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How many of you would cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband/fiancee/fiance if you knew they would never find out?
I adore my boyfriend, we've been dating for almost two year and I am head over heels in love. But, he doesn't completely...satisfy me if yall know what I mean. And he is aware of this at times. I have a chance do be satisfied by a guy I've know for a long time and does not really have any connections to my friends, or my bfs friends so there just about no chance of him finding out. I can't hurt my boyfriend, and I don't want to cheat on him but I need to be satisfied atleast once... I would just like some input on what yall would do. Thanks
Don't do it. i honestly think that is the stupidest thing you could do. get a vibrator. and use it while your in the moment or something.
if you love him you wouldn't do that to him even if he wouldn't know. that's mean.
16/f
hey guys, thanks in advance for your help
this boy sam and i used to hang out a lot and hook up and spend a lot of time together. we just clicked and everything about us seemed compadible. he went on vacation to florida and we kinda stopped talking for alittle while even after he got back. i started dating this boy paul, who i dated 3 years ago and we're so cute together and we get along really well. i feel like were in love, every chance we get we see eachother. and we are both really happy.
well the other day sam and i saw eachother at the local pool in my neighborhood and we got to talkign again and i realized that i really miss him.. he wants to see me and says he would do anything to spend some more time with me. he knows my heart melts when he sings to me so he left me a 5 minute voicemail of him singing a song that reminds him of us. i don't know that to do because i dont want to loose paul, but i can't get sam out of my head.
pleaseee help =)
Stay with paul and get to know him more. you might just like sam because you have been with him longer.
Or maybe thats not the case. but you wouldn't want to hurt paul if your dating him now. so if you have feelings for sam then breakup with paul.
But i say stick with paul a little bit longer and see if you develop more feelings for him.
I'll start by describing myself as I have been described by people:
I write amazing songs on guitar. I'm the best actor in my high school's theater company. According to many I'm the smartest kid they know. According to a similar number I'm extremely attractive. They claim that I'm also one of the nicest, easiest-going and can hold stupid and intellectual conversations with anyone equally well.
Okay. I'm not an egotistical selfless son of a bitch. These are things people have said to me. Here's something that bothers me: I have never had a girlfriend. I've never even been on a real date. Ever. I came close a few times, but then one girl decided to tell me yes when she really meant she didn't like me that way, and then another got as far as telling me what to tell her dad when I came to pick her up, but then changes her mind an hour later, because. No real specific reason, end of two or three weeks of getting to know eachother and whatever.
I keep trying. I generally don't like to approach girls like that unless I make eye contact and float a smile across once or twice and have one returned. Everyone else says that works, and then you go talk to them. I can't even make eye contact.
So, am I just an unlikely kid who should shut up and stop bitching and moaning, or is there some insight anyone might have here? I'm inclined to believe the first one, really.
SAME HERE
BUT I CANT GET A BOYFREIND!
oh my gosh.
i cant even make eyecontact with a guy.
its just weird
i think its just because girls expect so much more like for you to talk to them and make the first move and all that
but yeah.
i dont know.
okay I really like this boy but, I can't describe what I feel for him... Is it love? or just a 13 year old's crush?
TY in advance Jeni Lots Of love
i beleive its love.
i honestly dont think age matters like people make it seem.
watch the notebook.
there only 17
and thats like three or four years older then us.
well i was thinking today if matt came over to tell him i love him turns out he didnt ne way i iwas going to say that and i was nervous to b.c what if he didnt feel the same way and said nothing talk about emabarrasing and heart breaking. so hear is how the dream went last night.....
ok i had a dream last night. well im in the alter area and i look im getting married! and next to me was a fat kid rite and im like ok well then we are starting to get married and then i was like i cant do this!! so i run away i run into the person i really love. Matt his name is i wanted to ask him if he would marry me instead. i couldnt say it so i said come to my wedding he said ok. well i get ther he sits down i look at him then get married again then i push the fat kid away and then look at Matt he comes up and we get married...
