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my boyfriend is kind of kinky and last time I went to his place, he had me wear bunny ears. I know he's coming over to my place soon, but he said something about a tail. I'm afraid my boyfriend's a furry. Should I stop shaving "down there (link)
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do you want to stop shaving down there? If you want to stop then stop. But if you don't and your just doing it for him then don't do it. Its your body and you control it. its all up to you
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ive been dating some boy for lik 1month and a half. all thee sudden hes acting really wierd hess ignoring me not writing back to me but hes writing back to my bestfriend. what should i do? should i ask him whats going on or just let it go?:/ im a girl btw
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well i think you should definatly ask him what's going on. because i think that if you don't your going to have wish you did. Im the kind of person who would rather know the truth than to sit there and wonder. Just be prepared for the worst because if you prepare for a lesser outcome then if the outcome is good it'll be alot more satisfying. Sometimes things don't work out but everything has a reason. SO just find the right time to ask him and be strong :]
-hope i helped
Kikij
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Do you think that im being easy? because me and my ex broke up with me because its not working out and fight a lot but he still like me, he wanted to get back with me but i didnt want to
but i still like him. We're friends,But we flirt a lot we hug and stuff and then when we were talking he kinda poked me near my butt and then when we were hugging he suddelny bit my ear out of nowhere 2 times did he lost my respect or am i being easy?
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in my honest opinion you're not easy and for him losing respect for you i'm not sure. May be he's acting like this because he wants to be in a friends w/ benifites relationship and because you're not his girlfriend there's no pressure to act a certain way. i'm not sure i mean my ex acted in the same way with a similar situation and to get over him i needed closure because yeah i liked him but the fighting and everything wasn't for me. Hun i'm not an expert and this is an old saying but try following your instincts if you think you two should just be friends than fine and if you want to be more than ok but be smart about it.
hope i helpped
-kikij
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14/m my girlfriend and i talk about sex and stuff all the time about what we would do to eachother etc. and it kinda seems like she is so open with me and i have only known her for about a week or two and am having thoughts that she will tell this stuff to anyone and that she is some sort of a whore or something. What is your opinion? (link)
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well first of all the people who've answered before me i think are a bit harsh i mean i went out with a guy i've only known for two hours(doesn't make me a whore). and the sex convo's well think of who brought it up first if it's you then maybe the reason she's being so opened with you is because she thinks she's making you happy and impressing you. but if it's her then she might be a "whore" but then maybe she's use to this and she's not sure in what other way for her to grab your attention.
and hun i believe that she might have told someone because unless she's not that social and isolated then i have a lesson for you: girls at the teenage state get all excited about certain sitations and might tell anyone.
but yea maybe you might wanna talk to her get to know her better and if you feel uncomfortable with her like your moving to fast infer it and just let things fall into place.
hope i helped! =]
-kikij
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Theres this girl that i been friends with for a long time and i know she likes me and i kinda like her but she is not that popular but pretty
there is this other girl that i actually like alot but me and her arent friends but we give each other the accusional hi in the hallways and she is popular and really pretty shouldi wait and become friends with the popular one or just go out with my friend (link)
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whats popularity got to do with it homie? honestly if your friends a great girl then go for her because why wait for someone you almost know nothing about and do you even know if the popular one likes youi? come on you know your friend does and of course the feelings going to be stronger for the pop. girl but that's because you know you can't really get her at the moment. the occacional hi's are probably just friendly one. if i'm sounding a bit harsh sorry i don't mean to. well that's my opion.
hope i helped
-kikij
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Hey everyone I just have a regular problem I am sure every guy has eventually. Okay there is this girl that I like and I am pretty sure she likes me also. The thing is whenever we are together we have fun and are really cool. It's just that whenever her best friend is around or someone else she changes completely. She acts like she hates me and I can't talk to her because of her friend. Also she and her friend are almost inseparable. I really could use some advice. Thanks. (link)
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k well this girl doesn't seem to be all that into you if she's gonna be one way and then another. but then maybe her friend doesn't like you all that much but she should still be cool with yo in public. i think that there's plenty of fish in the sea(that line's so over rated)may be you need to find another girl and what ever happens happens but don't try to ruin their friendship either.
hope i helped!
-kikij
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he's amazing, he lives in a different town then me and I don't know when I can see him again. I can't take him off my mind, I keep thinking about how we're just engrossd in each other when we do in fact see eachother, and the last time I saw him, before he left, he gave me the sweetest kiss good-bye. I can't wait to see him again, its this huuuge desire. how do I keep my mind off him, I've tried to stay occupied with music, being with friends, but not matter what I do my mind always goes back to him. any ideas? (link)
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well there's not much you can do hun i mean honesty i believe long distance relationships never work out. i mean if you two are meant to be let it go and if he comes back that's when you know. i mean you could always try to find another guy. (i know it might be a little difficult) but other than that maybe an activity at school new friends you know. just don't let him consum our mind but then don't forget about him either ok hun?
hope i helped =]
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just wondering. at what ages did you guys have your first kiss? and where was it?
