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I decided to make this to help people out if they need it. I've been told I'm a good advice giver. So we'll see. =) Feel Free To Ask Me Questions About Anything! Hope I help.




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do girls like it when you look them in the eye when you talk to them

yes, it is polite and it shows that you are interested in speaking with them and with what they have to say.

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Why do people say its special to kiss in the rain?
What makes it diffrent then kissing when its not raining?
Does it feel diffrent or something?.

Thank you
please answer a.s.a.p

it's just something different, and it feels more romantic.

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I think I might like my ex boyfriends best friend. I don;t now what to do. I still like my ex but I think I may like his friend more. what should I do. If you have ever had a problem like this please tell me what you did. thanks.

If you like him go for it. You can't control your feelings.

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I married and we we wont a chaild ,but the doktor say that here egs is not caming out to mix with male 1 is OK he sead pls help how we get the answer pls

Maybe you should learn to write and spell correctly before you have a child.

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ok i am a white girl and I like this black boy. Well he is the type of guy that is touchy feely, and I was fine with it at first, but now it is so much, every time he sees me he want to put his hands down my skirt, or up my skirt. And now I have people at school talking about me. Saying thats the girl, and heads turn. I like him a lot, and I don't know what to do, cause I don't want to hurt him. So Please help me!!!!!!

let him know he needs to slow down a bit. and if everyone knows it seems like hes running his mouth.. so you might want to get rid of that too.

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i hear i guy likes me and i like him. some of my friends say he does. how can i tell?

ask him. or see if he drops little hints. should be somewhat obvious if he acts differently around you.

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Well.. i'm dating this kid named Eric and I really like Eric, hes like a really good friend of mine. We started dating on Tuesday, and now I just don't like him as a boyfriend anymore. Everytime I date a guy I can't seem to like them more then 2 days, Is there something wrong with me?? Is this normal? Should I keep dating Eric.. or do you think I actually don't like him?? *

Give it time, just don't wait two days figure you arent interested and give up.. wait a while and see if your opinion changes.

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Ok, i was at sonic and a really hot girl brought the food out to me. Ive never seen her before in my life, but i got the nerve to ask he for her number. and she actually gave it to me. Ok now im stumped. What do i do? Should i call her n ask her out, or what? help plz.

Well you have her number, she obviously gave it to you for a reason if she didn't object to it. so why not call her?

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I watch alot of movies..well..alot of love movies. The movies where ppl fall in love. And the more i watch those movies the more i want that in reality. I want to be in love..does neone else feel that way?
Or am i just stupid for even thinking that :/

Every girl wants one of those movie love stories, whether they admit it or not ;-) So don't worry, you aren't stupid.

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there is a kid i like and he is like my best friend. he is goen out wit one of my best friends. should i tell him that i like him or should i just keep it a secret. he knew i liked him last year but he doesnt kno this year. when he knew last year he went out wit my bestest friend and that made me feel bad.. can u give me an answer.. what should i do???

Well if you feel like you need to tell him, go for it. Just make sure he knows you aren't out to ruin his relationship with your friend. Good luck.

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Hey guys....
I'm kind of really sad right now....Since my girl friend and I have been going out (8 months) she has promised me time after time that she doesn't pleasure/finger herself. In fact when I used to say Krysta I think you do she would get so mad and say shes not like that and she really doesn't.
Last night I was going through her email, and she had signed up for www.loveforum.net. The user name that was in that email was never activated so I didn't think about it again until I asked her why she signed up.
On first off she said she NEVER heard of the site and her brother probably did it, or maybe she did it awhile ago and forgot about it. I took that and accidently clicked on a link called 'Pleasure for girls' in the Sex Talk forum. The user name was PhillyChick847, which is what she goes by sometimes.
She was asking for advice on how to give herself pleasure, and hide it from me. She said she does it 3 times a week in the forum when she told me she NEVER has ever done it.
She denyed that she typed that and said there is more than one phillychick online, I took that! Then just for myself, I tried to login with my name as the password and it WORKED! After me telling her I would dump her on the spot if she didn't admitt it she admitted it.
She was so upset that she cut herself...I was really upset because I can't believe she would go behind my back and do this....its almost UNBELIEVEABLE. She told me she loved me sooo much and she was sorry...she said she just did it because it felt so good when I did it to her.
She still said she doesn't do it that often, but she can't explain why she typed that. Heres the link to the post: http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=3965
She made 3 posts and they ALL disturbed me ALOT.
I threw up like 4 times last night, I can't belive she would do this....I'm so upset...I mean maybe if she didn't lie to me it wouldn't be such a big deal. The thing that even disturbs me more is on the time stapms right after I walked her home from the bus stop she went in and did this...and shes really interested in finding more ways...I think the damage to my head is already done.
I still LOVE her so much but I don't know if I want to be with her....she can say shes not going to do it again but no one can stop once they do it, especially if she does it that much...I really do LOVE her but I don't know what to do...That really disturbed me ALOT! can everyone please help me?
Should I break up with her...please help guys...please....

Thanks in advance
Dave

Ok well I don't have an answer for this question. Because if anyone does thats stupid. There is nothing wrong with her masturbating. If she wants to do it she can. Whats th edifference between her doin git to herself an dyou doin git for her? I'm sure you masturbate a lot too. Guys do it so why can't a girl if she chooses to? Second of all.. what gave the the right to GO THROUGH her email. Invasion of privacy? I think yes. I'm suprised she hasn't broken up with you. I'm sorry cause I'm usually not this mean but that is fucked up.. it really is.

