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ok, normally i am good at love dilemmas, but this one stumps me.
I have been with a guy that I really do love for 7 months. Before him, I dated a guy a state away from me. Now, my ex bf was very caring, nice, etc...or so it seemed. We talked through webcam and instant messages. Well, he wanted to see me on webcam one day and I guess he didnt like what he saw, so the next day he txted me and said it was over. I didnt love him, but i was infatuated with him and that just broke my heart. I got over him and months later i found my current bf. Well, just now while I was on the phone with my bf, I got an instant message from my ex. And it kind of feels like those feelings could still be there. My question is, is it something I should be worried about? I think they could be just friendship feelings, but im not sure. Any help is appreciated! (link)
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I think you should end everything with your ex because he basically showed that he was not a good boyfriend by judging you from your appearence and breaking up with you after! Try to stay away from him and focus all your attention on your new boyfriend because from what you wrote, it sounds like he is not worth your time.
Good luck!
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ok so i started a job back in march and met this guy there. The girls who work there would talk about him alot, because almost all of them liked him and he had hooked up with 2 of them and liked another. He sounded like trouble, but he was just so cute i couldn't resist. To get to the point we started hanging out outside of work alot and one day he asked me out we went out for about a month and one day he texts me saying "can we not go out anymore but still be together because i dont have time for a girlfriend and it doesnt feel like were even going out" i was sooo confused because things were fine with us. After our breakup we still hungout and acted like boyfriend and girlfriend just without the title, i guess you could say we were friends with benefits. me thinking that it could lead to us going back out again. well that lasted for another 2 months. So the other day i went into work to get my paycheck and he was working so we were flirting and acting like our normal selves, so when i went to leave i went to give him and kiss (like normal) and he was like "stop your not my girlfriend" so i was like "well you had no problem with it before" he was like "well im a changed man now" WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? do you think he likes some other girl and not me anymore? someone help cuz im really upset and i dont know what to do. i want to move on from him but i still like him sooooo much. (link)
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Ahhh, this problem has happened to me numerous times! Boys are soo confusing! Anyway, what i did one time was ignore the guy though i liked him SO much and just made it seem like i didnt care about him and i can flirt with other guys too and have fun without him. I did all this in front of his face so he could see that i was not going to be treated like trash from him and i have way better guys that treat me better and actually are friends to me. Anyway, he wanted to get back with me but obviously i rejected him and it felt so good, cuz during this process i actually go over him! Unbeliveably, i actually did and it was great!
Anyway, good luck in your decision and hopefully my story helped you in some way!
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ok so i was in summer school and this kid i dont even know started talking to me when no one else did and well i mean he seems really cool and all and he's not that cute but not that ugly but he talks to me all the time and like everytime i looked at him today he was either doing something or looking at me do you think he likes me also i was wearing this low cut shirt and him and this really cute kidd kept looking down my shirt it was kinda funny cause everytime they would talk to me they would look at my boobs haha well anywho thats not the point just so you know i'm not the type of girl guys usualy like (link)
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Well, hes definielty showing intrest in you if hes always looking at you and talking to you.
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ok so my best guy friend has recently started holding my hand walking down the hallways and people keep asking if we're a couple. and no we're just friends but i really like him and i dont know if he likes me though. he doesnt know that i like him cbecause i never told him. i dont wanna tell him either. today he saw my bottle cap bracelet- like if a guy breaks it then you have to makeout with him. and he was tugging on it lol i think he was just playing around but what if he really wants to kiss me? ok so it started off with just hugging and then he satrted telling me he loves me and now the holding hands - on a daily basis in public. does he like me? and if he does whats the next step? is it kissing cuz i havent had my first yet and i dont know when its gonna happen but im pretty sure its gonna be really soon. ahh im nervous in a good way. thank you! (link)
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YES!! I pretty sure he does like you!!
And with the kissing...just relax it will come naturally. Believe me:).
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Hey I've been off advicenators for awhile but yeah I'm back. I still like the same guy.....I think. I have never gotten the chance to talk to him though. Its just because I well I think I don't like him as much any more, like its fading away. Well he has also been sitting by one of my friends, well we aren't that close but we still know each other and talk sometimes. But I have the most biggest feeling that he likes her. And well yeah there is this other guy and he might like me. And I know for a fact the other guy doesn't like me. Well actually you know the guy that might like me, it might be him or his friend that might like me. Its not like I'm being all suspicious or anything its just that I'm not sure who to go for. The guy's friend he use to like me and I use to like him but then he went for a different girl so I really don't know what to do. So what do you think? (link)
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hey sorry i havent been on this either iam REALLY busy, i just wanted to inform you that i will answer your question on the weekend cause i dont have any time right now and i dotn want to keep you hanging. I will tell you that you should wait right now,and find out which one of them really likes you!
