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what's wrong with me?
okay i'm 14/female
sorry for the length of this.
i always wondered why i can't get a boyfriend. all the guys i like either have gf's already, or don't like me like that but we're still friends.
i'm in high school with over a thousand kids you'd think someone would like you.
i'm 5'1 and have brown eyes and brown hair with a purpleish red in it. i'm skinny, but average, and i think i have a really good personality, and i make good grades in school, but i'm not a nerd. i just haven't figured out why guys don't like me gf wise. why won't they ask me out or even like me?
any suggestions would be great. just drop off any questions you have about my personality to me. that way i can get better advice on what the deal is with me. and what i need help with.
thanx in advance :)
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sometimes guys can be intimidated. a lot of guys seem to go for the girls that throw themselves out there because they know for a fact they can have them, its the pretty ones with sweet personalities that they fear rejection from. another thing is, if there is a gorgeous sweet girl, guys automatically assume that the girl already has a bf and that they should keep their distance. i've had guys talk to be and my best friend and we mention somethin about bein single and they'd be like "you're single??! i coulda sworn ya'll had bfs that why we never really talked to you" guys are funny creatures lol
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guess what i have this quote thingy you should read:
Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
i mean i think they might be intimidated you know cuz you have a great personality and all!
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you shouldnt sit back and wait for a guy to ask you out. try asking a guy out yourself. it might be hard, but guys like girls that make the first move. plus, some guys might like you, they're just too shy to ask you out.
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You might be too cute or too smart! Some guys are intimidated by girls with high self-esteem. No loss, because you don't want those guys. Set your sights high and be friendly. Don't give in to shyness when you choose your next potential boyfriend. Girls that sit around and wait, seldom end up with a date!
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Nothing is wrong with you.
I haven't had a boyfriend and I'm your age also. My friends want me to have a boyfriend more than I want one myself!
There's someone in your school who likes you.
My friends kept saying to me, "There's got to be someone who likes you! I KNOW THERE IS!" And I always said the same thing. "No, there isn't."
But, yesterday I found out that three guys liked me! Trust me on this, there's at least one person at your school who likes you. You just have to flirt and make better friends with them to find out!
Maybe they're intimidated by you. Some guys are shy, so they're too scared to ask you out.
Ask your guy friends if there is something wrong with you. I tried that and they said, "Well, if you smiled more. Guys like that." So, they'll at least tell you one tip or something!
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