what does this mean?
i thought it meant b.c i was scared to ask to mary him(scared to say i love you to him) then like i get married to him i told him about my dream and i was like hesitating to say i love you on the phone b.c i wanted to say it in front to be less awkward if he didnt say ne thing ik weird but... like i sorta told him and he was like so your trying to say you like me 100% and im like ya sorta but not in that way so i didnt really tell him so im still scared to tell him im seeing him thursday so read and see if im rite and what do i do?
your right.
i would do it..
i think he feel the same way i mean you had a dream my dreams like that always come true..i had one wherei was getting married because i was scared to tell my boyfreind i loved him anyways i had a dream like yours but not exactly then i told him it on the phone and hes like.. so.. you like me all the way? and im like yeah but thats not how i would say it then he came over and i told him i love him and he said he loved me too and kissed me so.. DO IT.
my boyfriend and i had been going out since febuary 17, 2004 so a little over 2 years, everything was perfect we were madly inlove and it was so nice and great he helped me when i needed him and he would help me everything he was my prince charming!!! but anyway one night we were at a big party my good friend had this summer it was in june like june 10th around then, but anyway and there is this girl who loves my old bf i mean she would do anything in her power to try to break us up. she pulled out a bottle and demanded we play spin the bottle! i didnt want to because i figured she mad it so it would land on him and of course it did he told her he would only kiss me and thats it! and she jumped on him and started making out with him the worst part was he started making out with her back and i know because i saw his tongue involved. after my friend pulled the girl off of my bf he stared at me and i just started crying i usually dont cry but something made me want to cry!!! he came by me and hugged me and i pushed him to the ground he tried to apologize but i didnt want to hear it my best guy friend came over and hugged me and told me that he was a jerk and that everything was going to be ok. i didnt talk to my bf the rest of the night then next day i checked my email and there was 10 emails all with the same subject i dont like her is what they all said, so i told him i finally forgave him and things were good for about a week then he invited me over and i decided to go biiig mistake when he came to the door i noticed his friends b. and j. were there with there girlfriends who i knew and we were friends it was all good and everything was going great until his neighbor (who is the girl i hate who loves him) came over she and him flirted the whole time in front of me and then if it didnt get anyworse she started kissing him and touchin his tush again he just let her do it but this time i threw this soccerball on the ground at them while they were kissing and slammed the door on my way out. he chased after me and grabbed me \"babe i\'m sorry she just kisses so well i cant stop!\" i smacked him across the face and tried to get him to let go of me but he wouldnt \"im not cheating on you i love you and you know that\" he said \"do i\" i snapped back and kicked him in the nuts and walked off he told me he was sorry but i told him that we couldnt go out anymore and its been 3 days since i told him we couldnt go out now he wont stop calling me sending me emails practically stalking me telling me hes so sorry and loves me and wont do it anymore but i dont know i have to admitt i still love him but i dont want to be hurt anymore i really miss him but i dont like being treated like this please tell me what you think
NEVER DATE HIM AGAIN!
once a cheater always a cheater.
and use one of your guy freinds in front of him somewhere and start feriously makeing out with them.
i did it
it worked.
Mmmkay. How to begin...
So, my best friend is the guy in this situation. We've been friends for a few years, and I'm closer to him than anyone else, and he feels the same. We can, and do, talk about anything comfortably. But I have feelings for him that go beyond friendship. Sometimes I think he feels the same way. People often ask if we're going out. We tried the 'friends with benefits' thing for a while. Meaning we made out a lot, no commitment, but then he got a girlfriend. But really, beside the fact that we don't do anything that would count as cheating, our relationship hasn't changed at all.
But his girlfriend HATES me. When I hug him, she gives me dirty looks(but I hug everyone, it's not a weird thing). She ignores me when I try to make friends with her. Not to mention she's bad for him. He's always walking on eggshells around her, constantly afraid he's saying the wrong thing. She is extremely manipulative and has him a hundred percent whipped.
