Q: Hi! My name is Brianna. I recently got out of a relationship of 4 years...so I'm a little lost with this "does he like me" stuff". I'll try not to make this too long. BUT HELP!

Alright, I'm in this internship. One of the other students and I basically began texting and you know, it seemed like it would be flirting. We would go to group lunches and stuff and text basically all of the time. But we decided to make this whole thing a secret because i'm the student coordinator for this internship (he's 22 and I'm 21). He invited me to his house after a few weeks and I said no because i hadn't really known him and I said I would prefer meeting alone for lunch or something. It's rather hard to meet because he works in a different city, commutes to a different city for his internship, and comes to my city for classes on Friday. Eventually, I decided to come over to his place because it's just hard to get together besides friday and I don't have my pwn place either...

I'm not looking for a realtionship either and we've expressed that to each other. But I'm not gonna lie, he's very well together, just graduated, attractive so I wouldn't mind if things worked and maybe i am getting some feelings...but I'll live if it doesn't happen. SO we had sex...a few times. it's fun making this a secret. But I wannt say he's catching feelings too? We had a work trip last week and basically hung out the whole time. even though he asked to keep this a secret, he moved 4 times on the bus to sit next to me, flirts with me like normal and he made a lame excuse to hang with me after the trip once everyone left. He said "where can I get an oil change?". It's like we hang out at his house and sit there like we're 12 and nervous. He comes up with the lamest exucses to text me and they form into conversations (usually questions about work
thats irrelevant). After taking him to a gas station since he wasn't from the area after the trip, we hung out there for like 10 minutes like idiots. Then sat in our cars and stared at eachother smiling at eachother like we didn't want eachother to leave for the next 5 minutes. like WHAT IS GOING ON! So I asked when would we hang out again WITHOUT a group of people and he said he was busy and had to drive home to kentucky. I'm like fine. But we act kind of secret in groups, but more and more hes a little more flirty, but then has moments where i feel like he's just not interested. He hasn't invited me back to his place, and i feel like i'm bugging him and don't want to. So how should i do this? Just let it go? or give him space. There's like 2weeks left of our internship anyway... one more thing...I've hung around him plenty now. He's not a slow texter from what I notice. At first, he would text back pretty quick. Now it's an hour or two or even several. Or sometimes it'll be fast, but mostly slow. Thoughts?

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Q: Hey guys well I had a guy that's known me all my life I'm 19 years old and a girl btw.
He was always making up excuses for why he would have to do something with me another day or when he wanted my help with something the he would be like I'm sorry but I'm busy maybe another time.

But anyways I need to know how to distance myself from him because he was supposed to be there for me but I'm feel like I'm done being his friend.

What should I do?

Q: So there's this guy at my work that I like, and we've been texting each other back and forth pretty often. Before reading week ended, I gave him this gift card to a sushi restaurant and he said we should go, and asked me to go to dinner! He picked me up and dropped me off home but didn't make any move. All throughout dinner it was really nice, it never felt awkward , but I just couldn't read him. Fast forward a few days, I texted him a "so do you know what I was craving today ?! Crepes ! Haha When are you free ? We should go out sometime !" And he replied "Haha I had some on my birthday! But I'm still down for crepes! We should go after exams are done! We can celebrate all of the A's we got haha" . Does it seem like he's interested in me ?? There were other instances where we were talking about soccer and I said I would watch him play over the summer and he said that he'll score a goal for me, or the time when he said he'll buy me green tea kit kat when he goes to Japan cause it's my favourite, or like how he'll teach me ukulele because I'm teaching him violin .... Like does it seem like he just thinks of me as a friend or more ?

Q: I want sex with my boyfriend but I'm lucky if I get a kiss of him. Im a girl and I only got my first bra today and I'm not finished with puberty I've snogged and my ex showed me how to have sex but he left my school my other ex dumped me for two girls in my class. My boyfriend isn't that serious and I want more but the ex that is still in school won't go back out with me.

