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okay so .. i broke up with this guy a little while ago. But when i see him i still think about him. My friends say i should go back out with him .. but i dont want to .. i dont think im the type of girl to have a boyfriend but i also like having one too. I dont know what i should do. I dont even know if he still likes me. I think i just still have left over feelings for him but i dont think i could go back out with him. I kinda want to .. but then again im talking to another boy .. so i dont know what to do ..
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If there is a hint of doubt, I don't think you should. You might just be lonely and when you go back out with this guy you might figure out that you really don't like him you just want a guy. Keep talking to the other guy and you'll figure out what you want. If you really wanted to be with him, you would know.
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well, I think that you just need closure, it seems that the relationship you had with him was strong so when it went away you "yearn" for that same feeling.. you'll get over it but for now concentrate on school and maybe you'll find someone else that you like that won't be a dud
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What i really think your problem is, is that you need attention. All girls are guilty of it, you may think you like a guy but you dont. You always think about your ex boyfriends when you see them its like an unwritten law or something lol and you are prolly also jeleous when you see him with other girls? I would just keep talking to the boy you are talking to now.. explore your options.. :)
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In my opinion, it sounds like you are doing o.k. without your ex. boyfriend. I think that you are paying a little too close attention to what your friends say when they tell you that you should go back out with him. You don't sound like you miss him TOO much. As for getting with some other guys...I say go for it!!!
-Hope I Helped *Banna*
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The reason you broke up with him has a lot to do with this. You should think about what it was like with him.. and if your heart wants that and you do really like him. I would say talk to him about it and exlain to him your feelings. *follow your heart on how you feel. Don't be afraid to say that you want to take a break. Just go with your inside feelings towards him and do whats right for yourself. oxo good luck
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if there's even the slightest feeling in you telling you not to go back out with him... dont.. just dont because while ur going out with him.. that once little feelings gonna get bigger n bigger..jus dont if u dont want to..*hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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Screw Him! Not literally... Just go with your first instinct, you don't like him, why would you guys break up in the first place? Your friends might think you should go back out with him, but it's not about how your friends feel, it's about how you feel. Besides you have another guy your talking to anyway...Just forget about the past and get on with the future...Hope I helped!
~ Lauren
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well if you have any doubts about getting back together with this kid, don't. im sure the feelings you have for him are exactly what you said-left over. it's hard to get over someone, and it takes a while. but the worst thing you can do is get back together with him, because then when you break up again, it'll only make getting over him even harder. i would suggest investing your energy elsewhere, whether it be a different guy, or a sport, or school work-anything to get your mind off him. good luck
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Why don't you try thinking about this other boy. And do things to get your mind off your ex. If you go back out with your ex chanses are you'll be unhappy. And no one wants to be unhappy.
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i have the same problem...I still have feelings for someone... but i cant say who... But i went out with him 2 years ago in 7th grade and it was great. But i never knew what to do either.
This one is up to u. Go with whats in ur heart. Follow it.
Good luck.. let me Know what happens.
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