We always joke about how we're going to get married; we even have the names of our children planned. But the other day, Lucas said something about it that sounded dead serious. I remember his exact words: "You know how some old married couples are just so content? That's how we would be. We'd never fight. It would be perfect."
The other day something happened that really confused me. We were laying on my bed watching a movie(well, it isn't really MY bed. I recently had foot surgery so I'm crashing on the futon until I can climb the stairs to get to my room). I sat up for a second, I can't remember why, and he put his arms around me and pulled me down. I apologized because I thought I was blocking his view of the TV and that's why he moved me, but he said "No, I just want to hold you." So we were cuddling and he kissed me on the forehead. And there have also been other situations since he's been with her where we came close to doing something we shouldn't have been doing.
So the actual questions here are:
Should I tell him how I feel or wait until he's single again(I have a feeling it'll be soon with her jealousy)?
Should I talk to him about not getting intimate, or should I just stop it if the situation arises?
Any other advice you can offer about the situation would be helpful as well.
my freind has the same problam
omg.
yeah you should tell him how you feel right now.
or else he will never know.
and move on.
and you will never know what would have happend with you too.
but if you do
then he might feel the same and is just to afraid to tell you.
13/m
Ok so, I have this problem were I might fall in love with someone very easy, and when this happens I get rejected/ heartbroken like 99% of the time. Can anyone pleas help?
ME TOO BUT WITH GUYS
and i cant let go
then i make a fool out of myself to all of them.
and ah
anyways
i just eat taco bell and watch disney.
it works for me.
sorry im really bad at giving advice.
i just have the same problam.
and i am to lazy to ask this question.
kimdone.
ok so here is a conversation i had with this guy that i like and i can't figure what exactly he meant in his last text message so i'm gonna type the whole conversation and i want you to tell me wat you think he means. I'll rate 5's to everyone that gives me an opinion. O and my name is *Debbie* and his is *Nathan* And this conversation was at 11:30 last night.
Nathan---how about we give what we both want a chance and see how good we really are together. hit me back adn let me know what you think you might like.
Debbie---in shock didn't reply for a minute
Nathan---are you going to text back anytime soon i would really like to know what you think before i go to sleep, i guess i could just call you.
Debbie---Well depends on what you really want.
Nathan---You know what i really want what is it you want.
Debbie---No i don't think i know what you want.
Nathan---I want you and you do know that what do you want, I wouldn't mind there being an US but that would be up to you. but what do YOU want.????
Debbie---(i sent this one to the wrong place)I want there to be an us to.
Nathan---are you there can i get a response please, just leaving me hangin ain't cool you know. I will call you in the morning but i want you to text me.
Debbie---I sent it to your phone instead of your screenname but i want to be with you.
ok this is where i get confused.
Nathan---i never got it but *that's good* i'll call you later ok.
Are we dating? What does *that's good* mean?
Thanks signed
really confused
thats good
i think what he meant by that is
thats good you feel the same way he does..
thats good there a us.
yeah.
oh my gosh
ok the guy i liked is freinds with my brother
and they went in my room and found dirty underwear
(wich was this coverup stuff and lipgloss me and my freind were doing for a joke for my freind anthony) anyways
and they thought it was something else and they dont belive me
so now the guy i like thinks im disgusting
and doesnt like mean anymore..
should i just laugh about the whole thing and forget?
or stay sad and deppressed
what would you do?
PLEASE!