i'm just wondering because i'm 15. i'll be 16 in september and i still haven't had my first kiss. (link)
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me well i was 13 and it was infront of my house. but don't stress about the whole first kiss cuz if you think about it too much it might turn out horriblly. =]
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Ok, well last weekend my band took a trip to san antonio and i hooked up with someone. i'm 14/f and a freshman and he's 17/m and a junior. On the bus ride home (about 5 hours) we sat together and shared a blanket, cuddled, held hands, leaned heads on each other, etc. And he did sit with another girl earlier on thr trip but he never acted like that with her. When it was dark I had my head in his lap and we started kissing and making out for the rest of the way home which was about 30ish minutes. It's been three days and he hasn't really taked to me much. He's in my first period class and lunch. He kind of talks to me during first period but only noticed me once in lunch. And after school I'll be standing in the hall and he walks right past me without even looking at me. I like him, but I don't know if he likes me because it's not really seeming that way right now. And I don't to be the naive little freshman who thinks there's a relationsihp there that's really not and follow him around and be annoying. Several of my friends have told me just to forget about him and find someone else, and believe me, I've tried, but for some reason I just can't. But does anyone think that he might like me? And if it doesn't seem that way how can I forget about him? Thanks!! (link)
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hun i don't think so. i mean it was kinda the same thing with me and this guy i was 13 and he was 16 and we did some stupid things and at first i thought relationship!! but no...more like one nght stand. i was that naive little girl that thought we were real. at least until his friend confronted me with the truth. you can't imagine how long i cried for and yea my friends told me to get over him find someone new all that stuff. but i couldn't for a while. i rejected every guy that would ask me out and that's not a good thing so don't do that. take chances cuz that guy probably wasn't worth it hun. and if he is he'll come back to you in life but for you not your body.
like the saying a true kiss is one with the heart not the lips. i know that it might be hard for you but you know what i know you're gonna get over him and it may take a while because i'm not really sure how to get over a guy just like that besides finding something to get your mind off of him.
hope i helped
-KikiJ
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I'm so sick of being the shy little nice passive girl that I am; I'm always ignored,especially by guys. There's this kid that I really really like and just when I think I have a chance with him this random girl comes along and flirts with him like crazyyy and I'm just so tired of being too shy to do anything about it. What can I do to get this guy's, or any guy's, attention? Other than the obvious; like talking to him about his hobbies, music, laughing at his jokes, blah blah blah because that's obviously not working to well. (link)
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well yea i use to be just like you too shy for anything. and yea the hobbie thing works but psh it just may make him think of you more as a friend. flirting is good but i guess you want something else. i could say start dressing like a slut but ha don't cuz that's just gonna make him lthink about you in the wrong way. you could always smile at him and only look at him at the corner of your eye to be mysterious. or get a totally hot but not sluttish make over and say hi then walk away. But other than that hun i don't really have anything but get to know him and let him get to know you.
-KikiJ
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do you believe "once a cheater always a cheater" ?
why or why not? (link)
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yes and no. i believe that once a guy cheats he's probablly gonna do it again but it's not like for sure. i think that it depends on the girl/boy he/she is with and how much they like them. like the girl said b4 i do believe that a cheater doesn't deserve a second chance. but truthfully it's just in the persons own experience i suppose.
-KikiJ
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if your ex asked you to go to the movies with her/him - as friends - and you have a girlfriend/boyfriend, would you still say yes or no?
i'm thinking of asking my ex to go to the movies during our spring break, which is in about 2 weeks, but i don't know if he would say yes or no since he has a girlfriend. all i really wanna do is see him since i haven't seen him for like, 2 years. so i was wondering what YOU would say.
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haha awkwardness =] i think that it depends on the break up if it was on good or bad conditions and may be not a movie because you can't really talk you know? i don't think you should invite his girlfriend because tat'll make it even more awkward and if you say anything around her it might get all twisted and she might try to ruin your likfe but that's just my thought...
-KikiJ
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me and my ex boyfriend have gone out twice and the last time i dumped him because i thought he was flirting with other girls cause he was calling them "sexy" and stuff but thats a whole different story but now hes leaving me comments saying "hey sexy i miss you" and stuff like that and hes leaving me compliments but hes saying the same stuff to other girls, the thing is though hes only talking to those other girls cause he wants to "get some" and he knows hes not going to get anything from me, he says he likes me still and he misses me but i dont get it if he likes me and i know he really does like me then why would he flirt with all these other girls? someone wanna fill me in? (link)
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k well guys like the chase it's fun to them. If they know they can't get it it makes them want even more but don't give in. i did and he left me in an instant. In my opinion he doesn't like you all that much becuase if he did he wouldn't be flirting w/ other girls. if he really wanted you then he would probably just be paying attention to you and not them other girls. guys are dogs hun and i know it might be hard to do but you might wanna stay away from him.
