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My sister ....
I have an older sister who's absolutely gorgeous . and even though she's quite horrible to me , she always acts nice in front of everyone else . especially guys . recently , i realised that i liked this guy friend of mine , A LOT . more than friends . even though i'm quite cute and stuff , my sister always gets WAY more attention than me . especially with this guy . it hurts me when i see them sitting together , talking , my sister in her seductive voice , and him smiling .it hurts a LOT . WHAT SHOULD I DO ?
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Hav eyou talked to you siuster about this? If not, you should. She should understand how you feel even if it hurts you and her both. Your sistwer shouldn't be treating you that way. If she is as gorgeous as you say she is, then she shouldnt be tryin to seduce your friends. especially if she is older than you, whether she likes the attention or not. Talk to her. It should work. BUt talk to her mor ethan once about it until she sees what she realy is doing. Another good idea is to video tape her without her knowing it and then show her the tape. Maybe then it will show her how she really is. Sometimes people don't know they are doing it cause they do it so much. Hope that helps.
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What does your sister have that you dont? Is it the makeup on her face, or her hair? Is she a slut? I know it hurts you I can only imagine however just because your sister can get the guy does not mean your sister is better than you in any way. She may get the guy but can she keep the guy? thats the question you need to ask yourself.
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Well, the last thing you want to do is tell this guy how awful your sister is. That would be a bad idea. It'd just come off catty.
You should tell your sister that you like this guy. If you sincerely talk to her, I don't think she is going to care about him. From what it sounds, your sister could have any guy she wants. So, she really doesn't need the guy you like.
Does this boy know you like him? It might be a good idea to tell him your feelings, too.
Finally, this kind of sibling rivalry happens. Usually you grow out of it. And if all goes as planned (mwahahaha), she'll get fat and you'll get married.
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Your sister might be hot but she is WAY jealous of you..jeez..how crappy is that to come on to your sister bf?? See she is really insecure..
So if this guy really digs you...then NOTHING is going to get in his way..but if he does go after your sister..well she and your guys are bad news.
i ouwld be so casual about everything..see she wants you to get upset..if you do not..maybe she will go away.
Ps she needs some therapy..scamming on yor sis guys is way BAD!!
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Omg i have the same problem with my sister.. She's my twin tho. Shes way More gorgeous than i am. i just ignore her and act like she doesnt exist. tHEN if that dont work.. i yelled at her and then told her to stay away from my friends and guy friends and to Quit talking to them or she's in for it. She listened and she dont talk to them anymore.
I hope i helped. Need anyhthing else just let me know..
Christine
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