IM SAD
i rate 5s if you try!
thank you so much!
laugh it off
well i liked this one guy and im trying to let go.
but hes gorgeous.
and i didnt know him but i kinda did.
anyways
im trying to move along with a different guy
he has long flipped out blonde hair
with blue eyes
its cute
but yeah
i think he thinks of me as a freinds with benifits..
i dont really know him eaither
and i cant let go of the other guy
but i know he doesnt really like me
because he beleves these rumors about me
im not a slut
dont worry
i just want someone to love and be my boyfreind.
but i cant let go of the guy i need to let go of..
does anyone have any advice
thank you so much
FORGET HIM
date the other guy
I need a creative idea. How do I ask the girl of my dreams out on a date. But first of all, what things should I say to her, just a few tips that will melt her heart? I know that there is'nt that much you can do to melt her heart, but can you honestly think of a way of using body language to attract her to me. What the hell do I do? I rate 5's
Im 15/m and nearly 16.
aww!
lol cute
well you could send her flowers or something in the mail with a nice card.
leave one of her favorite things on the pourch.
create a scavenger hunt with her favorite food trail,jewlry,chocolate etc..
then when she gets to the last thing have there be a card about how you really feel
then walk out
and ask her out.
or you could take her to an ammusment park and ride the farris weel and just kiss her.
lol well i hope one of these will work
good luck!
this is so cute!
Ok there's a guy I like and it's summer already meaning schools out. We both go to the same school.
So we both like each other. There's one problem: When he's online and his best friend jamie(a girl) is on, he doesn't IM me or anything.
Then when she isn't on, he IM's me as SOON as I get online.
Why do you think he doesnt IM me when his best friend is on?
Thanks.
he probably talks to her
and doesnt see that you signed on
they probably just talk about games and stuff
its nothing to worry about
he likes her as a freind
My boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 wonderful months. he is the best, and i cant even describe him. though the other day, he talked to me about engagement, which i am quite excited for. though me and him would have to keep it on the downlow for i am going to be 16 and he will be 18. he isnt going to ask for awhile yet(falltime or beyond that time, hes thinking), he just brought it up because he wanted to see how i felt about it. i actually feel wonderful about it and i feel very ready. i love this man with all my heart and have never felt this way about someone before. i dont have much of a family, but him and his family makes up for it. im not reallt needing advice, cause i know id say yes in a heartbeat, but am i crazy for being excited at 16 y/o and i know it will be easy to hide from my parents because i hide everything from them, but is this a ridculous decision?!? thanks alot
thats so cute!
Aw
im happy for you too
its not rediculous at all
it just means your really in love with him!
that is seriously so cute
i wish i could find the love of my life..
but NOO.
i have to stick with getting old men.
lol ok i will stop
i hope you too will be happy together!
Well I've known this girl for about a year now and we're really good friends, but I'm starting to like her more than a friend (if you know what I mean.) The only problem is I don't know if I should ask her out or not. If I do and she says "yes", then great, but if she said "no", that would just be really awkward and it would be wierd every time I see her again. So...what should I do?
aww!
cute!
lol
ok
tell her how you really feel about her she might feel the same way she could be hiding it just like you trust me my freind likes this one guy who she has known for about 4 years now and she hasnt told him but she obsesses over him ALL THE TIME
so i would tell her how you really feel or just start out saying
i need to tell you something.
i like you
so then if she doesnt feel the same way you can always be like
well i meant as a freind
or something like that
or i would do something romantic
like
cooking her dinner.
renting her favorite movie.
etc..
then she might confess her love for you.
this is so cute
well
goodluck!
Hi, heres my love story... Theres this girl I really like but I just can't seem to make the first move. I don't have any friends and would like to get to know her alot. I just don't know when to approach her or what to say. The only time I see her is on the school bus. Of coarse theres loads of her friends and people on the bus. What good advice can you give me. I would like it from both girls and boys, but mainly girls. Thanks.
lol aww.
just go up and say hi in a kinda sweet way then say im (what ever your name is)and be like whats your name?
or
just make eyecontact with her and smile at her NOT TOO BIG but just a little then look away so she doesnt think your like staring at her.
lol aww
ok goodluck!
that is the cutest question ever.