Best of luck
-KikiJ
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ok well im 14 and have never been kissed, i have had 3 seriuos boyfriend's and 2 just becuz boyfriend's and none of them have kissed me.i dont know if im ugly or what but now no guy likes me and i dont know what to do...can you help?oh yah and i guess im supposed to say im a girl. (link)
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hun wat's your definition of a serious relationship? i don't want to sound harsh but you've would have been kissed already if you were in one. I mean all girls have their first kiss at different times i had mine at thirteen my friend had hers at 16 and so on but you shouldn't worry about it that much a kiss is a great thing but for now you're still alittle young to be worrying about this. When the time comes it comes. =]
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Ok, i am 13/f and i like this boy in my school but we have no classes together. I really like him, i want him badly but i have never seen him look at me ever in his life. I am also shy when i talk to boys. I say stupid stuff and i am just not expeirenced as him. He has been out with a lot of girls but i have only been out with 1 guy. I know i never have a chance with him. He is way more expeirienced. My friends are more expereienced than me to and i dont know why. I mean i'm not that ugly i dont think. I mean, we have to wear ugly uniforms at my school and it makes me look dorky but i am still ugh. I dont know how to become expeirenced and let my friends know that i am to. Everyone of my friends would think of me as unexpeirenced and i dont like it. I know i am that way to.If i ever get another boyfriend, then my friends will be shocked. I dont want to be known as unexpeirenced. Please help me. (link)
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well i know it's a big thing about having a boyfriend and all but to tell you the truth it's better to want than have you know?
well to help you with your problem you could always try to flirt more and i know that comes naturally to all girls if not at first then later. You say you say stuppid things when you talk to guys well just start a normal conversation like with a compliment or something cute but random.
then if you mess up play it cool everyone messes up sometimes and it's just you being you and if they can't except that then their lost right?
well if you need anything else you can just e-mail me so yeah.
hope i helped!
-KikiJ
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i have a boyfriend and in 8th grade i "stole" him from my friend in a like sexual way and so we like cybered i guess and now i'm in highschool and we got to actually know eachtoher and he's such a great guy and so nice and on my 4th time seeing him he felt me up....is that too fast..? imean i told him im not ready for sex but i kinda am i just dont want to do it b/c all my friends are like dont have sex w/ him sooo what do you think? (link)
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To me i think he's going way to fast. and for only the fourth time.
And the whole sex thing in my opinion you're not ready though who am i to tell you so.
I understand you want it but then think about it once it's gone it'll never be back no matter what.
I know a few people who still regret loseing it to that "special" person and that person broke their heart.
Your friends are looking out for you and you should respect and honor that but if you truly want to go all the way with this guy just think it over. Yes, no one's stopping you but is he really worth it?
I don't mean to be rude but this guy i mean how well do you know him he could just be out to get your body and you already cybered not saying that that is completely unrightful just that it might have left an "impression". If you know what i mean.
hope I helped
-KikiJ
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Okay, there is this guy, we will call him Bob. Well Bob has liked my friend for the logest time like he was ubbsessed with her, well her and her boyfriend just broke up. (They both want to go back out) But after she and her ex broke up, Bob asked her out, she doesn't even like him really, and she wants to date her ex, but my problem is I like Bob! What do I do?? (link)
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whoa! i have the same problem with my friend but she likes my friend and i like the guy but he doesn't like her and well yeah...
i think you should just tell your friend that you like bob and maybe get to know him better and there shouldn't be a problem with your friend because she doesn't like him.
hoped i helped!
-KikiJ
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okay i'm 14/female
sorry for the length of this.
i always wondered why i can't get a boyfriend. all the guys i like either have gf's already, or don't like me like that but we're still friends.
i'm in high school with over a thousand kids you'd think someone would like you.
i'm 5'1 and have brown eyes and brown hair with a purpleish red in it. i'm skinny, but average, and i think i have a really good personality, and i make good grades in school, but i'm not a nerd. i just haven't figured out why guys don't like me gf wise. why won't they ask me out or even like me?
any suggestions would be great. just drop off any questions you have about my personality to me. that way i can get better advice on what the deal is with me. and what i need help with.
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YAY!
guess what i have this quote thingy you should read:
Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
i mean i think they might be intimidated you know cuz you have a great personality and all!
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i've liked this girl for a week now and i can definitly tell that if we went out it'd be a long lasting/fun relationship. i am 15/m and i was wondering any like cute ways to get a girls attention. (link)
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OMG i love this question!
Okay!
cute gestures:
open doors for her all that gentelman stuff (old but it works)
Compliments:
tell her she looks nice pretty all that stuff
BE CONFIDENT:
Yes confident act cool laugh at your mistakes BUT B you!
Presents:
give her a rose not a note and up front it's always better that way (don't torture the girl now)But build your confidence if you don't have any then do this at the end.
Hope i helped!
-KikiJ
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heyy i have a long distance relationship with my bf and im 13 n hes 16....we talk on msn n thts about it....but i really like him n he really likes me..its just tht im not shure if i shud keep this relationship because it's long distance and they next time we see eachother will probably be in 3 years..so shud i keep this or move on? (link)
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Gurl this might sound a little harsh but move on.
he's not worth it he's 16 and he has a lot more on his mind than msn if you know what i mean.
be friends but i don't think you should take it any farther or you might get hurt.
-KikiJ
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