|
kissing help!
ok so my best guy friend has recently started holding my hand walking down the hallways and people keep asking if we're a couple. and no we're just friends but i really like him and i dont know if he likes me though. he doesnt know that i like him cbecause i never told him. i dont wanna tell him either. today he saw my bottle cap bracelet- like if a guy breaks it then you have to makeout with him. and he was tugging on it lol i think he was just playing around but what if he really wants to kiss me? ok so it started off with just hugging and then he satrted telling me he loves me and now the holding hands - on a daily basis in public. does he like me? and if he does whats the next step? is it kissing cuz i havent had my first yet and i dont know when its gonna happen but im pretty sure its gonna be really soon. ahh im nervous in a good way. thank you!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Either he is:
[A]Flirting.
[B]Messing around with you.
[C]Crushing on you.
I'm going with choices A&C here. The next step would be getting to know each other more if you don't know enough about each other now. Once that happens, do what makes you feel most comfortable.
]
So, you want to skip the getting to know you step in favor of kissing? <kidding> You have nothing to worry or be scared about as this guy sounds like a sweet person who is so incredibly in to you.
The holding hands, the bracelet incident and everyone encouraging you to become a couple are all great signs. The thing is as much as you both may try to deny it you're a couple already and just need to say something to confirm it all.
You have to remember he's as scared as you are about a relationship and being rejected etc. He's sending you signals that he wants to be with you but isn't confident about himelf to just ask you out. So, you're going to need to just go for it.
Tell him that you like the fact people think you are together and enjoy holding his hand but you need him to confirm whether or not he wants to be with you because you're ready.
Just be honest hon and don't hide it or fight it because you both know what you truly want but are both too scared just to say it. After you begin your relationship and get to know eachother then you can get to kissing.
All you need to do is tell him the truth that you've never been kissed before and ask him to guide you through it. Guys enjoy this and the practicising so it's no big deal. As long as you match his tongue movements and don't stick your down his throat you're okay.
Lick his lip a little and probe around like a snake would with its tongue in gentle flicks if you kiss open mouth. Stick with pecks first and build up to it. Once you've done it it's second nature like riding a bike. You'll be okay. Go after him though as he's a good catch.
]
haaa
YES!! I pretty sure he does like you!!
And with the kissing...just relax it will come naturally. Believe me:).
]
More Questions: |