Q: Hello,
My boyfriend and I are 17 and 18 years old. We started a long distance relationship a little over six months ago. Back then, I was still a virgin and he knew that. However, a few months ago I cheated on him and lost my virginity to a guy I honestly had no feelings for. I was completely aware of what I was doing and I did it because I really just wanted to get it over with. I made sure there were no feelings attached. Now, the guy still chases after me, but I want no business with him, or any other guy rather than my boyfriend. I love him to death and really have no trouble remaining faithful. I realized it wasn't worth it and he's truly the only guy I ever want to be with. However, I know that he'll want to break up with me and his heart will be completely shattered if he knows. He keeps talking about how magical he wants my first time to be once we finally see each other again. And I believe it will be magical because it'll be with him. I don't want to lose him, but I do think he needs to know. I also don't think it's any conversation to have via phone/text/video. A close friend told me not to say anything '"cause there's no point". I know if we were in the same time zone it'd be easier to confess and try to win his trust back, but I have a serious disadvantage by not being able to daily demonstrate my true feelings towards him. I've thought of telling him in the far future, once we're living together, but I don't know how he'll feel about it after such a long time...
Also, I'm actually kind of glad I did it only because it was extremely painful, and he wasn't the one who caused that terrible experience. The guy was gentle, so it would've been bad either way. Should I tell him when we finally meet again? If so, should I do it as soon as possible, or do I give it some time? If I do choose to tell him, I know I probably shouldn't have sex with him until he's known, but I'm terribly scared of ruining the possibility of a future with him.
I'd appreciate any thoughts and advice,
Thank you.

Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for one and a half years now. He was in the same college, two years elder. Passed out the year we started dating and started working. We haven't ever had major problems except for once when he couldn't clear a major exam and his parents blamed it on his distraction because of me but we eventually got back because he got a good job and he loved me.

We just spent the last ten days together on a holiday with his friends and a couple of mine and then at his place alone for a couple of days.
We got into a petty fight two days back and he told me he really thinks we should see new people. He feels since I'm just 19 and he's 22 there is a lot more in life then getting serious for each other.

I let him be for a day and when we met next to talk this out he said he doesn't want to see new people. He was just saying that to make me angry. But he feels like we should break up because he thinks relationships are restrictive and he feels bound and he can't be himself. He told me he wants to still be with me and do all the things we used to do like go out for dinners, watch movies etc but he can't be physical with me. He feels when we do he gets too emotionally attached to me and he doesn't want that .We are too into each other.

He accepted that he still loves me and will because I'm a huge part of his life and he doesn't want to feel this way for any other girl. But right now he feels like he isn't fit for relationships and he can't see himself in one ever, even in the future. He knows i'd wait for this to work out but he said he didnt want to give me false hopes. He would try to make this work out too but right now he cant.

He feels now that we are bound by a relationship he would be able to express his feelings better in front of me. He loves me as much as he loves him mom and best friends and he wants me to be there but he said he can live without the sex.

We agreed on neither breaking up or dating. And I couldn't accept calling this a friendship so we just agreed on not defining it till he clears his head. But I can't stop feeling hurt and insecure.

I love him. But I can't understand what happened to him suddenly. What am I supposed to do? I'm in a delimma because I want him and this relationship back. Is there a chance ? Is this just a phase and should I just play along by giving him time?

Q: okay so i and my bf are about to complete 2yrs. he doesnt have time for me. he is with his friends. he is not romantic and mostly he is very immature. and i expect a lot from him. i want him to spend some time with me, talk to me,go out with me. but thats not the case. we stay far away. he does take a day out for me in a month. but otherwise we get only 7 hrs together and in that 7 hours also we get only 1 hr to be together. he does feel insecure when i tok to some other guy. i just sometimes feel that its me only putting all the efforts in this relationship. and its no use tokn to him. bcz it wont change anything. he just has so many important things in his life than me.

