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ahh! so many boys


Question Posted Friday October 6 2006, 9:12 pm

okay, first off, let me tell yu about the guys. there's this boy i used to like last year. i like somebody else now. then, there's my best guy friend. so, to start, the guy i like now is going out with someone. but he's so cute and funny, and i seem to always look at him when he's in sight. the boy i used to like, well, i don't know who he likes, but he's really good friends with one of my girl friends. he's really nice and caring, but sometimes his ego gets the best of him. my best guy friend. he's AWESOME. we can talk about EVERYTHING and ANYTHING.
here's the problem.
the guy i like now - well, like i said, i can't help but look at him. but i know he's taken, and no matter what i do, that's not gonna change. but i still can't help but think that maybe he'll notice me and we'll start going out. i'm not obsessed. i'm just not good at following reality.
the guy i used to like - he and my friend, they have this bond kind of thing. and sometimes, i feel jealous cuz i want that kind of relationship with him, too. i don't know if i still like him, but i always feel jealous when i see him talking to other girls.
my guy best friend - we're great great friends, and i don't wanna ruin that. but at times i feel like i want him as my boyfriend, but i don't really have a crush on him. i also do get jealous when he talks to other girls.
as you can see, i'm a very jealous person. i admit that. i try not to, but everybody around me is just so much better, and i hate not having people notice me the way they notice other people. what should i do? not just with the jealousy thing, but the guys. any kind of advice will be VERY HELPFUL! thanks!


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blackluna7111 answered Friday October 6 2006, 10:39 pm:
Well what I see here is that you don't know who to choose well maybe I can help. I can't choose the person for you but I can help you make it easier. Well, the boy you like that has a girl friend should be crossed out of your list. Think reality. If he has a girlfriend that means he really likes her. Imagine you were the girlfriend you wouldn't like no girl on your boyfriends back right?. So I think you should forget about him. He's taken, its up to you. Well your guy friend seems like a really good choice. You could talk to him about whatever. He would actually understand you. I think communication is really important. But you also don't want to make your friendship weired so make sure he feels the same way about you also. The boy you sused to like seems taken to me also by your friend. She seems like she likes it and I don't think you would want to ruin it for her right? Well I hope I helped and I hope you make the right decision. Goodluck!

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