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ok i got a question (im hoping indieguru will answer 2 lol)
but yea, me and this guy have been friends for a couple months...well, when we first met we were friends and were talking for like a week then we kinda lost touch for like 2 months...now i see him 1-2 times a week and sometimes more. and he hasnt plain out said he likes me..but he has tried to meet up with me (even suggested it) and he has told me he wants to kiss me sometime and that he wouldnt mind it if i kissed him. he has also directly told me that he "likes a girl that makes the first move" this sounds perfect doesnt it? well, prob is...hes got a gf. he gives me a hug almost everytime we see each other. i catch him looking at me and everything. we talk almost every night on the computer. we have already met up and kissed twice. he knows how i feel about him. and if anyone is interested i will tell ya about this one girl that has latley been flirting with him cuz she knows i like him, ill give ya the background story on her & why else i hate her. and whenever i go to kiss him i get really really nervous..i dont wanna be nervous. i wanna be able to just kiss him and not even think about it. and im constantly thinking about him. I can't help it. Ive liked him since we met. hes awsome...what can i do? how can i get him to like, tell me he likes me without plain out asking him? How can I be not nervous? and how can i get him away from everyone at the youth group so i can talk to him?? (and maybe more)
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How long has he been going out with his girlfriend for? Does he still seem to be really into her when you see them together? Have you seen him flirt with anyone else apart from you? What is his relationship history like? Has he cheated on previous girlfriends before? I know these are a load of questions but you really need to be sure that he is a trustworthy guy before doing anything. If he really likes you then he should finish with his girlfriend before making a move on you or you making a move on him. If you make a move on him first and you know he has a girlfriend then you might get a bad name for yourself. If he has hinted he likes a girl to make the first move then you could hint that if someone really wanted to be with you and they already had a girlfriend, then they would finish with her to show they were really serious. Let me know how it goes. Daisy
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ok i think you should st8 up ask him who does he like more then if he doesnt awnser then say eather pick between me and her or im leaveing
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Honey, you guys obviously like each other, but you need to stop kissing him until he breaks up with this other girl. Tell him that you really like him and enjoy kissing him, but shouldn't if he's with this other girl. It seems like you should be comfortable enough to say this to him. That will make him think and consider doing what he truely feels...perhaps that would mean breaking up with that girl for you??? :) So keep on being his friend, hugs are okay, but make sure you say to him what I said and whatever is supposed to happen will happen.
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