These is for all you girls :) How would you like to be aproched to,loke if a guy wants to hit on you on the street what would youlike him to say?
your hot lets hangout.
hi whats your name.
hey do you want to go out to lunch.
come over NOW.
hey..i have this boyfriend and he's really cute but i don't really have feelings for him anymore. i mean he's very sweet but like he's moving too fast and it's making me like turned off. and now he's making me feel like he should be my brother. idk what to do anymore! please someone help me!
i'll give 5 for trying..thanx!
talk too him
tell him you want to take it slower
so the relationship can be more exsiting
because if you know whats going to happen
whats the point of that
I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months now. I know, its not a long time at all but he and I are already in love with eachother. We had this connection right off the bat and we just clicked and have been pretty much inseperable ever since then.
The only issue is he is 6 years older than I am. I'm still 16. So that makes him 22 (if you were too lazy to do the math). I'm sure by now you are all thinking that he's in it just for the sex, but really he's not after that. And I'm sure you are all going to say "Well you don't know that" but I do.
And I'm going to say he's not like your typical 22 year old at all, he is totally different. But I'm sure you will say "All girls say that", but trust me, I'm not them. I've "been" with older guys before and I can tell if they are fake or not. I've been around ones that wanted sex and told me that they weren't interested in it. So, I know that he's not in it just for the sex. If he wanted that, he could get it anywhere else, I'm not saying this just because he's my boyfriend - But he's freakin' hot. Trust me, he's got plenty of girls that would be willing to be lined up to get a chance with him.
I have sort of told my parents about him. But not the whole story. My mom knows that he is 22, but not that I am dating him nor that I am in love with him. And my dad knows that I am in love with him, but doesn't know that he is 22 or that I am dating him. I believe he suspects that I am, but doesn't know for a fact. **My parents have never met him***
I was talking to my dad and he said that he would be willing to meet him. He had shared a story with me about when he met my grandmother (my mom's mom) and she didn't like my dad because he's Puerto Rican and he only wanted to get in my mom's pants, take her money then divorce her. But my dad told her otherwise. My dad told me that if he can stick up for what he believes in, then he would have respect for him. And that's true, that is how my dad is but I'm still scared as to how he would react when he finds out he is 22. I know that he (my boyfriend) would tell my dad that he loves me and that his intensions are good, but my dad can be a hypocrite sometimes.
So I guess my question is, how do I tell my parents that he and I are dating?
Should I even tell them that we are or should I make my boyfriend ask my parents their permission to date me?
I don't want to end our relationship. Trust me, we have an amazing relationship. When I think about us, our age difference is the last thing on my mind. Love doesn't see age.
awe thats cute
lol hes accually wanting to meet your parents?
DONT LISTEN TO THE IDIOT BELOW ME
your right
if your in love with someone it doesnt matter the age.
my mom dated someone 12 years younger
haha
but yeah anyways
you should ask your boyfreind to ask your parents for permission
so then they will know hes responsible and cares
but if you asked then they would be all like.
you cant date him hes too old!
all he wants is blablabla
but you know its not true
so have him ask for permission
and if they say no
just keep dating him secretly
i just met this kid last week, he's cute, funny, nice etc. he was the one who called me to hang out 1st but i always feel like when we talk i am getting mixed signals, like he seems to like me but then he just signs of line or puts on an away message without saying bye & the convorsation just ends. we hung out twice last week wehn we 1st met (he asked me both times) i want to hang out again but is it too soon to ask him? i don't want to seem like a loser or to clingy. is it bad for me too call him? can anyone tell me what to do? & why doesn't he say good bye online?
OH MY GOSH
I HAVE THE SAME PROBLAM
well
i dont know
im to afraid to call my future husband..
but he goes to my school
hes so hot!
i see him in the hallways and have a heart attack!
lol
ok anyways
i dont think its bad to call him
guys always tell me how its annoying when they have to call and girls are to afraid to call
but idk