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* hey, my name is Alex.

* i am 16 years young.

* i'm an easy to talk too person.

* i do have a boyfriend that i love with all my heart.

* there's nothing that can describe me completely

* barely make typos.

* when you personally ask me for advice, i read and re-read and try to put myself in your situation to see what i would do :) i try my best, honestly!


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I want to get a guys' number. I mean I know how to flirt, i'm acutally very good at it, it's whatever. but like, for some reason.. I can't get myself to ask him.. I want him to ask me.. but idk, I know he's interested. We talk all the time.. and we always sneak smiles and everytime we see eachother we just immediatly walk up to eachother and start talking.. what can I do to get myself out there more? What can I do to show him that I want him to make a move, or vice versa?

That is deffinatley a good idea.

Mention something about hanging out, at your place, or his place. Or maybe a date to the movies :)

In order to be able to meet up, you must trade numbers to keep in contact.

Then afterwards, you two will start hanging out and such.

Seems to me he already notices you and maybe he's just waiting for you to make the move? You never know.

Good luck!

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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There's this guy Dean who I just started to talk to on myspace. He's two years older and really hot... blonde surf hair and gorgeousss blue eyes. I havent talked to him in person before, but he commented me last night, and we've been talking a lot on myspace. He seems really sweet. We don't ever see eachother in person, and he has different friends. I think I'm starting to like him... is that bad?

In my opionion that is not bad at all.

Maybe you should start talking to him at school, sitting next to eachother at lunch (if you have the same lunch shedule)

Get to know him better on MySpace, School, and Outside of school. But outside of school, maybe bring along a group of friends, or just a friend because you never know, if you two ever see eachother in person.

So it's not bad, at all.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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how do you communicate with your boyfriend when your in the same class? like all lovey dovey, or like.. as friends? idk.. i just got my first boyfriend today and i dunno how to act tomorrow.. he sits near me for like 2 classes and we already had our first kiss.

Try sitting next to him or be as close to him as you can. Write eachother notes. Smile at him, or maybe if you two have your own cell phones, if you're sneaky enough, send text messages to one another. But try not to get caught!

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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i am 18 female. i have meet a boy who is 16 and will be 17 in April. he is a wounderful person great personialty and soo sexy. i'm s0 worried about what everyone is going to say about me and him? right now he is grounded and it's hard for us tohang out with each other and by the time he is gettting off grounded he will be moving over here closer to me and i'll be getting my license back. my question is. should i give this a shot and just say screw what everyone says?
cuz i can honestly see my self fallin in love with this guy

YOu shouldn't care what other people think about the age difference between you two.

'Age is just a number'

I bet most of us heard this before, but i honeslty think that the age does not matter. It's who he is and what you love about him.

Forget what everyone think about it. Just go for it. You only live once!

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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does it hurt when having sex for the first time???

Yes it does. It hurts the first couple times and you also bleed. Don't worry though, that means your cherry popped (In case you didn't know)

After you start having sex for a while it won't hurt as much as it did the first couple times you started.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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What are some fun makeout positions? anything would be helpful!

Honestly, I think the best postition would be to whatever makes you and your partner feel comfortable.

Hope I helped. :)
-MADLYxINxLOVE

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ohkay well im horrible at starting conversations and so is my boyfriend. and i feel like and idiot when were sitting around not talking about nothing. hellpPP?

Here are a few things I would start is a conversation:

"So, how was your day?"

"What have you been up too?"

Tell a funny story on what happened in your past.
I'm sure you'll think of something. Sorry, if I didn't help much.

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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ok so me and my girlfriend are starting to get into sex and everything and i have a couple of questions

1. she seems to get sore around the clit area and when i rub her, anything i can do to make it less sore?

2. is it true that the more you finger her clit and ass the better it gets for her, like less painfull?

3. she has a self image thing were she does not want ot me to see her body untill she loses weitgh, but i think she lookes great as she is, and i told her that to, any more i can do?

1. Every girl gets rubbed it could hurt and feel uncomfortable. Maybe next time be a bit gentel.


2. No one knows if it's true. Some people's body find it pleasureable and some others find it as a turn off. Being fingered for the first time CAN hurt. But the more you finger her, the less pain she will feel.


But in the ass. I would simply find that as a turn off.


3. It always makes a girl feel comfortable about her body when the love of her life tells her she's beautiful no matter what. Tell her size doesn't matter and to your eyes, she has the perfect body.


that's what my boyfriend says to me. it always keeps me smiling and less embarrassed of my body image.


Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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i read in a magazine that one sign of a guy cheating is if their cell rings and they either shut it off quickly or run to another room to talk. my boyfriend usually does this, but theres no other evidence of him cheating. [although he was accused of cheating on me once although it was a lie because this girl just liked him, and hes sworn he'd never cheat on me because he's been cheated on too many times]. am i just being paranoid?

Honestly, I think you have every right to be paranoid if he happens to 'run to another room to talk' WAY too much.

Not all magazines can tell the truth about everything. Some stuffs are there just for fun.

But if this is bothering you too much, you should confront him. Ask him what is going on with him leaving the room to have a private conversation with.

You're his girlfriend. You DO have the right to know. But on the other hand, you shouldn't get too interested. Otherwise, he'd start thinking you have no trust in him.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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Okay I will try to make it short. I have a boyfriend and I like him a lot. We have just started going out(it will be a month in like a week). Well the other day I was at his house, just hanging out and well I wont go into detail but at the end of the night we had reached 2nd base. & for me thats too fast. I mean I know we have both already had long term relationships and done everything like that, but I thought he would take it slower. Well my question is how do I tell him I want to slow it down without pushing him away?

I've had this happen to me with my current boyfriend I am with now.

You should tell him that you think your relationship is going "too fast" and want to slow things down.

Because if you let him continue on to what you two are doing, (which you didn't get into details with) he would most likely start thinking that you wouldn't mind him continuing on to what he is doing.

Tell him that you two need to slow things down. Not because you're worried but because the slower you go, the longer the relationship lasts.

I've told this to my boyfriend. And if your boyfriend truely loves and repects you, he would understand to where you're coming from and will 'slower things down.'

Hope I helped :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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