Q: I'm 20 and I broke up with my first love a year ago. I loved him with every fibre in my being and did literally everything for him, even if it went against my morals. I spent all the money I had on getting him expensive gifts and I stuck with him, even when he couldn't care less about me. When we broke up because of the fact that he didn't wanna deal with commitment, at this stage in his life, he wasn't upset, not even for a day. It's been over a year and I've been the only one carrying all this pain and I've been holding so much hope that we could get back together, someday. We still see each other and he kisses me and that's what gave me hope that he still likes me. But last night, he told me that he'd never even think of marrying someone like me and that he needs a submissive kind of girl who doesn't pick up on the wrong things he does, like I did.I always picked up on all his lies and everything he hid from me. It hit me all at once, last night that he's been using me this past year and using my vulnerability. I cried in front of him for two hours straight and he kept saying the same things like "You're not my first love so I can't hold that much love for you" and "I told you I didn't want a relationship" "My first made me lose all my emotions" . I don't know why I'm so attached to him or why I'm even this devastated over a jerk like him. I just need someone to talk some sense into me. I worry, that I'll never be good enough for someone. What else can I do for someone to make them appreciate me? I allowed him to cross so many limits of mine and went above and beyond for him, and I get this, in return. How will I expect the next guy in my life to appreciate what I'll do for him and not break my heart again?

Q: Okay so, My best friends name is Lindsey and she is a lesbian who recently came out. Sometimes we cuddle and we made out once. I used to be 100% sure I was straight but now I don't know. Lindsey just makes me feel really special and I want to hold her in my arms all the time. I don't know if I just like her as my best friend or more than that. And even if I do like her more than that I wouldn't want to tell anyone because I'm scared that people will think I'm a complete lesbian and then they won't like me. People as in boys. I just need help, like how do you know if your gay or not? Oh I'm 15 and a female by the way.

Q: hey my name is zohra and iam from india. my age is 22. My story is firstly my fb was open and my frnd sent a frnd request to a guy frm my profile and after acceptn he initiated the convo with me. the next day when i went to cafe he is in my college he was there he was looking at me the whole time but wen i look he turns away and this kept on happenin wen iam not there he always searches for me coz my frnd alwayz notices him and he makes a point to sit n frnt of me or sit at a place where he can see me but he has a really high ego problem. Then I started initiatin txt wid him he alwayzz was the one to prolong it and always I end the convo. when i went to watch the match in cafe he txted me where am i wen i tld him iam there he came n 5 mins but we never spoke face to face tat day i tld him hi after that he alwayzz initiated convo wid me but n txts he will not reply he looks at me so many times my frnd alwayzz catches him lookin at me... when i tld him that black stud suits him he tld me that he has lost it but he changed to black stud after a week. When i tld he looks good n traditional dress so fr every friday he wears traditional dress. and then when i was so confirmed that he likes me i confessed to him but he tld me he likes me as a frnd but i tink he s lyin its so obvious with his actions that its nt frndshp so i tld him its okay so he txted me i hope you get over dis and i tld i will he dint reply after that. the nxt day i put up a pic wid my brother he also changed his watsapp dp wid his sister and he changed his status to the greatest weakness of humans iss there hesitancy to tell the other person how much they love them when they are alive.and the nxt day n cafe he still looks at me still sits n frnt f me smiles also i really dont understand this guy and f he sees me wid other guys he stares at me. and so i txted him v can jus b frnds as you said you can b normal wid me cancel out wat i confessed to you but he did not reply. oh by the way i confessed him by texting not in person. so wat should i tink wat s goin on n his head. my frnd says may b he expected you to tell him to tink overbut i never did tat m frnd s dam sure tat he lyks me me also but my frnd says may b he needs sum tym wat shld i do wid him ????? should i just move on or should i wait for him????? you tink he has feelings fr me?????????iam too confused he s confusin me too much and his frnds alwayzzz tease him wen iam around its so obvious everythn s so obvious but cant he jus accept it??????????

Q: I have liked a boy in one of my classes since 3rd grade, and im almost out of 5th now(aka I'm 11). I want to acualy TALK to him before the years out, but a:I'm too shy and b: I have absolutly NO CLUE what to.say. any Advice?and obvosly I'm a girl.

