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too fast?
i have a boyfriend and in 8th grade i "stole" him from my friend in a like sexual way and so we like cybered i guess and now i'm in highschool and we got to actually know eachtoher and he's such a great guy and so nice and on my 4th time seeing him he felt me up....is that too fast..? imean i told him im not ready for sex but i kinda am i just dont want to do it b/c all my friends are like dont have sex w/ him sooo what do you think?
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To me i think he's going way to fast. and for only the fourth time.
And the whole sex thing in my opinion you're not ready though who am i to tell you so.
I understand you want it but then think about it once it's gone it'll never be back no matter what.
I know a few people who still regret loseing it to that "special" person and that person broke their heart.
Your friends are looking out for you and you should respect and honor that but if you truly want to go all the way with this guy just think it over. Yes, no one's stopping you but is he really worth it?
I don't mean to be rude but this guy i mean how well do you know him he could just be out to get your body and you already cybered not saying that that is completely unrightful just that it might have left an "impression". If you know what i mean.
hope I helped
-KikiJ
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I think after only seeing him after four times and feeling you up is way too fast. And after you guys've only hung out four times that's bartely being with someone and not long enough to go that far. Maybe a kiss or something's fine, but I think feeling up's a little fast.
And all teenagers feel the pressures of sex. If a part of you doesn't want to do it, then don't. That's you telling yourself you're not 100% mentally and pyshically ready to have sex, and you shouldn't do it because he wants it and it'll make him happy or if that's what everyone else is doing. Do it when YOU want to and with someone whose really special to you.
I hope I helped.
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you sound like your really young and you have no idea how to spell.
Your an example of a teenager that wants to have sex but is not ready. Cybering with a guy is not really "sexual" yea your talking about sex but your not really doing anything sexual. Your not ready to have sex with him or anyone. Your young and you barely know this guy. Sex is something special and it should be shared with someone you are deeply in love with. and you are not in love with this guy.
-- word of advice: get to know this boy before you let him feel you up anymore.
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Actually, you're kind of not ready for sex, or by your actions thus far, a boyfriend.
"Stop saying words!"
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Your boyfriend is going way to fast! My advice to you would be to stop him before its to late. If he doesn't understand that your not ready than abviously he isn't the right guy for you and you don't want to make that mistake..do you?.. But if you really think your ready and that he's the right guy then I guess that's your decision. Just ry to pick the right one please so you won't regret it later! I hope I helped! Good luck!
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