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Well I don't know. You see, i'm 13. This boy has been my best friend for about two years and we've been together for a year. It's nice and everything. We are real close and know almost everything about eachother and everything. He's different from the rest of the guys i've gone out with. Don't think I am a slut or anything but we are both comfortable being naked around eachother. He trusts me and I trust him. No, this is not my first relationship. Anyhow, he's always there when i need him. Well, he's actually a nice boy and won't take advantage of me or anything like that or trying to get me to have sex with him. I know i'm young and yes i am still a virgin. Most of you are probably thinking "teen love dont have sex with him" Of course i'll be on birth control and have a condem and everything but i'm not sure if i should give up my virginity so young. So what do you people out there think about the whole situation? (link)
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sex might be fun and all at that time, but really think of the consequences. You have your whole life to live, and you wouldnt want to get pregnant now (yes, it could happen!). You can get AIDS, get pregnant, etc. Please, dont make a mistake in your life at this age.
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Hey, Sorry I've been busy over the week and you know the guy I like I really havn't had any time to talk to him. But there is a winter camp coming up in 2 weeks. He is going! Its real hard to tell him because he is never alone and I really can't do it! At winter camp I might tell him but what are some hints to tell him that? I see him talking with other girls and I don't think he likes any of them especially since they are much older than him. My best friend told me that the rest of the girls were talking about him like "I wonder who he is gonna go for next. Probably someone innocent like Kiran." I don't know what they ment about innocent part. I mean he was with 2 other girls one along time ago and the other about 2 or 3 months ago. I'm not sure what is going on. I mean he might like me but I'm not sure. Sorry this was long! (link)
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lol its okay..hmmm...i really think you should tell him before the camp starts because you are going to have way more fun that way, other then you keep thinking about asking him. You would have a weight lifted off your chest, if you know what i mean. Believe, i went through that excat same thing, and it hurt me more when i was at that camp because when i asked him, he said no and i was pissed off the whole time at camp and i reliased later that i missed out on so much fun. You should seriously ask him before, and dont worry about his answer. Atleast you know the truth and hes an ass if he doesnt go out with you and picks another slut LOL. But yeah. when those girls said somebody innocent like you, I think they meant like a good kid or a sweet girl or something along those lines. Like your not a slut and you have good friends. They may also be jelous, you never know. The only advice i can give you now is, gather up all your courage, ask him if he can help you with your homework or something. (Make up a reason for him to leave his friends, and come to you) and just ask him. Since hes flirting with you, i think that hes just shy to ask you so you make the first move! LOl i dont know why im so excited now! I really want you to ask him, so if hes says yes, then you would be happy, and if hes says no, then you can move on and find sum1 else. If you want to make shure, get your friend to ask him first. If you want to add me on msn, my msn is exquisite_m1zz@hotmail.com, and we can talk. Kays, good luck!! Bye!! (tell me how is goes!)
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There is this cute guy that goes to myspace and is at my school. He isn't "totally freakin adorable" though. what are some good convo starters. in a message? (link)
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"Hey i seen you around school before"
"hey you go to my school! which teachers do you have?"
"Hey, are the person who is in the ____club at ____school?"
