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what is he doing?!?!
ok, my ex boyfriend was at my house last week hanging out with my brother, he stayed the night and in the morning im like "Hey, wanna sign my jeans" cuz i was having everyone sign them. he said sure...and he signed them saying "luv you always, Gary" then 2 nights ago he told me that he wanted my best friend back (he was her first bf and he really liked her but she broke up with him) but yea, then he made a crying face and said "Bryanna!!!!" and did another crying face (this was on a messenger) and he has no idea how much it hurt and confused me. I mean, he writes luv you always on my pants then he says he wants them. He confuses the hell outta me and I don't know what to do about it. when i ask him how he feels he just says he doesnt know. Theres obviously no point in asking him how he feels anymore. So how can I find out? I have seen him look at me a couple times but I guess it didnt mean anything. plz help. thanks 4 reading this, its kinda long lol
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Well hun.. heres what you can do... Just talk to him about it. He's bound to spill out something. See how he feels anyways. Theres nothing wrong with asking him a simple question.
He's obviously just feeling guilty over something. Find out what it is and help him. Even talk to him more if it helps.
Well i hope i helped...
Christine
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Hi there! How did you two break up and how long did you see eachother for? I think he is quite confused. I don't know your history but I think he still has feelings for you and is testing you to see if you feel the same way. By writing that on your jeans he was probably testing your reaction and then when saying that about your best friend - I think he is quite sensitive about his situation but at the same time - being a typical male and not trying to give his real feelings away. Email back if you want to ask any more questions or if anything else has happened. Daisy
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Ok he might like u he might not or he just might be playing head games with you untill you know i think you should move on and get another boyfriend untill then
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He may be the one that is confused. He may like both you and your friend for different reasons but may not act on it in consideration of not wanting to hurt anyone's feelings. I guess try not to read too much into everything he says or does and just remember he's confused. He definately likes you, but something is making him stuck. You don't need to find out if he likes you because the answere is that he does, but something is holding him back for one reason or another. Don't force any decisions on him because that could steer him away from you. Just be around for him, be the chic that you are and hopefully things will smooth out for him and he can figure out what to do. But it's him that has the work to do, not you. Good luck!!
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ok well fist of all, i'm a little confused at the problem, because you said he was your ex-boyfriend, so he has the right to want your best friend back. but i can understand where you're confused. maybe what he meant by "luv you always" was that he will always love you as a friend. but, that doesn't mean you can't talk to him about it. what he's doing to you isn't fair, and you deserve an answer. when you talk to him, don't ask him what he feels, but rather tell him that you are very confused by the fact that he wrote "luv you always", and then tells you that he wants your best friend back. since you guys aren't dating, you can't really give him the ultimatum saying "it's either me or her", but you can make it clear that you need to know whether the "luv" that he was implying when he wrote on your jeans was a friendly love, or something more. i hope this helped, and good luck.
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