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Will it ruin the friendship?
I have a huge crush on this one guy, let's call him Logan. Anyway, Logan and I are pretty good friends and he dosn't know I like him. I don't think he likes me back and I'm afraid asking him out will hurt our friendship.
I also don't want to ask him out because one of my other friends, let's call her Jade, already went out with him and then broke out with him. She dosn't know I like him, but she made it clear to me she thinks friends shpuldn't date friends exboyfriends. I'm afriad asking Logan out will hurt my friendship with Jade too.
What should I do?
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Okay i was in the exact same situation just a couple of months ago. One of my best girl friends was dating my best guy friend. Then they had a really harsh split up. They had a huge fight but then started to talk again. She always stuck by that rule or ex's are off limits. I started to reli like him but didnt want to say anything incase i ruined my friendship with both of them. But someone told me that they thought he liked me and then i felt reli guilty so i told my best girl friend and she basically told me to go for it because she could see we both liked each other. And i did and haven't looked back since
Not sure if that wee story helped
Hope it does though
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since you're not sure if "logan" likes you back just yet, its not worth risking both your friendship with him and "jade". you should give it some time and see whether you get some signals from logan. if he shows intrest in you you shoudl go for it. but i woudlnt inisiate anything before you know there is something there. jade will understand if you both really like eachother, but she will be more upset if you were the one to go behind her back.
good luck i hope things work out
hailey 16/f
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