hope they helped
-KRazy
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Hey, You know I was keeping you updated on whats going on well I didn't get the chance to tell him that I like him. But I think he dosn't like the girl anymore. I think he might like me. I see him look at me alot and today he was always around me, I don't know if that would count for anything but he might. But I almost ran into him too! lol, I think it would be easier if a friend told him. What do you think? Oh yeah thanks for the advice all the time! (link)
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wel if your confortable telling him first then do that. It may be eaiser to get a friend to ask first then you act later. So yeah, get a friend to ask first then you make a move! Remember get a trusted friend. Sorry for the short advice, its my bday todayy and im kinda busy!! LOL...ariite keep me updated!! byeeee
-Krazy
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I'm planning on telling him that I do like him but do you think it would be better if I had it go through a friend or face-to-face? But also I just feel mad about the girl that he likes. I just don't know why. I'm mad at him and her! I know its not their fault but I'm just mad and jealous. I can't help it. Anyway you can help me with this? Thanx again. (link)
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LOl dont worry its normal to feel jelous and hateful towards them. Well, whatever way you feel comfortable telling him you should do. If you are comfortable telling him face-to-face then do that but if you want a friend to tell him for you, you can do that too. Maybe if you want, you can have the friend go to him and ask him if he likes you or would go out with you. Depending on his answer you can act upon that. If he says yes, then the girl can tell him that you like him. If he says no, then she can still tell him that you like him and he should reconsider. That guy may not tell your friend the truth because he doesnt want it to spread around so he would lie to her and say he doesnt have feeling for you. Either way, make shure he knows that you like him before he starts to like someone else!Krazy
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i have this amazing guy friend, and i think i'm starting to like him. I'm not really one of the pretty girls, but i'm not neccessarily ugly either... pretty average, i suppose. Anyways, i really want to like this guy, and i want him to like me. however, i have friends who like him, and he has a friend who likes me, so it feels like i shouldn't like him, you know? I'm kind of wondering if he does like me, but is maybe thinking the same thing. he and i flirt like crazy, and he always starts it. and nearly everyone says we act like we like each other. is it possible that he likes me, or are we just friends? its too hard to tell! (link)
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Theres no other way then asking! Youll find out all your answers if you ask him. Get him b4 another girl does!
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Okay I hope you don't mind but I like asking you questions. You give great advice! Okay well you know the guy I liked, well I think he likes another girl. I mean he basically gives it away. She thinks he likes her too. She knows I like him so she wouldn't go out with him and plus she dosn't like him she likes someone else. They are a year apart and we are the same age. I don't know what to do. I have a feeling this other guy likes me too what are some signs that guys give if they do like you? Thanx (link)
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Heyy dont worry i love answering questiions..keep them coming! Anyways you say that, that girl doesnt like him so what is there to worry about? Shes not trying to hook up with him so there is nothing to worry about. When he finds out that she doesnt like him, he would move on. If you MAKE A MOVE then he would definitely start paying attention to you. It is sooo important to flirt with him because then he would know that you are intrested. Dont worry about him liking that girl because i doubt anything will happen between them. Something can happen between you 2!! All you have to do is flirt. So you can say things like "Hey, what are you guys doing tonight(or weekend)" They answer then you would be like "Well, im going to be home alone and you know i could use some company (wink at him)" Tell him your joking after but yeah cute things like that. Or ask him "So, do you have a valentines this year" He answers "NO"
(hopefully) and then you would be like "well, neither do i but we could make something happen" LOL see little cute things like that make a BIG difference BELIEVE ME. You can always tell him that he looks good in that shirt today or his hair looks sexy or something. Also, make good friends with him and be friendly to all his other friends. If your friends with him it would be MUCH easier. Ummmmm...some signs....lets c....he would always look at you, comlipent you, talk about you with his friends, ditch his freinds to talk to you, ALWAYS talk to you, basically pays all his attention to you. You shouldnt pay all your attention to him but give a good amount. Make him feel wanted LOL...well if you have any other questions dont hesitate to ask! I love answering your questions...i just wanted to know what grade you were in. I could help you more if you tell me more details. Hopefully everything goes okay and dont be shy around him! Lotz of love and good luckKrazy
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i have a couple of guys that are my best friends. one of them has a girlfriend that i know he loves very much, but he tells me that he loves me too. is this normal for guy/girl friendships? i dont know if he's joking around, or if he really loves me as a good friend or if he loves me more than that. (link)
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You should ask him excatly what he means though i think he means he loves you as a friend.