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Hi well my boyfriends friends come up and pinch my ass , everytime I ask them to stop they ust kiss me like Im thier own and my boyfriend lets them what do I do?

tell them to fuck off or else. haha, just talk to ur boyfriend about it and let him know ur uncomfortable with it. hope it helps *amber*

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i have a seriouse problem with keeping a boyfriend. I have never been dumped because i always dump them so quickly! its so hard because i always wnat new guys, im never happy with just one, and i never want to hurt anyone or cheat on anyone! i have a boyfriend right now and i like him sooo much, he is perfect for me, but for some reason i want to dump him, its so hard and confusing, what should i do!

if you like him, don't dump him! =) simple as that. hope it helps *amber*

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im in love with this girl, i mean like IM IN LOVE.
but i dont know if she likes me. i have gone out places with her, like football games and shit. but i just dont know. shes really hot and its the first person ive felt this way about, i mean sure ive liked girls but not like this. i seem to never know when to kiss a girl or hold their hand or put my arm around them, its just sumthing i dont know, when do i do any of those things!?!?!
plz answer me ill rate a 5!

do it when you feel the time is right ! Anytime can be a good time ;) Hope it helps *amber*

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U c i like this girl who goes to my school and we r great friends. But the prob is she is goin out w/ one of my best friends. At first i was just gonna wait and c what happened but they've been goin out for a while. I dont wanna mess anythin up but i cant stop thinkin bout her. And when i'm w/ her i feel sumthin.
HELP!
thnx in advance

Awh that sounds really cute.. haha I went off topic, but it does. lol. Maybe you should spill your feelings to her. But let her no in advance that you aren't trying to mess things up with her and her boyfriend. Let her know that you just want to get these feelings off your chest, I'm sure it would help a lot.. it has for me. Just being honest with a person can be a ton of help! Hope it helps =) *Amber*

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One of my good friends is dating this guy, Erik, that I liked for 2 years, but she never new it. And so they been dating for 7 months, and Ive been a bit down latly. He just recently broken up with her, And he said he did it cause he wanted to go out with me cause he heard I liked him. But I don't wanna hurt my friend, beacause she's really down, and crying and all. I feel really bad, but on the other hand I really wanna go out with him. What should I do?

~Amberlynn

Well I'd say talk to you're friend about ti and find out how she would feel if you two were together. If she is uncomfortable with it, I wouldn't take the chance unless you are okay with ruining a relationship with your friend. Chances are you are not. But if she doesn't seem to uncomfortable with the thought, and you've liked him for so long I'd say go for it.. Of course, as long as you think its really worth it.. especially since your friend is so hurt right now. Or maybe if you don't think you should go for it right now, talk to the guy and see how he would feel about waiting a bit. Hope it helps. * Amber *

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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now and we talk all the time on the phone and online but when we get to school we dont talk at all! we haven't even hugged..! and like all we do is say hi or wave and walk away like we're in health and Intro to something together and like everyone always talks but we never do! well me and my friend Sam are going to watch him practice and the kid she likes practice for football so if you have any advice on how to get him to talk to me in school please hurry cause my friend is coming over now! alright thanks!

-I rate high-

He's probably just shy or nervous around you in person. Yu should go up to him and start a conversation first. Or ask him why you guys hardly talk in person. I'm sure you'll figure thisgs out =) Hope it helps *AMbER*

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okay i like this guy and he likes me. well the other day he asked me out and i said yes but 2 days after, were already broken up ! he said he needs to get to know me better and i totally agree no hard feelings there but what i dont get is why cant we get to know each other by going out? i asked him why he asked me out and then broke up but he said "i jus dont think i really know u well enough" or does he not want to go out and thats why he said that, but like after that hes like i still like u but i jus wanna get to know u better maybe wen school starts. and the day after i seen him at the movies and i waved and smiled--so did he and i knew i liked him alot. do you think we eventually will go back out ? or do you think he jus doesnt like me even though he said he did ..

Just let him get to know you better and see where things go. If things go good yo guys will probably end up back together. Don't worry about it now, just be his friend and see where it takes you. Hope it helps =) *AmBeR*

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ok...i went to my friends house and i went out with her cousin and then we broke up in like april right ... but on saturday he started holdin my hand (just me and him in a room...door closed) and rubbin my boob and then we were watchin a movie and we were cuddling and he kissed the side of my lip and part of my cheek and then like a minute later we were makin out and the problem is im goin out wit his cousin and they're rly good friends... so i dont wanna tell my boyfriend that i kissed his cousin b4 me and him hav even kissed...and do you think he'll kno that he was my first kiss?...and i cant tell my friend cuz then i wont be able to spend the night again if every1 knows we made out!!

sry sooo long but PLEASE HELP!!

Yea, sorry to say but you did cheat. I doubt your boyfriend will be able to tell whether or not he was your first kiss or not. And I suppose if you don't want anyone to know, keep it to yourself. But if you start to feel guilty you should probably be honest to your boyfriend. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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i have a bf and i really like him and we have been going out for about 9 monthes. but this past day i went over to friends house and she has 1 brother and he is really cute and i like him as well as my bf....so what im saying is what should i do should i break uo with my bf or stay with him!! HELP!!!

Wel if you still feel the same way about your boyfriend, stay with him. There is no use in ruining a good relationship for another guy that you don't even know if he likes you. I'd say stay with. Hope it helps.

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