Q: 20/f

This guy I had a date with kissed me on the firt date. Is that werid? I have never kissed someone on the first date before. Do you think he just wants sex?

Q: I wanna "flirt with this guy .. But i don't exactly know how .. What's your definition of flirting ??

Thanx Bunches

Q: do you think it is weird that a 17 year old is going out with a 13 year old, even if they love eachother more than anything in the world?

Q: i really like this guy...but i am afraid he wont like me and i am friends with his friends and they say he isnt into girls right now...but it feels likehe keeps flirting with me...what should i do?...should i ask him out?
ps. i rate 5's

Q: Is there anything wrong with wanting to give a guy head instead of jacking him off?I honestly tink that it is fun and I have only given one guy head, but I still like it even though I am not getting any plesure out of it at all.

Q: How do you give someone a hickey? How come it really is that color? Also.. What do you do when a guy is giving you a hickey.. is it normal if a girl were to give a guy a hickey?

Q: ok im 13/f and im goin out w/ a 12/m...yea i no its werid but im one of those ppl that says age doesnt matta lol. so we started goin out a couple of days ago but hes liked me for a long time. the only prob is when im around he doesnt treat me like his gf...i dont know wut to do cuz i really like him but i wanna be treated like his gf...not jus a friend.

Q: ok, my ex boyfriend was at my house last week hanging out with my brother, he stayed the night and in the morning im like "Hey, wanna sign my jeans" cuz i was having everyone sign them. he said sure...and he signed them saying "luv you always, Gary" then 2 nights ago he told me that he wanted my best friend back (he was her first bf and he really liked her but she broke up with him) but yea, then he made a crying face and said "Bryanna!!!!" and did another crying face (this was on a messenger) and he has no idea how much it hurt and confused me. I mean, he writes luv you always on my pants then he says he wants them. He confuses the hell outta me and I don't know what to do about it. when i ask him how he feels he just says he doesnt know. Theres obviously no point in asking him how he feels anymore. So how can I find out? I have seen him look at me a couple times but I guess it didnt mean anything. plz help. thanks 4 reading this, its kinda long lol

Q: ok i have been going out with a girl for quite a while now. we love each other both very much and we know what "love" is...but we have been thinking...about sex. we have already did a couple of things with each other already but other than that we are both still virgins but we are thinking about sex and we are going to go ahead and try it soon possibly even tomorrow or within this week...is this moving too fast...since we know each other and talked it through? and what should i do about this since its our both first time having sex? (we are using protection by the way) thanks for listening

Q: OK, there are 2 parts to this. There is this guy at my school that I really like and I know he likes me back!! But I don't know how to tell him!! I had a crush on him since last year and people say I should ask him out. But you see, I have NEVER been on a date and I'm 13 years old!! Everytime I think about him I feel like I want to kiss him so badly. He just got a haircut and now he looks even cuter, that it's driving me crazy!! OK, the 2nd part is that ever since these 2 girls found out that we liked each other they have been teasing like "So, how's your boyfriend?" He has been acting weird like we used to flirt a lot and he would always smile at me and do nice things to me now he doesn't do that anymore!! Do you think he dosn't like me no more!!?? PLEASE TELL ME!! Sorry it's so long!!

Q: theres a girl that i like but she has a boyfriend, is there anything i can do or do i just have to wait?

Q: okay so .. i broke up with this guy a little while ago. But when i see him i still think about him. My friends say i should go back out with him .. but i dont want to .. i dont think im the type of girl to have a boyfriend but i also like having one too. I dont know what i should do. I dont even know if he still likes me. I think i just still have left over feelings for him but i dont think i could go back out with him. I kinda want to .. but then again im talking to another boy .. so i dont know what to do ..

Q: I have an older sister who's absolutely gorgeous . and even though she's quite horrible to me , she always acts nice in front of everyone else . especially guys . recently , i realised that i liked this guy friend of mine , A LOT . more than friends . even though i'm quite cute and stuff , my sister always gets WAY more attention than me . especially with this guy . it hurts me when i see them sitting together , talking , my sister in her seductive voice , and him smiling .it hurts a LOT . WHAT SHOULD I DO ?

Q: ok well im going to lucnh with a boy today idont kno wut to talk to him about plz give me alotta ideas i dont wanna bore him!! hes sweet cute and popular!! plz help ill rate a 5!

signed- confused

Q: Well see i'm 15 and i'm a female and i'm not going out with this guy, but i gave him head and he ate me out at a football game in the back of his van. I was caught up in the moment and now everyone is calling me a slut. I have no idea of what to do, should i stick up for myself or just ignore them. The advice would be very helpful. thanks!

Q: ok i dont rly have a problem with it im just wondering im 13.f and my boyfriend is 15.m and this other guy that likes me is 16.m but see i dont kno why all these older guys want me?? does anyone kno why they would?

Q: I'm 15/f. Ok, so my sister recently had her Bat Mitzvah and a ton of family cane up. So this one family, who is related because their mom is my mom's cousin, and their dad is my dad's friend (before they were married), and their kids are my 3rd cousins. Well they have two kids, one whho is my age and didn't come to the Bat Mitzvah, and one who is 13, 8th grade. So this kid came over to our house after the party with a ton of my other friends, and we all had a blast. The problem, what if i like him? I don't want to because many people will find it gross. I know it's not incest because sometimes first cousins don't even count as incest. Also the fact that he is two years younger. Some people find that really wrong. The next time I'm going to see him is at his Bar Mitzvah at the end of November. I don't know what to do. We had a great time together, and my friend wanted us to "hook-up." But I don't think he hates me, i think he thinks I'm kind of cool. When we were surfing vodeo clips he kept saying, "I think you'll like this one" I mean, if feels like he would be perfect if he was my age and not my 3rd cousin. Are these feelings gross or weird? What should I do? please help. I'll rate. Sorry it's so long.

Q: Well I'm meeting Jon tomorrow and I want to make a bit more of an effort than usual. I normally just wear jeans and a top and have my hair down but I want to look a little different. We're only meeting casually not a big date or anything, what are some casual ways I can do my hair in and what should I wear? NO SKIRTS!!!

Q: He loves me!!!!!! he told me he loved me...all my problems are solved!!!!! thanks for all the help you gave me...I hope stuff works out for you too.
Rainbowcherrie xxx

Q: Ok. You must get so incredibly frustrated with me and my pointless questions but, yeah it's rainbowcherrie again.


Well, as you know, I go out with Jon. He's great, I know he really likes me and I'm ok with that even though I know he doesn't love me just yet, things are going well.


The only thing is, we have this game we play where we plan our future, our children's names and where we will live etc. I know it's just a game and I know that it wont ever happen, I'm only 13 and all. I just can't help wishing and wishing it wasn't just a game and that I could marry him and have his children. None of my friends or him know I feel this way, everyone would say it was just puppy love but...I don't know.


Sometimes the game just gets so real you know? He keeps saying things like: 'I don't care what we do as long as I'm with you.' and yesterday I said: 'You'll have got bored of me by then.' and he kept saying he wouldn't and how he thought I was pretty and he wanted to be with me and all.


If he really means all that stuff, why doesn't he love me??? And I'm always so paranoid that he's lying to me. I don't know what's wrong with me, it's just a game, why am I feeling like this? Please don't tell me I wont feel like this in a few months or so and that I'll have moved on from him and that it's just a fling because that's not how I feel. I think I really love him and I wish wish wish the game was real.

I'm sorry to bother you again but I can trust you and I can't talk to my friends about this. Remember, you can always ask me when you have a problem :) Rainbowcherrie

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