-Itzdagirl-Krazy
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Okay I like this guy and he dosn't know I like him. I sorta want him to know and I sorta don't if you know what I mean. He's real nice, sweet and all that stuff. His last 2 girlfriends broke up with him and they said he's to clingy but I really wouldn't mind much since I am too. But he does give them space. I don't know what to do if I should tell him or not. And what can I do to get him to give him little hints besides flirting. (link)
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well you know its better if he does know that you like him. If he doesnt know then he might like some other girl and your heart will be broken. Yes you should tell him because maybe he likes you and he isnt shure whether he should tell you or not. Theres no harm in telling him, okay he MAY reject you but so what? Theres a risk in this. If you tell him that you like him and you two go out after then it would be good for you but if he rejects you then its still okay. Think about you two going out!!! That could happen if you tell him. Some guys are really shy and wait till the girl makes the first move. Seriously, if you dont make a move now some other girl will and she will get YOUR man because your man will think that you dont like him because you never said anything. See what i mean? It will be great in the end for YOU if you say something. Who cares if he rejects you? Hes missing out on something and hes not worth your time then. If you want to make little hints you can but try to get together before valentines day! That will be very cute if you 2 go out before Valentines day. Anyways, the little dropping of the hints may take time so i think you should just do some major flirting. He will get the idea if you flirt alot. You can say things like "Valentines coming up soon, i wonder who will be my valentines" then wink or smile at him. THats a big hint LOL....i have many more "flirts" if you even need any. You HAVE to keep me updated! Much love and take care
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ok so a month ago i met this guy at my friend's party and we ended up making out and i barely even know him!! and i accidently told him that i loved him.. and then i asked him what were we and he was like oh a one night stand.. and i think he said that because he got scared because i told him that... and i still like him a lot.. i think about him all the time... well my question is should i still talk to him at the next party and try to get to know him? and not hook up with him or what? (link)
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i Dont think you should get to know him because from the sounds of it, hes an ass. He said it was only a ONE-NIGHT stand so im guessing that it was ONLy that one night and ur "Relationship" is done. Don't hook up with him , hes not worth your time. Be safe!
Take care&&God bless
-Krazy
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ok heres the story this guy who i barely know says hi to me every day and he sent someone who he thought was me a myspace that said wave like 32 times and he told me this so i was just wondering if anyone could tell me if this means he likes me or if he is just some stalker messing with my head and could someone please tell me what to do. (link)
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well if he starts to follow your every move then he would be stalking you. If hes just waving you 32 times then i think its a SERIOUS crush! Take time and watch what he does!
Takecare&&GodBless
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First of all, I'm 18 and if you're going to tell me I'm too young to get married don't bother answering. I'm very mature for my age and my fiance (Eric) and I have been together since we were 14 and 17. Anyways, Eric proposed to me in March of 2006. He is in the Navy, and he is living in Virginia. Right now, I'm still living in Michigan. I'm moving down to live with him in May. On June 9th we were planning to go to the Jusice of Peace and elope. We're doing this so that we can save our basic housing money (from being married) to spend on our cerimonial wedding that we plan on having on virginia beach sometime in august 2008. This is the wedding all our friends and family will attend.
The only problem, is that my mother is going psycho on me and keeps telling me not to get married. She says I'm too young, and that I'm going to ruin my life. She also says if we go toa Justice of Peace and get married she wont pay for ANYTHING for our cerimonial wedding next year, because she feels people should only get married one time.
Now I'm in a sticky situation. I really want to get married this summer so I can afford things easier and I know I should follow my heart; but I don't want to ruin my relationship with my mom. I KNOW I'm going to marry Eric, I couldn't picture my life without him.. I just wish my mom could see that and that she could see how happy we make eachother and accept our choices. What do you think I should do?! =( (link)
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o wow tough situation...well the only thing that can help right now is telling her all the things you just us. About affording things, hes the right guy etc. I cant think of anything else right now but when i do ill just additional stuff to my answer. I Tried!
-Krazy
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this question is for girls...
i was wondering what girls look for in guys. like how do you like a guy? because i really like this girl and i want her to like me back. help please! (link)
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well personally i enjoy guys who can make me laugh. Someone i can talk to about ANYTHING and they wont laugh. He would never leave me or cheat on or anything. Its a BIG turnoff if he smokes, involved in crime, etc. Yes, looks is important too but its not everything. I would like a guy who respects ALL my family and friends even if he doesnt like them. He has to be smart and nice. Really, just show the girl that you care about her. Make her laugh, ask her about her family, what she likes to do, what are her dreams etc. Be very nice to her and her friends, offer to take her out places and basically just be a gentlemen.
If you need anymore help my inbox is always open. Take care and god bless.
-Itz Krazy
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what are some sighns that boys are flirting with me and how can i flirt with them... i need examples and the more the better (link)
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well if your daring...when a hott guy is walking by you, you can whisper "sexy" or something...that would certinly get their attention...or if your just hanging out with some guys.. toy can say " your looking good 2day" or "you look hot in that shirt".. you can wink at them or something. Whenever im with my guy friends and their talking about for example like going to someone's house, i would just be like "well, you know, i might be a little lonely staying home byslef that night. I could use some company.{wink}" LOL..yeah i just play around like that. Hopefully you learned some ideas from that. Take care and God Bless.
-Itz Krazy
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my boyfriend says he loves me but he was checking out some other girl at school i don't know if i should breakup with him or not?
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Listen to this song
That Girl- Marques Houston
You'll get your answer
-Krazy
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