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iam n love with this guy


Question Posted Tuesday May 6 2014, 10:05 pm

hey my name is zohra and iam from india. my age is 22. My story is firstly my fb was open and my frnd sent a frnd request to a guy frm my profile and after acceptn he initiated the convo with me. the next day when i went to cafe he is in my college he was there he was looking at me the whole time but wen i look he turns away and this kept on happenin wen iam not there he always searches for me coz my frnd alwayz notices him and he makes a point to sit n frnt of me or sit at a place where he can see me but he has a really high ego problem. Then I started initiatin txt wid him he alwayzz was the one to prolong it and always I end the convo. when i went to watch the match in cafe he txted me where am i wen i tld him iam there he came n 5 mins but we never spoke face to face tat day i tld him hi after that he alwayzz initiated convo wid me but n txts he will not reply he looks at me so many times my frnd alwayzz catches him lookin at me... when i tld him that black stud suits him he tld me that he has lost it but he changed to black stud after a week. When i tld he looks good n traditional dress so fr every friday he wears traditional dress. and then when i was so confirmed that he likes me i confessed to him but he tld me he likes me as a frnd but i tink he s lyin its so obvious with his actions that its nt frndshp so i tld him its okay so he txted me i hope you get over dis and i tld i will he dint reply after that. the nxt day i put up a pic wid my brother he also changed his watsapp dp wid his sister and he changed his status to the greatest weakness of humans iss there hesitancy to tell the other person how much they love them when they are alive.and the nxt day n cafe he still looks at me still sits n frnt f me smiles also i really dont understand this guy and f he sees me wid other guys he stares at me. and so i txted him v can jus b frnds as you said you can b normal wid me cancel out wat i confessed to you but he did not reply. oh by the way i confessed him by texting not in person. so wat should i tink wat s goin on n his head. my frnd says may b he expected you to tell him to tink overbut i never did tat m frnd s dam sure tat he lyks me me also but my frnd says may b he needs sum tym wat shld i do wid him ????? should i just move on or should i wait for him????? you tink he has feelings fr me?????????iam too confused he s confusin me too much and his frnds alwayzzz tease him wen iam around its so obvious everythn s so obvious but cant he jus accept it??????????

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CLN answered Tuesday May 6 2014, 11:24 pm:
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first thing it really sounds like you likes you. But also you have to know how to read him. If he looks at you is he looking at you just because he knows your looking at him, or is he looking at you as if hes attracted to you like he cant keep his eyes off. If you like him and you think he really like you try this.

next time you look at him make a short amount of eye contact but dont smile lol it might sound crazy but this will get his head to keep your face in his mind soo he will sit there and think about it for the longest, he will think of very hard and a picture of your face will be trapped in his head try to avoid him so that he will be stuck with your image.. next time you see him smile do the same thing but continue to disappear on him he will text you when he feel your fading away. then tell him you liked him more as a friend so you decided its hard to just be friends with someone you want to be much more with.


but hey if this work great if not it looks like im still stuck in the old fairy tales lol good luck

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