Question Posted Saturday December 30 2006, 7:19 pm
i read in a magazine that one sign of a guy cheating is if their cell rings and they either shut it off quickly or run to another room to talk. my boyfriend usually does this, but theres no other evidence of him cheating. [although he was accused of cheating on me once although it was a lie because this girl just liked him, and hes sworn he'd never cheat on me because he's been cheated on too many times]. am i just being paranoid?
Not all magazines can tell the truth about everything. Some stuffs are there just for fun.
But if this is bothering you too much, you should confront him. Ask him what is going on with him leaving the room to have a private conversation with.
You're his girlfriend. You DO have the right to know. But on the other hand, you shouldn't get too interested. Otherwise, he'd start thinking you have no trust in him.
Alexandkendra answered Saturday December 30 2006, 9:08 pm: Honestly i highly doubt hes cheating on you.
With the phone thing, it could be someone annoying and he could just want to shut them up.
It could be his mom or dad or family member and he could be embarassed to talk to them in front of you.
Or there could be someone calling and he doesnt want to be bothered with them becuases hes with you or if someone calls once , he might turn it off to avoid future disturbances.
See there are many things he could be doing, cheating is not likely to be one.
Hopefully its just paranoia.
You should also tell him too, becuase maybe he feels you didnt notice.
Good luck
xXxPorschexXx answered Saturday December 30 2006, 7:57 pm: Heya what are the chances of him actually cheating on you! they are very slim! and he obviously cares about you because he goes out with you and there could be a thousand and one different reasons why he could be closing his fone. But by the sounds of things he knows how iy feels to be cheated on so a really doubt he would put you through the same and that feeling of knowing is terrible!! Its not paranoya but you are just curious i think! but really dont worry about it hunni! If you are still worrid then talk to him and he should understnd if you ask him why he does that but really dont worry! It will be fine!
I hope it helps xox Porsche x [ xXxPorschexXx's advice column | Ask xXxPorschexXx A Question ]
ASAPcamille answered Saturday December 30 2006, 7:56 pm: it is really if you follow your true enstinct. if you have a feeling he might be, confront him. if he still wont talk to you... borrow his phone and just take a little looksie at who has been calling him and texting him. only do that if you are in desperate need to know. best of luck &+ dont panic and worry yourself.
looneytune1561 answered Saturday December 30 2006, 7:38 pm: You never know you may think you trust him because he says that happened to him but mabye thats his way to get you off his back. You may also just be paranoid. You never know until you have all the proof.Try asking him who hes been talking to or why he wont talk infront of you.Hope i helped! [ looneytune1561's advice column | Ask looneytune1561 A Question ]
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