Question Posted Saturday December 30 2006, 2:12 pm
ok so me and my girlfriend are starting to get into sex and everything and i have a couple of questions
1. she seems to get sore around the clit area and when i rub her, anything i can do to make it less sore?
2. is it true that the more you finger her clit and ass the better it gets for her, like less painfull?
3. she has a self image thing were she does not want ot me to see her body untill she loses weitgh, but i think she lookes great as she is, and i told her that to, any more i can do?
2. No one knows if it's true. Some people's body find it pleasureable and some others find it as a turn off. Being fingered for the first time CAN hurt. But the more you finger her, the less pain she will feel.
But in the ass. I would simply find that as a turn off.
3. It always makes a girl feel comfortable about her body when the love of her life tells her she's beautiful no matter what. Tell her size doesn't matter and to your eyes, she has the perfect body.
that's what my boyfriend says to me. it always keeps me smiling and less embarrassed of my body image.
karisue answered Saturday December 30 2006, 4:55 pm: 1. anytime you rub a girls genitals its going to get sore. try being gentle & really easy with her. a woman's clitoris is very sensitive to touch and sometimes it can even hurt a girl when it is rubbed the slightest bit.
2. i've never heard of this before? but i also don't know many girls who actually let a guy stick his finger in their butt. to me, it's a complete turnoff
3. all girls are selfconscious. you just basically need to compliment her all the time. tell her she's beautiful without makeup & when she just wakes up. let her know that she's beautiful to you no matter what. that size doesn't matter. my boyfriend tells me that he hates really really skinny girls, and that if my weight drops below 120 lbs, then we can't have sex. haha
iloveaar answered Saturday December 30 2006, 4:23 pm: its difficult to make a girl proud of her body or confortable, give her compliments like i don't know when you see her ooh you look so pretty have you loose weight or something XD?
and yes most of the time the more you finger her clit it gets less painfull althought its a very sensitive area so it's not like she's not going to feel anything.
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