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16/f
hey guys, thanks in advance for your help
this boy sam and i used to hang out a lot and hook up and spend a lot of time together. we just clicked and everything about us seemed compadible. he went on vacation to florida and we kinda stopped talking for alittle while even after he got back. i started dating this boy paul, who i dated 3 years ago and we're so cute together and we get along really well. i feel like were in love, every chance we get we see eachother. and we are both really happy.
well the other day sam and i saw eachother at the local pool in my neighborhood and we got to talkign again and i realized that i really miss him.. he wants to see me and says he would do anything to spend some more time with me. he knows my heart melts when he sings to me so he left me a 5 minute voicemail of him singing a song that reminds him of us. i don't know that to do because i dont want to loose paul, but i can't get sam out of my head.
pleaseee help =)
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Stay with paul and get to know him more. you might just like sam because you have been with him longer.
Or maybe thats not the case. but you wouldn't want to hurt paul if your dating him now. so if you have feelings for sam then breakup with paul.
But i say stick with paul a little bit longer and see if you develop more feelings for him.
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I say stay with Paul for a little longer. See if you start to feel as if you should date Sam instead of Paul. If over time you convince yourself of that, then I would say it's fine. But you would owe Paul an explanation, you know? If staying with Paul is less-desirable than dating Sam, then maybe it's right that you date Sam.
I guess what I'm saying is don't break up with Paul just yet. Time will tell, along with your heart, who you should be with. You're only a teenager and you have your entire life ahead of you to date =].
--Jack
(16/m)
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