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How to aproch a girl
These is for all you girls :) How would you like to be aproched to,loke if a guy wants to hit on you on the street what would youlike him to say?
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well if i was walking down a street and a guy came up to me and starting talking to me and stuff i would get a little freaked out. but i mean if i am at the mall and i am with some of my friends and a guy came up to me and starting talking to me that would be fun. i think most girls like getting hit on in a mall or something like that. well yeah bye.
-Sharifa
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I'm with some of the other girls. There needs to be a context to you starting a conversation with a random girl. Examples, walking up to a girl in the street "I like your pants" not cool, but say you're standing in line at the grocery store and she's buying cookies or whatever it's totally acceptable to say "oh I love those, do you know they now have them chocolate covered" because that way she can slough it off as just a stranger making conversation and it won't be too akward if she's not into it.
It's eaiser to approach a girl at an activity that way you already know what she's kind of into, even if it's just riding the bus or something. Make eye contact, and smile, look friendly but not Summer of Samish. Or if you have a dog, take him for frequent walks. Most girls are suckers for animals.
Your best bet is to be funny or clever, and even if you make small talk with people other than just girls, people in the bank line, your cashier whatever, it gives you practice for being sociable, meeting new people and makes you look friendly. Plus you can try out some good lines on the older women around- my Gramma used to love being flirted with :p Hey, and maybe that way a girl will take notice of you and your charming personality and approach you first.
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honostly some thing like HEY there.and it depends is it like a walk by hit on or a stop and chat hit on.so like be sudly kind of o hey wow ya know. like drop glances but make sure she sees some of them . ya know. be like hey and introduce yourself. be like i couldn't help but notices and then something about her like her eyes or smile . ya know something like that. hope i helped.
Andie
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Introduce yourself, but be respectful and polite because girls are usually a little defensive to strangers coming at them out of nowhere.
Make eye contact and shake her hand, tell her that she caught your eye and that you'd like to get to know her, ask her what she likes to do... look for something you two have in common so that you can talk about that. Keep it short and sweet and leave before she does; tell her you're glad you met her and ask if you can call her sometime, and then split.
Don't stay if you're unwanted; if she keeps her arms folded in front of her or keeps her body facing away from you then she wants you to leave.
Be confident!
Carollani
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I'm going to be honest here. I would not want a guy to hit on me on the street. If a guy did that, I would kick him and run. If there was a police officer nearby, I would go to him or her. This is a pretty typical response for most sensible girls.
If a guy wanted me, well, he would have to be someone I knew. He'd have to be really nice about it--if he's shy, or if he's super-smooth, it doesn't matter. Just the fact that he's asking me out shows that he has confidence. A flower isn't neccessary...but it's a good idea! ;-)
Don't: Tell her you want to have sex with her, smack her ass, feel her up, etc.
Do: Try to be romantic about it.
Another tip, especially if you don't know her that well. Watch the movie Shopgirl. Pay close attention to the way Jeremy (the one who isn't Steve Martin) asks her out. It's pretty fantastic (but don't copy him word for word!)
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Use a cheesy pickup line and then shoot yourself down before she gets the chance, i.e...
"Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?- yeah, I know that's bad. Let's try this again, hi I'm James blah blah blah"
It's pretty quirky and girls like funny guys. They rank humour just after looks (which is what girls prize before all else, don't let them tell you different) so it's pretty important.
And if she looks cold or if it's a bad day (or it's raining), give her your coat (and your number so she can return it).
Be funny and always be a gentlemen. Don't push for fooling around or sex and chances are she'll offer it to you as fast as you offered her your coat.
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Compliment her on something. Try to make her feel a little special. After that introduce yourself. If she likes you back she should introduce herself also.
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hey baby whats up wanna have fun tonight no im kidding i dont know maybe be like hey whats up
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something funny .. make her laugh
even like weird stuff
like "oh hey wanna makeout"
or stupid pickup lines.
theyre gay, but theyll get a convo goin
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your hot lets hangout.
hi whats your name.
hey do you want to go out to lunch.
come over NOW.
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