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PLEASE HELP!
my boyfriend and i had been going out since febuary 17, 2004 so a little over 2 years, everything was perfect we were madly inlove and it was so nice and great he helped me when i needed him and he would help me everything he was my prince charming!!! but anyway one night we were at a big party my good friend had this summer it was in june like june 10th around then, but anyway and there is this girl who loves my old bf i mean she would do anything in her power to try to break us up. she pulled out a bottle and demanded we play spin the bottle! i didnt want to because i figured she mad it so it would land on him and of course it did he told her he would only kiss me and thats it! and she jumped on him and started making out with him the worst part was he started making out with her back and i know because i saw his tongue involved. after my friend pulled the girl off of my bf he stared at me and i just started crying i usually dont cry but something made me want to cry!!! he came by me and hugged me and i pushed him to the ground he tried to apologize but i didnt want to hear it my best guy friend came over and hugged me and told me that he was a jerk and that everything was going to be ok. i didnt talk to my bf the rest of the night then next day i checked my email and there was 10 emails all with the same subject i dont like her is what they all said, so i told him i finally forgave him and things were good for about a week then he invited me over and i decided to go biiig mistake when he came to the door i noticed his friends b. and j. were there with there girlfriends who i knew and we were friends it was all good and everything was going great until his neighbor (who is the girl i hate who loves him) came over she and him flirted the whole time in front of me and then if it didnt get anyworse she started kissing him and touchin his tush again he just let her do it but this time i threw this soccerball on the ground at them while they were kissing and slammed the door on my way out. he chased after me and grabbed me \"babe i\'m sorry she just kisses so well i cant stop!\" i smacked him across the face and tried to get him to let go of me but he wouldnt \"im not cheating on you i love you and you know that\" he said \"do i\" i snapped back and kicked him in the nuts and walked off he told me he was sorry but i told him that we couldnt go out anymore and its been 3 days since i told him we couldnt go out now he wont stop calling me sending me emails practically stalking me telling me hes so sorry and loves me and wont do it anymore but i dont know i have to admitt i still love him but i dont want to be hurt anymore i really miss him but i dont like being treated like this please tell me what you think
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Im proud of you for kickin him in the nuts its what guys like him deserve! I think u shud cut youre losses and walk away now. Ignore his calls and hiss emails and believe me sweety he'll get the hint.
If he"loved" you he wouldnt have let the girl kiss him no touch him or anything else and he wouldnt hav joined in. He's just an asshole who's trying to string u along so that he can boast to his friends. Ok you where 2gether 2 years but im sorry 2 say it sounds like hes bored of you and i hate to say that but it sounds like that to me.Hes not worth it youll eend up hurt believe me. I understand 2 years is a long time and you love him 2 bits but you have 2 think. Does it flow both way??
By the sounds of it i dont think he cares anymore. If he did he wopuldnt flirt or nethin like it with this other gal. So i suggest you jus tell him its through and you wont take his crap and walk away and move on..
I understand it will be hard but hell only hurt you more if you hang around.
Hope i helped
Anthony
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Hi, personally I don't think you should have kicked him in the private parts, but from the sound of things he deserved it. He was given a warning and now a second chance. I think you should talk to him about this, sort it out and come to some arrangement. Tell him that this is the last chance because he would have already had 2 chances to get this right. If he does do it again, then one can only suggest that he's taking the mick and he musn't see his relationship with you that important because he obviousley doesn't sound as though he know's how you feel. See how it goes though. Daniel.
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see if he loves you he wouldnt kiss her in front of you. thats like cheating on you in front of your face. do what your heart tells you.if you truly love him you"ll talk to him and tell him how you feel.so I hope it works out for you.
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while it can be tempting to go back to him you shouldn't. A great deal of people are "in love" with their degrading bf/gf's because they treat them like they believe they should be. It could be a low self esteem issue. and if it's not.. getting back together with him could cause trust issues and thats not a good situation for you to be in. I suggest that you point out to him what it was that he was doing in a calm way. and make sure he knows you aren't coming back.
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I hate him, and love you since you hurt him. . His excuse about how good she kisses is discusting, and is no excuse at all. If I were you, I would not forgive nor forget. Your worth way to much for that bull. As from what you wrote, he is treating as if he knows he can do whatever he wants. Dont let him take advantage of the fact that you love him. He should respect and cherish your love, not abuse it in the way that he has (by kissing other girls, especially right in front of your face!)
Find someone else, or get to know yourself and just forget about his existance for a while.
Hope this helps!!
Much love,
Delia
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NEVER DATE HIM AGAIN!
once a cheater always a cheater.
and use one of your guy freinds in front of him somewhere and start feriously makeing out with them.
i did it
it worked.
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ok the one thing you can't do is forgive and forget. He has done this twice to you. What you need to do is no give in to the phone calls and the e-mails. My best frind her boyfriend cheater on her and when she found out they broke up. he kept on calling and e-mailing her and when she finally gave in and talk to him on the phone and there back together. But they have broken up five or six times he he keeps on cheating on her but she gives in to the phone calls and keeps on going back. My point is if you give in he MIGHT do it again. Just don't give in, it will hard but if i was you i couldn't give in. hoped i help.
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do NOT forgive forget about him and move on. Any guy who is your boyfriend and who kisses another girl infront of you is not worth your time. You are so much better than that. Even though it might hurt you NEED to move on. If it makes you feel better you should tell him straight up you treat me like shit and i dont need you in my life. and if he says hes sorry be like good you should be i gave u a second chance but you screwed it up. But its for your best not to go back to him. Hope i helped.
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he loves you. hes apologizing so much and trust me you should forgive him. he shouldnt have kissed those girls back but remember they jumped on him he didnt do it to them first. you really love this guy so just forgive him. be mad at the girls not him and if it happens again tell the girls to get off your boyfriend. but you too are deff. in love and something like this shouldnt break you two up. i hope i help.
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That's...woah. Honey, you did the right thing. Answer it the phone and tell him you don't want to hear from him anymore and if he calls again you going to get your parents into this. I really don't have anything else to say, this is a difficult thing. If you really think he will do it again, stay away from him and be mean. But if he truly IS sorry, maybe ya'll could talk it out. I'm sorry this happened, I hope I helped.
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sometimes guys cant like...stop themselves. i think you should forgive him but keep an eye on him. talk to him about how you felt and ask him to resist the temptaion.
hope i helped & good luck
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Wow. I think you guys need to have a serious talk. You should tell him that he needs to stop whatever's going on with this girl. Well that is if you still want to be with him. If this girl keeps getting in your way with your boyfriend, tell her she needs to back off. You're letting her do this to you, and you're getting hurt. You shouldn't have to put up with that. On the other hand, your boyfriend has to learn when to say no. He's not helping himself out much here. He's keeping this going.
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