me out or anything, but I kinda want him to, so does that mean I like him? I really don't know what to do... I don't want to send mixed messages.

btw i'm 17/f and he's 17/m (link)
why don't you slightly flirt with him but not so much to make it obviouse enough to let him know your into him. and if you want him to ask you out i think thats a hint to you that you might be interested in him some what.Try going out with him he might be a really cool guy.


ok i need help......when should you kiss a guy? i mean when your dating...on the second date? cuz i will have my second date w/ him soon and i dont know if i should kiss him or not. soo which date should i kiss him on??
~confuzzed (link)
It doesn't really matter what date just when it's the perfect moment actualy it shouldn't really be planned if it happens it happens if you don't plan it its even better then expected.


[14/f]

I like one of my friends [who is a qirl by the way] as more than just friends. She knows I'm bi, and we joke all the time about hooking up. She also said that after she gets her first boyfriend that she'll go out with me because she hasn't figured out if she's straight or not. Should I wait for her to make up her mind while she's totally crushing on one of her guy friends, or should I get over her and find someone new? Help please! xox (link)
If you really like her give her time to think straight and figure it out because I think chooing your sexuality can sometimes be very hard to figure out.Give her time and she will come around.


ok,
there is tons of girls that like me at my school and they all want to go out with me, so i need to know if i should become a "player" and go out with all of them at once or let them take turns? (link)
If so many girls like you and you do decide to play them then most likely those girls will stop liking you.How bout becomes friends and see what they are about before getting into a relationship cause you might find a girl you really like and end up hurting her.Good Luck with this all cause maybe is wont last very long.


Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 11 months in 2 weeks. Well I dont see him as much as i used to and as much as i liked to. cuz i moved. So its hard but we manage to see eachother at least once every 2 weeks. But this has been going on sense oct. But we see eachother almost every mon. for about 10 min. cuz i run into town. Anyways he told me tonight he is a bit depressed but he wont spill why. Im his gf.. shouldnt he tell? I know its hard.. but he was there through everything for me. He also told me when he was over at his friends house he could have gotten high but when he was offered he said he kind of wanted to but didnt. He asked if i would be mad if he did. He isnt a stoner.. so.. I dont know. I know that might be like apart of him being a bit down. i dont know what to do like how to react.. its confusing i dont get why he is bottling it up inside when i always let him in on what was going on in my mind. At the end of the convo he said that he would tell me if he could. So im hoping its not that bad he cant tell someone. Should I write him a letter? like what should i say in it because i dont want to seem pushy. (link)
I think he could be depressed over not being able to see you as much.Maybe he thinks if he keeps his feelings bottled up then you wont worry.I think you shouldn't write a letter I think you should try to talk to him over the phone or see him and talk about it cause a card you won't hear the tone of his voice or the look on his face when both of you talk about his feelings.he might say he is okay but his voice and his face expression can tell the truth.Good Luck with this all!


ok...im 13/f 7th grade... this might sound crazy... but i no i am in love!! i have a boyfriend and i am completely in love with him!! ive never felt this way about any of my other boyfriends and i know he feels the same about me... he makes me smile just thinking about him... i melt when i see him! theres only one thing... this is wierd... but since we're young and all... is there any chance this could last forever (link)
Honestly I'm not trying to be harsh but no.I bet you really have the BIGGEST crush on your boyfriend which is great and if yall ever break up which i hope not I know it will hurt you alot but sooner or later you will get over him and ask yourself what you saw in him and then you will move on to the next guy and feel the exact same way.And most likely you will miss him but i don't really think it's love after you have gone through things you couldn't imagine without him on your side.


hey! wht do i do if your best friend has a crush on the guy your dating. Cuz she just found out that i was dating him and i didnt no that she liiked him or anything...so wht do i do, cuz i no she is getting upset over this.PlEz HeLp

**sk8rgurl (link)
How long have you been dating this guy?Do you think you can see yourself with him for a really long time? If she's your bestfriend she should respect that fact you date this boy even though she likes him.But think about it throughly cause she's your bestfriend and she most likely is there to stay through thick and thin.This boy you might like him now and like a month from now find him annoying.Think bout those things but I personaly would choose my friend if I can't see a future with him.Well good luck I hope everything works out and GOD BLESS!!




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