Q: I had asked my girlfriend some questions about our relationship but she said she wanted to take things slow, she is not even ready to make out. Im curious as of how slow she will take this relationship? If you have ANY answer to this, pls let me know soon...

Q: My partner and I have been together for just over 3 years and in that time things havent been bad but havent been the greatest. I am 26 he is 22, from the beginning I saw signs that something was up. When we first started dating if I didnt want to do something with him one night he would drive by my house several times asking if I want to see him - or just appear at my door. if I said no - he would get upset and not talk to me for hours.

We moved in together 2 years ago - and things have been getting worse...and I am starting to realize it now (everyone can see it). I am told when to get out of bed, when I can go to bed, when I can do everything, calling me stupid blaming EVERYTHING on me - He has a very short fuse - to the point i am scared to say anything to him. Just the other night we got into an argument (he wanted me to call someone and I didnt want to) he got VERY angry - got in my face clintched his fist and swung - stopping it less than an inch from my face. and stormed away. I have never been so scared - he has never done this kind of a thing before. and about 50 mins later he apologized and wnats to move on. But i dont know if I can. It scared me. Is this abuse? Should I leave??

Q: In a few weeks my girlfriend will be 30. We live 3 hours away from each other and wth work not sure if we will get to spend it together. She isnt into flowers so what could I do to really wow her?

Q: ok, so i wanna know if this guy likes me (i like him too) here is how we "flirt"
~we put our hands on each others thighs and we dont mind
~we always hug like were going out (he comes up from behind me and hugs my waist)
~i told my friends (he was also there) that if you make a little heart with another person (with your fingers) and it comes out cute, then your meant to be! then, he did it with me and everyone said it was cute!
~Tons of people asked us if we were dating.
~he ALWAYS insists on sitting next to me
~ i had to go somewhere and he was leaving so i grabbed his arm so he could stay with me and he laced our fingers together and we held hands for like 2 min and it wasnt ackward or anything!
So yea, hope you guys can answer this ASAP! lol thnx(:

Q: i'm 14 and i've been going out with my boyfriend since december. we don't go to the same school, and he lives about 20-30 away if i'm walking and he has a dad who rarely lets him out. i haven't seen him in a month and we haven't really talked since a conversation about breaking up. i'm scared to lose him..even if he says we'll still be friends, i'm afraid things won't be the same.
how do i make things better? what do i say to him in person since he avoids me on facebook?

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Q: I'll try and make a long story short...
Basically a co worker of mine started acting interested in me but i knew he had a girlfriend so I kind of backed off and assumed he'd back off eventually too. We got more serious and i started to really like him. We hangout all the time, he tells me he cares about me , he buys me flowers, takes me out to eat,and is just a guy I really want to be with. He kept breaking up with his girlfriend for me ,but getting back together with her because he's been with her for 4 years... and doesn't want to let her go to waste because he thinks that I may let him down. At first,that was true but now I'm really falling for him and he says he's starting to really have feelings for me too. He tried breaking things off with me ,and later that same night he ended up at my house because we love being together. He says he loves his girlfriend too though and he doesn't lie to me about it,he basically says he wishes she'd mess up so he could have a reason to break up with her to make things less complicated.I know for a fact he hangs out with me a lot more than her and it's getting to the point where I won't just let go,especially knowing that he feels the same way about me. Fortunately, I've never had to go through what he's going through,but I understand how hard it could be having her and then falling for me at the same time. Even when he'd come over ,he'd leave and 5 minutes later tell me he already misses me. I just don't know whether I should keep hanging out with him and let his feelings get stronger for me (because he pretty much told me that would happen if we kept up how we are ) or if I should let him go and see if he chases after me ,and risk my feelings being hurt. We have hooked up lots of times, (not sex) and he's basically treated me like his "other girlfriend" but obviously i don't like this situation. I feel like he wouldn't have cheated on her if he really loved her, but i'm just very confused and I don't want to let him go because he's the best guy I've ever liked and I also work with him...please help!

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